How did your wife react when she first found out you wanted someone else to fuck her in front of you? What did she do?

Our first time took a while we first talked about it, I had lots of questions, then once I agreed it was how to find someone, this was long before swing clubs and internet sex sites, but he finally found the right guy or at least a guy he trusted enough to ask, I was excited, afraid and unsure how it would go or happen but once he was with us, we had a drink and some light kissing and touching and a suggestion to move to the bed room, once there it just happened, he knew what to do and it was amazing being with another man along with my husband, once we got started my man stepped back and watched us make love to each other, sipping his drink rubbing his hard dick, when the guy finished it was my husbands turn, as our new friend watched, and for the rest of the night they took turns with me while the other watched. Once he left, we made love again, and my man asked well what did you think, I said it was great, when is he coming back? He laughed and said damn baby, I’ll talk to him tomorrow, I think it was one or two days later he was back, and from that day forward he became a very regular visitor to our bed room! I couldn’t get enough of him and it excited my husband so much that once he left we’d make love to each other so intently, like he was reclaiming me as his wife!
This is how it's supposed to work! 😁
 
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Our first time took a while we first talked about it, I had lots of questions, then once I agreed it was how to find someone, this was long before swing clubs and internet sex sites, but he finally found the right guy or at least a guy he trusted enough to ask, I was excited, afraid and unsure how it would go or happen but once he was with us, we had a drink and some light kissing and touching and a suggestion to move to the bed room, once there it just happened, he knew what to do and it was amazing being with another man along with my husband, once we got started my man stepped back and watched us make love to each other, sipping his drink rubbing his hard dick, when the guy finished it was my husbands turn, as our new friend watched, and for the rest of the night they took turns with me while the other watched. Once he left, we made love again, and my man asked well what did you think, I said it was great, when is he coming back? He laughed and said damn baby, I’ll talk to him tomorrow, I think it was one or two days later he was back, and from that day forward he became a very regular visitor to our bed room! I couldn’t get enough of him and it excited my husband so much that once he left we’d make love to each other so intently, like he was reclaiming me as his wife!
That's exactly how we roll. I'm 100% sure that's how my wife looks at this.
 
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hmm you sound like a couple very much like us, when I enjoy sex with someone, I always want more and more. My husband says I am every man's dream wife. A whore in bed and a lady in public
That's us for sure. When he's with us it's like she's more turned on for other guy after one of us finishes. It's not she's a fake porn actress she's genuinely turned on. We all have a good time. It's like SHE fucks us till we're both beat.
 
My wife and I were on a vacation. We were at a bar and we were shooting some pool. She was wearing a very short skirt that clearly showed off her pussy underneath. Open top with no bra and I’m more than one occasion a boob would pop out when she take a long shot. There was a couple young guys watching her intensely, and I was teasing her about it and telling her how hard those guys were getting watching her shoot she made some comment about wanting to see them shoot but not the pool balls something else I said go for it. Let’s see where this goes. Next thing. I know she’s walking out of the bar with two guys on each side, both of them had a hand on her ass. Let’s just say one thing led to another and the following morning when they both left our hotel room All four of us were completely spent. It was an amazing trip.
 
That's us for sure. When he's with us it's like she's more turned on for other guy after one of us finishes. It's not she's a fake porn actress she's genuinely turned on. We all have a good time. It's like SHE fucks us till we're both beat.
so funny but true, I love when I've been with a small group of men and they are all spent on the bed or floor, and I am still wanting more. I laugh at them in a kind sort of way. Has happened at a few intimate parties as well. Yes two or three or even more are no match for one horny sexy lady.
 
My wife and I were on a vacation. We were at a bar and we were shooting some pool. She was wearing a very short skirt that clearly showed off her pussy underneath. Open top with no bra and I’m more than one occasion a boob would pop out when she take a long shot. There was a couple young guys watching her intensely, and I was teasing her about it and telling her how hard those guys were getting watching her shoot she made some comment about wanting to see them shoot but not the pool balls something else I said go for it. Let’s see where this goes. Next thing. I know she’s walking out of the bar with two guys on each side, both of them had a hand on her ass. Let’s just say one thing led to another and the following morning when they both left our hotel room All four of us were completely spent. It was an amazing trip.
We need and want some details....lol
 
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A friend of her got divorced and starting dating a really abrasive cocky guy who was apparently large and good in bed, at least that is what she had told us a zillion times so in the interest of getting our feet wet we considered him as an option. It was a one time and done.
Have not had many but have had a few times we’ve met with a guy and it didn’t go well a few we stopped with all naked and in bed. The guy was just a jerk and I said no stop my husband knew I was not happy and told him to leave. It happens but I could tell you about hundreds of times it went well for those few bad times.
 
