Can't say she was ever cheating since she had a hall pass from me since before we got married. However finding out she was actually using the hall pass was pretty exciting every time it happened. I had a good friend and room mate that had a green light from me to fuck her when ever he could get her to play along. Was always fun finding out after the fact that she had offered him some pussy when I had to leave to go to work. The first time she offered her pussy to a young security guy at her work that was flirting her up. He knew she married and got scared away when she straight up offered to let him fuck her. Next was when she told me her boss had been letting her watch him jerk off in his office and she would help by lifting her skirt and rubbing her cunt while he watched. He did not want to "cheat" on his wife by fucking her but loved to have her watch him jerk off. He did bend her over his desk on his last day there before he left for a new job. Told her he needed to know what it felt like to be in her so she bent over his desk, lifted her skirt and and let him pull her panties aside and slide in. She said it wasn't fucking because he did not cum in her....lol. She flirted with another co-worker for a few years and enjoyed his company on a work trip (no fucking that I know of). She found herself out with him and other co-workers after a work event and he walked her to her car. She said she wanted his cock and was so horny for him she took him bareback. I found out when she came home, told me she had been "naughty" and shoved her cunt in my face. Not sure how many times they fucked but my dick got hard every time she told me she was "working late". Those are a few. I'm sure their are details she has kept to herself. Despite my loving how much of a slut she is (love woman who love sex) I think sometimes she is embarrassed by her lust and likes to think of her self as a "good girl". To me she is the best.
How did you find out and what was your response to finding out that your wife was cheating?
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I found out she had been cheating following a tip off from a workmate. I knew she had a boyfriend, or should I say, I believed she had a boyfriend who was a complete stranger to me. As it turned out she had been lying to me for a whole year, because, all this time she had been fucking two of my closest pals almost every Saturday night. One of my buddies, who was single, had his own apartment and that is where my wife went on her date night. My two pals indulged her in all manner of sex before she came home to me full of their cum.
I met up with my buddies every Sunday night totally unaware that both of them had been fucking my wife the night before. When I learned of this I confronted her and she admitted it. At my insistence, she went on to tell me the whole story with all the juicy details. I must confess to being angry at first, but when the lust kicked in it made me so horny that I actually enjoyed it.
As it happened she had already broke it off with them in order to avoid being found out, otherwise I think I would probably have encouraged her to carry on seeing them. That was years ago and neither of my pals are aware that I know of their secret.
I met up with my buddies every Sunday night totally unaware that both of them had been fucking my wife the night before. When I learned of this I confronted her and she admitted it. At my insistence, she went on to tell me the whole story with all the juicy details. I must confess to being angry at first, but when the lust kicked in it made me so horny that I actually enjoyed it.
As it happened she had already broke it off with them in order to avoid being found out, otherwise I think I would probably have encouraged her to carry on seeing them. That was years ago and neither of my pals are aware that I know of their secret.
You can encourage her to restart this with other friends of yours
Some years back, I decided to surprise her by getting dinner for her as she was "working late". I found her having dinner near her workplace with a buddy instead. She eventually admitted that they've been going out although she didn't admit to fucking him.
THis buddy once told other friends that he'd fuck her someday and always get any woman he wants. From that day on, he started avoiding me so they had probably been fucking for some time before I found out
To late for her to start again now, this happened many years ago but I wish I had at the time. How about you, were you angry or turned on? Did you encourage her to go on seeing him?
No, I didn't. I was quite upset that she had been lying to me about working late and going out with him.
Although if I'm being honest, I was curious how many times he fucked her and what he thought of her skills in bed.
The problem in my case I believe, is that my wife had so much freedom, and because she had fucked so many guys over the previous years that she probably felt she could just go out and fuck anyone she wanted without any repercussion. In effect she was out of control because it didn't stop at my two buddies, she went on to have an affair with her cousins husband and also the young guy from next door. She didn't attempt to keep it from me though and it I have to confess to enjoying it. There was another occasion when she had been on a night out with her friends in a nearby pub. She was was walking home at the end of the night when she bumped into another of my pals. As he was heading her way so he walked home with her, but here's the twist, I wasn't at home, I was at work on the nightshift. She told me about this the following day and naturally I asked the obvious, "please tell me you didn't fuck him" She hesitated before answering but she said no, of course not, he was too ...... to do anything". I asked myself, does that mean she would have fucked him if he wasn't ......" or there again, maybe she did fuck him and wasn't going to admit to it. To this day she still sticks to her original story so I have to accept it, however, whenever I'm with my buddy I still wonder if he has fucked my wife. For sure he will never tell me if he did.
