How did your wife react when she first found out you wanted someone else to fuck her in front of you? What did she do?

[Jake44]

My situation was different. I did not want her fucking other guyss. She told me and showed me she was fucking other guys and would continue to so. I was told I could stay and live with it or go. I stayed and for years I have been a happy cuck.

 

[imherManwantHER]

I got the same results as above. She thought I was crazy and didn't want her any longer. To the contrary. I do not have cuck intentions, Iam way too into sex to retire. I am rather turned on by every element of her sexuality and have wanted it for some time now. She thinks I may have a sex addiction. I might but no intent of giving up. Once she sort of agreed I would not let up until we had some solid plans or she would have just let it pass. It took some trial and error where I could not be present (not doing that again ) but we got there last night. I was able to see her in the act and damn, wow. So hot. Well worth the effort.

How much time you think passed between your first ever telling her about your kink and it finally actually happening? Person, I’m so into it and it’s getting close but I agree, I’d likewise not be down for the situation if I weren’t present and able to participate if not generally oversee.

 

[Phun Times 727]

How much time you think passed between your first ever telling her about your kink and it finally actually happening? Person, I’m so into it and it’s getting close but I agree, I’d likewise not be down for the situation if I weren’t present and able to participate if not generally oversee.

Well I held it in for years, I mean like a decade before talking to her about it and at that point I was just not able to keep it in. My fantasy was to watch her have a threesome with 2 other men with me watching. That still has not happened but as far as time frame from talk to action was much shorter than I thought it might take. At the time we realized getting another guy to agree to ...... with a married woman while her husband watches might be a rare guy to find but finding two and getting them to show up and do it and the agreed time would be a miracle, so we opted to start with just one, get him on board with it then find another. It seemed like the easiest way. We tried to just get a friend to help us get started and that didn't work completely as he had a girl friend and she was to uptight. My wife did perform oral on him a couple of times though within 2 weeks of our initial talk so lets say 2 weeks from talk to some action. It didn't work with him (at that time) and we decided my wife would just go out and see if she would meet a guy who expressed interest in her. That worked. We never looked for the second guy though and we wound up having our own MFM with him many times over the course of the next year.
In retrospect it took less convincing and less time to go from thought in my head to her with another man than I expected it would.

 

[Ht805cpl]

Our first time took a while we first talked about it, I had lots of questions, then once I agreed it was how to find someone, this was long before swing clubs and internet sex sites, but he finally found the right guy or at least a guy he trusted enough to ask, I was excited, afraid and unsure how it would go or happen but once he was with us, we had a drink and some light kissing and touching and a suggestion to move to the bed room, once there it just happened, he knew what to do and it was amazing being with another man along with my husband, once we got started my man stepped back and watched us make love to each other, sipping his drink rubbing his hard dick, when the guy finished it was my husbands turn, as our new friend watched, and for the rest of the night they took turns with me while the other watched. Once he left, we made love again, and my man asked well what did you think, I said it was great, when is he coming back? He laughed and said damn baby, I’ll talk to him tomorrow, I think it was one or two days later he was back, and from that day forward he became a very regular visitor to our bed room! I couldn’t get enough of him and it excited my husband so much that once he left we’d make love to each other so intently, like he was reclaiming me as his wife!

 

[Phun Times 727]

Well I held it in for years, I mean like a decade before talking to her about it and at that point I was just not able to keep it in. My fantasy was to watch her have a threesome with 2 other men with me watching. That still has not happened but as far as time frame from talk to action was much shorter than I thought it might take. At the time we realized getting another guy to agree to ...... with a married woman while her husband watches might be a rare guy to find but finding two and getting them to show up and do it and the agreed time would be a miracle, so we opted to start with just one, get him on board with it then find another. It seemed like the easiest way. We tried to just get a friend to help us get started and that didn't work completely as he had a girl friend and she was to uptight. My wife did perform oral on him a couple of times though within 2 weeks of our initial talk so lets say 2 weeks from talk to some action. It didn't work with him (at that time) and we decided my wife would just go out and see if she would meet a guy who expressed interest in her. That worked. We never looked for the second guy though and we wound up having our own MFM with him many times over the course of the next year.
In retrospect it took less convincing and less time to go from thought in my head to her with another man than I expected it would.