My situation is different. She well known for having many lovers and married 3 three times. So seeing her flirting with men then see her kiss with others so i just opened the subject. She was not sure if thats a trap question from me or its for real. So i arranged 2 of her workmates to fuck her in the office infront of me. She was super nervious before they start then super down after they finished. She really enjoyed it but the idea of me watching was not comfortable for her. Slowly she got used to it but still she hides things from me which is ok.
 
So happy to hear you have found a balance and have placed your relationship first. I think that is most important although it seems not many understand that in the beginning. Funny you say it was not your intent for you to fool around but to see her with others, for us it was the exact opposite, he wanted to have sex with others so getting me to swing was the avenue to allow him to be with other women, although we’ve both had to deal with some jealousy on both parts, we have worked through it, for me when he spends too much time with one woman I tend to get jealous, for him I think it was when I started going alone with the same guy in addition to our threesomes. He always seem to be ok watching me or sharing me with other men it was when I would play with them alone he’d get jealous, in time we both agreed we’d play together, and on rare occasions if a guy asked me to play alone I tell him to ask my husband, and he has agreed at times but only with guys we’ve had long term relationships with as a couple. I rarely allow him to swing alone, but it has happened. Today we are most happy with a regular guy we both have become close to and having sex together, of course he knows there are times I need him to step back and watch if he likes but I need to give myself fully to my lover. I think you said it best, it took a very long time for me to separate sex and love, I think it was easier for him! Although you two are much younger I think we have much in common!
That is interesting that it was his avenue in to ...... with other women. That was not my intent and although it is an option it is not one I have chosen to exercise. My wife did encourage it a couple of times but I am not really open to it at least currently. Really, it was never my intent to even be "in the lifestyle". This was a fantasy of seeing her have a threesome with two other men and me watching. I guess in my head I viewed as something we would do one time not thinking how logistically difficult it would be of finding the two men who would both be cool with it and arrange for them to be in the same place at the same time having never met with them individually before or that there would be not be an ongoing component. I think my mind was clouded with trying to get the end result with no real means of getting there. In my head I thought my wife would agree to it and we would do it once. I suppose her being agreeable without too much pushback (there was some) should have clued me in she would be into it. We met with her lover together mostly at first but she started to have equal time alone with him and I was OK with it, maybe too much so. It was a lot more than just sex it was more or less a sanctioned affair.

I think it became much more apparent when the one year boyfriend ended. I thought well its was fun but assumed it was back to monogamy. We had a discussion and my wife assumed we would keep exploring in the lifestyle. We talked it over and I wasn't opposed but maybe a little surprised/ Maybe if we had not made the connection with her hotwife friend it might have been done but I believe she really ignited this curiosity. Here we are a year and a half in to something that I technically started and it has kind of grown a life of its own. We have open and quite frank discussions, way more than we ever used to. We just would do sex and follow the other in what they seemed to enjoy. Now we lay out exactly what turns us on and try to make it happen if the other person is into it or at least agreeable to try it for the sake of the other. Solo play is currently a very big part of it due to a person she meets with being his thing. We will hopefully return to group play as it is what I sought in the beginning of all this.
 
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My situation is different. She well known for having many lovers and married 3 three times. So seeing her flirting with men then see her kiss with others so i just opened the subject. She was not sure if thats a trap question from me or its for real. So i arranged 2 of her workmates to fuck her in the office infront of me. She was super nervious before they start then super down after they finished. She really enjoyed it but the idea of me watching was not comfortable for her. Slowly she got used to it but still she hides things from me which is ok.
Perhaps you should be a participant in the action like helping undress kissing and touching her then get out of the way and watch smiling encouraging her to saying oh yes baby and then you should go last eating her cum filled pussy n mouth and fucking her as the last one a kind of reclaiming ritual showing her your love for her. It may be some of the hottest sex you two have ever had together and will show her you are all in or ok with it. When the men are gone you can hold her cuddle her insuring her of your love.
 