In all honesty, I enjoyed her frisky, promiscuous behaviour so much, and because we had so much wonderful sex on the back of it, she could have fucked anyone she wanted and I wouldn't have lifted a finger to stop her.
At least she tells you about the men she's fucking, even if you don't get to watch. It must be quite heart-wrenching, wondering how they fucked her.
In my case, it's all based on conjecture and circumstantial evidence of her cheating, unfortunately. Unless I plant a bug on her, at the risk of her discovering and using it as a reason to end the marriage, when she's the one cheating.
Shadow her on one of those "business" trips- and get the evidence- or as my Colleagues ex-wife did, call both the husband and his female colleague at the same time early in the morning! Asian women will never admit to cheating till really confronted with hard evidence!
Same here, our sex life was wonderful and sometimes I would get sloppy seconds. Loved the benefits especially after she knew it turned me on.
Is your wife Asian too?
I don't see how I can shadow her anywhere without her noticing, hence I'm looking for someone she doesn't know to shadow/test her.
Yeah Asian cuties you can catch with cum running down their thighs and they will deny that they fucked a huge black dick. But if you want to eat their messy cunny they will gush all over you. At least , well a friend told me. 😆
Your friend knows Asian ladies well. Except that they love BWCs too.
Mine flirts with every white man she knows and probably has fucked a few.
Th
is an awesome lady. Not afraid to enjoy what makes her happy.
A bit of context, she's a 5'6, 123lbs, 34C-27-36 body, pretty and fair Chinese. She was in her late 30s when it happened. We had already opened our marriage with a MFM and a SRS. But she said she didnt really enjoy those experiences as she needed a real bond to enjoy sex. More importantly, she didnt like having me around, as she felt like she was performing for me instead of enjoying herself. I, on the other hand, didnt like her playing on her own in any capacity.
That is when she met a guy online and started chatting regularly for over a year. As he was from a different country, there was no meeting initially. They mainly sexted, exchange naughty pics and vids, and occasional virtual sex via video conference.
I didnt like that she wanted to go find him alone, and I told her that even if she wanted to visit him, I would go with her. What happened instead was that he planned a visit over to our side instead. Although I found out about this visit months in advance, I didn't confront her as she would easily deny any intent to meet.
Hence, I was on high alert when the dates came. I tracked her phone and noticed that she went to a hotel in the middle of a work day, after I dropped her off at her office. This went on for 3 days, when she finally went off to airport with him to see him off.
That was when I finally confronted her and forced a confession out of her. She gave me a blow by blow detail recounting of how she cheated on me for 3 days in a row, with a guy whom she met technically for the first time.
That is when she met a guy online and started chatting regularly for over a year. As he was from a different country, there was no meeting initially. They mainly sexted, exchange naughty pics and vids, and occasional virtual sex via video conference.
I didnt like that she wanted to go find him alone, and I told her that even if she wanted to visit him, I would go with her. What happened instead was that he planned a visit over to our side instead. Although I found out about this visit months in advance, I didn't confront her as she would easily deny any intent to meet.
Hence, I was on high alert when the dates came. I tracked her phone and noticed that she went to a hotel in the middle of a work day, after I dropped her off at her office. This went on for 3 days, when she finally went off to airport with him to see him off.
That was when I finally confronted her and forced a confession out of her. She gave me a blow by blow detail recounting of how she cheated on me for 3 days in a row, with a guy whom she met technically for the first time.
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She told me two weeks after I'd slipped a Hall Pass card into her handbag.
My wife was 40 and had fucked our 63-year-old neighbor. His cock was bigger and he could last a long time.
She slept with him for over a year.
My wife was 40 and had fucked our 63-year-old neighbor. His cock was bigger and he could last a long time.
She slept with him for over a year.
My ex wife always enjoyed attention, early on she was a stay at home mom and would chat with guys online all day. She eventually went to work in a daycare where she became really friendly with a few of the dads. It started out they would bring her breakfast, one had a detailing business and would wash her car once a week. One day she nervously asked me if one of them could take her to lunch, to which I said of course. That became a pretty regular occurrence between three. different guys.