I am not saying our approach was the right one, in fact we made several mistakes. We thought that involving a friend vs a stranger or actual bull (didn't know any at the time) was a way to test the waters. It was a mistake, it made things awkward as it did not work out. We tried another friend and her boyfriend, similar result. This is what had us thinking my wife could just go pick up a guy and that worked. She usually has younger guys hitting on her so it was a pretty safe bet. Where we went wrong was she was struggling with what I suggested it and internalized it and felt I didn't want her, hence thinking I was trying to get rid of her. So she didn't pick the guy up as a "hey do you want to fool around while my husband watches" but rather just a regular hookup and kept it that way for a few dates before she revealed to him what the situation was. I was personally in a hurry to get to the point of watching her with another man I knew we were making mistakes but was just pushing forward as I had never had a threesome before and was very eager. I was willing to overlook a lot of issues just to get things happening and over the next year continued to overlook things in exchange for what was happening, even now a year and a half in there are trade offs. We are both dealing with issues individually and as a couple.

 

[titans7453]

I posted this on page one. I forgot to add this paragraph about her first MMF experience after a year and half of me talking her into trying it once.

Keeping in mind she was 29 or 30 and we all had a lot of sexual energy we kept busy sucking and fucking until all were satiated. He thanked us profusely and left. We collapsed in bed asleep. In the morning I was afraid she would feel guilty and say never again. I asked her what she thought about everything that happened. She asked me if I had a good time. I assured her I had and she said great. I asked would she do it again and she said probably but it would have to our special secret and we must be discreet
I did not take any photos, but later got her to wear the same garters and dress she wore that first timeView attachment 2540990View attachment 2540991View attachment 2540992

What a lucky guy to be able to fuck your wife. I would still like to fuck her if I had my chance.

 

[werekinky2]

I am not saying our approach was the right one, in fact we made several mistakes. We thought that involving a friend vs a stranger or actual bull (didn't know any at the time) was a way to test the waters. It was a mistake, it made things awkward as it did not work out. We tried another friend and her boyfriend, similar result. This is what had us thinking my wife could just go pick up a guy and that worked. She usually has younger guys hitting on her so it was a pretty safe bet. Where we went wrong was she was struggling with what I suggested it and internalized it and felt I didn't want her, hence thinking I was trying to get rid of her. So she didn't pick the guy up as a "hey do you want to fool around while my husband watches" but rather just a regular hookup and kept it that way for a few dates before she revealed to him what the situation was. I was personally in a hurry to get to the point of watching her with another man I knew we were making mistakes but was just pushing forward as I had never had a threesome before and was very eager. I was willing to overlook a lot of issues just to get things happening and over the next year continued to overlook things in exchange for what was happening, even now a year and a half in there are trade offs. We are both dealing with issues individually and as a couple.

It’s amazing how difficult it can be at times to find someone to fuck yourwife. I also had approached a friend to fuck my wife and he turned down the idea… I was like WTH is wrong with him lol.

 

[Hotwifelove]

She found a very young bull and fucked him in front of me. Over and over

 

[displayed4u2c]

She actually was the one who brought it up, when I said hell yes, she went out had her nails, hair & makeup done, bought new 5" heels & extremely slutty clothes & lingerie & gave me a list of hotel bars to take her to

 

[Ht805cpl]