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Perhaps you should be a participant in the action like helping undress kissing and touching her then get out of the way and watch smiling encouraging her to saying oh yes baby and then you should go last eating her cum filled pussy n mouth and fucking her as the last one a kind of reclaiming ritual showing her your love for her. It may be some of the hottest sex you two have ever had together and will show her you are all in or ok with it. When the men are gone you can hold her cuddle her insuring her of your love.
Thats exactly what i do. She is just embarrassed with me being there thats all. She is getting better slowly.
 
Thats exactly what i do. She is just embarrassed with me being there thats all. She is getting better slowly.
Well if you both are enjoying it give it time I am sure in time she will become more comfortable. For me I was ok when we were with men but I was not so comfortable when he was with other women jealousy perhaps but in time I came to terms with that. Good luck !
 
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so funny but true, I love when I've been with a small group of men and they are all spent on the bed or floor, and I am still wanting more. I laugh at them in a kind sort of way. Has happened at a few intimate parties as well. Yes two or three or even more are no match for one horny sexy lady.
Well, ...women have a really unfair biological advantage over us guys - the ability to go numerous times and still be up for more. Each insemination lubricates her for the next guy, while leaving the guy who just finished unable to go again. 🙂)))) I've found Cialis to be helpful in that respect - I recover more quickly. It's a real rush sensing another erection starting! I just have to hope she hasn't locked me out while she's fucking her BF or spending the night with him. If I wait patiently in the other bedroom, she usually pays me a nocturnal visit....
 
What a great question. The reaction from my first wife was a bit of a surprise. We had gone on a holiday together. She was very, shall we say very promiscuous. She was definitely not shy at showing anything to anyone. After a few days on the holiday and fucking on a balcony and behind bushes (even behind some bar) we even got goaded into riding a mechanical bull together, but when I got thrown off, on purpose, she carried on firstly by taking off her top then soon after her shorts and panties followed suit.

Anyway I am digressing. she wanted to try the nudist beaches so we hired a scooter and travelled around. We eventually found one just 10mins from our hotel. It was in a valley or cove. It was around 100yrds wide and same deep with a picturesque beach at one end and blue sea at the other and a dirt track leading from the top down to a nice little cafe on the beach. We got settled on the beach, but pretty soon I noticed everyone around us was staring at my Jen she didn't mind because she loved the attention. I have to say, she was 5'7" tall with a 36c, 24, 34 body with a 35" inside leg (I know because she went in for modeling and they measured her all over and she was still in her young prime). I suggested we move to a more secluded area rocks slightly hidden from the beach. It was ideal for diving into the sea from there. After a while of swimming with my mask on she decided she wanted to also swim with a mask, but we didn't bring hers so I suggested I go back on my own to get hers. Off I set it took me just over 40mins to get back (due to a mishap on the bike). The beach was situated in a ravine around 100yrds across and about 100yrds down with the beach to my right as the dirt track led down to the beach, but from where I stopped to see where Jen was on the rocks it was straight across the narrow valley, but she was not alone. Five, what looked like teenagers, had joined her. She was stood with her back against the rocks and the lads were all sat on the rocks looking at her fully nude body. She wasn't fully shaved, but she was underneath and her lips hung past her pussy hair. One lad said something and she opened her legs so he stood up and leaned over her and kissed her deeply. His went down to her pussy and his 2 forefinger slipped into her wet pussy. Another lad stood up and started sucking on her tit and another followed suit on the other tit. The 2 left over pulled out their cocks out of their trunks and started wanking away. I was by now ducked behind the bushes and wanking furiously. Jen eventually said something and the lads disappeared over the rocks and up a path over the other side of the cove. After I had met back up with her, and also cumming twice, I told her I had seen her and the lads. At first she was in full denial saying that she was scared so she did what she had to so that they wouldn't bother her. When it told her and showed her how much it had turned me on she mellowed and asked if I would like her to do it again? I may have come over a bit eager when I said "DEAD FUCKING RIGHT I DO". So the following day we went back to the same place only this time she was going to play properly.
The photo is of Jen the first time we went there and the cove is just behind the bushes
 

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