I still was of the thiught that she probably wasn't doing anything with them, we'd fuck regularly, there were no signs that i saw. Working where she did, all of her coworkers were women. In most groups of women there are always a few that enjoy drama. When I would pick my ...... up, some of the other ladies in the daycare would make comments like, I need to watch her or your wife has been busy today. I still let it go until she started babysitting for the families of two of the three guys. She would come home, shower, put on makeup and dress more provocatively. Not over the top slutty, just more than babysitting should require.
I began to take her coworkers seriously. I was only a husband of a couple years but I had been horny and a little twisted most of my life. The thoughts of her getting fucked by a couple of other men overode my jealousy even though there was jealousy. Not jealousy that she was getting cock but jealousy that she didn't tell me. I still had no concrete evidence but in the haste of youth I couldn't keep my mouth shut. I told her what I suspected, of course she denied it. I told her that it was fine with me if she was fucking another guy or two or three, that I would just like to know about it.
She still denied it. A couple of weeks later she told me about her friend at work, a busy single ...... that just needed some sex. My ex wanted me to take care of her, which I did. She ended up being our girlfriend for awhile. Looking back i realize that girl was just a distraction but I really don't care, we had some good times and the whole situation started a sexual journey for us, one that kept us together alot longer than we would have been.
I still was of the thiught that she probably wasn't doing anything with them, we'd fuck regularly, there were no signs that i saw. Working where she did, all of her coworkers were women. In most groups of women there are always a few that enjoy drama. When I would pick my ...... up, some of the other ladies in the daycare would make comments like, I need to watch her or your wife has been busy today. I still let it go until she started babysitting for the families of two of the three guys. She would come home, shower, put on makeup and dress more provocatively. Not over the top slutty, just more than babysitting should require.
I began to take her coworkers seriously. I was only a husband of a couple years but I had been horny and a little twisted most of my life. The thoughts of her getting fucked by a couple of other men overode my jealousy even though there was jealousy. Not jealousy that she was getting cock but jealousy that she didn't tell me. I still had no concrete evidence but in the haste of youth I couldn't keep my mouth shut. I told her what I suspected, of course she denied it. I told her that it was fine with me if she was fucking another guy or two or three, that I would just like to know about it.
She still denied it. A couple of weeks later she told me about her friend at work, a busy single ...... that just needed some sex. My ex wanted me to take care of her, which I did. She ended up being our girlfriend for awhile. Looking back i realize that girl was just a distraction but I really don't care, we had some good times and the whole situation started a sexual journey for us, one that kept us together alot longer than we would have been.
Oh I'm not. If we weren't fucking each other or somebody else we were fighting.
My wife has never been faithful, even as far back as our dating years, engagement, and throughout our marriage.
In full transparency, I was suspicious of her multiple times throughout our relationship, but chose either to deny, or ignore the signs of her infidelity.
I first became actively aware of her cheating, or more correctly unconfirmed, without direct evidence of it, about six months after we'd been married. The short version, I'm fairly certain Krista was fucking two of our acquaintances, the guys we bought pot from, behind my back. I chose not to take any action, stopping short of busting into our apartment one evening when she wasn't expecting me home.
The first actual confirming evidence was several months later - Krista had gotten a job with a real estate firm. Various signs, new clothes, shoes, etc. began to pop up. Again, summarizing, I followed her one day, and caught her going into, then out of an apartment the firm managed - two hours later... with her boss...
Over the next few months, I followed her several times, same routine - afternoon delight with the boss. This was still the Polaroid era.
I never confronted her, which has basically been the pattern since we've been together.
In full transparency, I was suspicious of her multiple times throughout our relationship, but chose either to deny, or ignore the signs of her infidelity.
I first became actively aware of her cheating, or more correctly unconfirmed, without direct evidence of it, about six months after we'd been married. The short version, I'm fairly certain Krista was fucking two of our acquaintances, the guys we bought pot from, behind my back. I chose not to take any action, stopping short of busting into our apartment one evening when she wasn't expecting me home.
The first actual confirming evidence was several months later - Krista had gotten a job with a real estate firm. Various signs, new clothes, shoes, etc. began to pop up. Again, summarizing, I followed her one day, and caught her going into, then out of an apartment the firm managed - two hours later... with her boss...
Over the next few months, I followed her several times, same routine - afternoon delight with the boss. This was still the Polaroid era.
I never confronted her, which has basically been the pattern since we've been together.
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