I am not saying our approach was the right one, in fact we made several mistakes. We thought that involving a friend vs a stranger or actual bull (didn't know any at the time) was a way to test the waters. It was a mistake, it made things awkward as it did not work out. We tried another friend and her boyfriend, similar result. This is what had us thinking my wife could just go pick up a guy and that worked. She usually has younger guys hitting on her so it was a pretty safe bet. Where we went wrong was she was struggling with what I suggested it and internalized it and felt I didn't want her, hence thinking I was trying to get rid of her. So she didn't pick the guy up as a "hey do you want to fool around while my husband watches" but rather just a regular hookup and kept it that way for a few dates before she revealed to him what the situation was. I was personally in a hurry to get to the point of watching her with another man I knew we were making mistakes but was just pushing forward as I had never had a threesome before and was very eager. I was willing to overlook a lot of issues just to get things happening and over the next year continued to overlook things in exchange for what was happening, even now a year and a half in there are trade offs. We are both dealing with issues individually and as a couple.

I love your ups n downs of the exploring, I am not sure there is a perfect way to get started. Friend stranger or club we’ve tried them all, our first few times went well with friends who became better friends we’ve also met with strangers whom also became great long term friends but not all of them. As a mature woman and long time swinger and sometimes hot wife, I think for anyone thinking of exploring this life style it is of most importance you have a strong loving relationship together. Other wise so many things can go wrong or perhaps in a direction you didn’t plan for. I know for us it has on many different occasions not gone as planned. A few times I’ve gotten too attached to someone not my husband or have taken it to mean it is ok to fool around on my own. Fortunately for us we have worked it out and stayed together and corrected the direction of our open relationship. As a woman I think our feelings are if our husbands what to share us with other men or swing with other couples our first instinct is he wants to fool around and wants me to also or he doesn’t really love me, I think as a couple we must be open honest and secure in our relationship together before thinking about any form of swinging threesomes or cuckolding as I can very easily go the wrong direction as you have so honestly stated. Every couple is different but I’d advise anyone thinking on this venture to insure you are both secure in your love for each other and both desire to explore this together. What I found worked best for us was after when alone we’d have great sex together then talk about how we felt about what just happened. It has worked out for the best for us but it does not always happen like that. Thank you for sharing your good n bad aspect of the indulgence into the life style.

 

[Phun Times 727]

I love your ups n downs of the exploring, I am not sure there is a perfect way to get started. Friend stranger or club we’ve tried them all, our first few times went well with friends who became better friends we’ve also met with strangers whom also became great long term friends but not all of them. As a mature woman and long time swinger and sometimes hot wife, I think for anyone thinking of exploring this life style it is of most importance you have a strong loving relationship together. Other wise so many things can go wrong or perhaps in a direction you didn’t plan for. I know for us it has on many different occasions not gone as planned. A few times I’ve gotten too attached to someone not my husband or have taken it to mean it is ok to fool around on my own. Fortunately for us we have worked it out and stayed together and corrected the direction of our open relationship. As a woman I think our feelings are if our husbands what to share us with other men or swing with other couples our first instinct is he wants to fool around and wants me to also or he doesn’t really love me, I think as a couple we must be open honest and secure in our relationship together before thinking about any form of swinging threesomes or cuckolding as I can very easily go the wrong direction as you have so honestly stated. Every couple is different but I’d advise anyone thinking on this venture to insure you are both secure in your love for each other and both desire to explore this together. What I found worked best for us was after when alone we’d have great sex together then talk about how we felt about what just happened. It has worked out for the best for us but it does not always happen like that. Thank you for sharing your good n bad aspect of the indulgence into the life style.

You hit some of the exact speedbumps we did. We spent years in monogamy where love and sex were intertwined then "out of the blue" (not really as it had been on my mind for years) I hit her with my fantasy of watching her in a threesome with two other men. Of course she pushed back at first but even after agreeing she held a lot of feelings. She did at that time think I was pushing her so I would have a means to fool around myself, which I was not looking to do. She didn't really have the ability at the time to separate love and just plain sex so when she started to see someone he became a boyfriend and before long emotions and feelings were there and she became torn emotionally between her long time marriage and this new relationship that was exciting and fresh. It was difficult. I tried my best to convey confidence to her but I struggled and so did she. Eventually it became too much as her boyfriend wanted more. he was much younger and at an age where it made sense for him to settle down but his "girlfriend" had a husband. For a bit things were very strained but she finally decided to end it with him.

Our relationship was and is based in communication. It isn't easy to fully express to someone else what you really want sexually and in can be embarrassing but it really has to happen or the likelihood of getting your desired outcome is low. We have a friend who has been in the lifestyle for a long time and she has been one of the few people we can talk to about it. It isn't a perfect situation to emulate, at least for me as her marriage is not what I want. While it isn't something I want to do but we have both agreed we are willing to be flexible in trying things a few times for the other person.

At the end of the day we place our relationship first, meaning marriage, and any fantasy/play is second to that.

 

[Phun Times 727]

It’s amazing how difficult it can be at times to find someone to fuck yourwife. I also had approached a friend to fuck my wife and he turned down the idea… I was like WTH is wrong with him lol.

Never in a million years would I think it would take anything more than saying yes to the first guy that asks but it isn't that easy. If we go out and I leave to get drinks or use restroom etc there will be a guy talking to my wife sure as the day is long. Now if she asked him to go home with her some would be scared off as it doesn't usually work that easy but some would score. Now introduce me watching and that number drops fast. I knew our friend had the hots for her, its why we decided on him but he had a girlfriend at the time and it just restricted him from doing it. We went another route with a different friend, female friend dating a new guy post divorce. She used to bend our ear about how much sex they had and how large he was etc so we thought well this has got to be it. My wife agreed to it but said she could barely be in same room with him.

 

[Ht805cpl]

You hit some of the exact speedbumps we did. We spent years in monogamy where love and sex were intertwined then "out of the blue" (not really as it had been on my mind for years) I hit her with my fantasy of watching her in a threesome with two other men. Of course she pushed back at first but even after agreeing she held a lot of feelings. She did at that time think I was pushing her so I would have a means to fool around myself, which I was not looking to do. She didn't really have the ability at the time to separate love and just plain sex so when she started to see someone he became a boyfriend and before long emotions and feelings were there and she became torn emotionally between her long time marriage and this new relationship that was exciting and fresh. It was difficult. I tried my best to convey confidence to her but I struggled and so did she. Eventually it became too much as her boyfriend wanted more. he was much younger and at an age where it made sense for him to settle down but his "girlfriend" had a husband. For a bit things were very strained but she finally decided to end it with him.

Our relationship was and is based in communication. It isn't easy to fully express to someone else what you really want sexually and in can be embarrassing but it really has to happen or the likelihood of getting your desired outcome is low. We have a friend who has been in the lifestyle for a long time and she has been one of the few people we can talk to about it. It isn't a perfect situation to emulate, at least for me as her marriage is not what I want. While it isn't something I want to do but we have both agreed we are willing to be flexible in trying things a few times for the other person.

At the end of the day we place our relationship first, meaning marriage, and any fantasy/play is second to that.

So happy to hear you have found a balance and have placed your relationship first. I think that is most important although it seems not many understand that in the beginning. Funny you say it was not your intent for you to fool around but to see her with others, for us it was the exact opposite, he wanted to have sex with others so getting me to swing was the avenue to allow him to be with other women, although we’ve both had to deal with some jealousy on both parts, we have worked through it, for me when he spends too much time with one woman I tend to get jealous, for him I think it was when I started going alone with the same guy in addition to our threesomes. He always seem to be ok watching me or sharing me with other men it was when I would play with them alone he’d get jealous, in time we both agreed we’d play together, and on rare occasions if a guy asked me to play alone I tell him to ask my husband, and he has agreed at times but only with guys we’ve had long term relationships with as a couple. I rarely allow him to swing alone, but it has happened. Today we are most happy with a regular guy we both have become close to and having sex together, of course he knows there are times I need him to step back and watch if he likes but I need to give myself fully to my lover. I think you said it best, it took a very long time for me to separate sex and love, I think it was easier for him! Although you two are much younger I think we have much in common!

 

[werekinky2]

Never in a million years would I think it would take anything more than saying yes to the first guy that asks but it isn't that easy. If we go out and I leave to get drinks or use restroom etc there will be a guy talking to my wife sure as the day is long. Now if she asked him to go home with her some would be scared off as it doesn't usually work that easy but some would score. Now introduce me watching and that number drops fast. I knew our friend had the hots for her, its why we decided on him but he had a girlfriend at the time and it just restricted him from doing it. We went another route with a different friend, female friend dating a new guy post divorce. She used to bend our ear about how much sex they had and how large he was etc so we thought well this has got to be it. My wife agreed to it but said she could barely be in same room with him.

Why could she barely be in same room with him did she not like him?

 

[Vincenzo]

I told my wofe that id love to see her fucked by a big dick. After 6 months of role playing and dirty talking she made it happen with her ex fuck buddy without telling me. He is a regular of ours to this day 10 years later

 

[Ht805cpl]

I told my wofe that id love to see her fucked by a big dick. After 6 months of role playing and dirty talking she made it happen with her ex fuck buddy without telling me. He is a regular of ours to this day 10 years later

It sounds like you do not have a big dick? What is the relationship like now ? Is it a 3 some or you watch or she is still going out with him while you stay home?

 

[Vincenzo]

It sounds like you do not have a big dick? What is the relationship like now ? Is it a 3 some or you watch or she is still going out with him while you stay home?

Im always present and watch for a few minutes but always join in. He often spends weekends and when tithes happens it no clothes allowed from his arrival on Friday until his departure on Sunday and when either or both of us gets hard it game on for her. So there is times when he is fucking her without me. As for my size, I'm avg at 5¾" hard, my issuue has always been im a grower and its quite small when soft. So it can be embarrassing

 

[Ht805cpl]

Im always present and watch for a few minutes but always join in. He often spends weekends and when tithes happens it no clothes allowed from his arrival on Friday until his departure on Sunday and when either or both of us gets hard it game on for her. So there is times when he is fucking her without me. As for my size, I'm avg at 5¾" hard, my issuue has always been im a grower and its quite small when soft. So it can be embarrassing

Sounds like a great relationship, yes my husband and I love having a well hung black man spend a night or weekend with us, and like you I am theirs for the taking as they please, my man is well hung, so for me any additional man must be a well hung male. Nothing more fun for a horny wife than having two or even more men all to her self for a few days! I usually meet him at the front door naked or scantly dressed, and he will u dress me almost instantly while we kiss, I can so relate to the kind of play you are talking about. Your wife is one lucky woman to have an open loving man like you!

 

[Vincenzo]

Sounds like a great relationship, yes my husband and I love having a well hung black man spend a night or weekend with us, and like you I am theirs for the taking as they please, my man is well hung, so for me any additional man must be a well hung male. Nothing more fun for a horny wife than having two or even more men all to her self for a few days! I usually meet him at the front door naked or scantly dressed, and he will u dress me almost instantly while we kiss, I can so relate to the kind of play you are talking about. Your wife is one lucky woman to have an open loving man like you!

Very hot. You're a lucky woman as well. Thats the next thing on my bucket list. To see her tag teamed by 2 big dicks 😊. But its sooo hot seeing the pleasure on her face and hearing her moans/grunts as she's being pounded by his HUGE cock

 

[Vincenzo]

Sounds like a great relationship, yes my husband and I love having a well hung black man spend a night or weekend with us, and like you I am theirs for the taking as they please, my man is well hung, so for me any additional man must be a well hung male. Nothing more fun for a horny wife than having two or even more men all to her self for a few days! I usually meet him at the front door naked or scantly dressed, and he will u dress me almost instantly while we kiss, I can so relate to the kind of play you are talking about. Your wife is one lucky woman to have an open loving man like you!

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