How do I convince my wife to find a bull

Sorry I got about half way and gave up. Not because it wasn't interesting but so hard to read on a small screen when it's not broken up into paragraphs.
 
Wife and I have been married 12 years we have had open relationship on and off even had cuckold situations in past where I would watch her with another man.

When we met she was a virgin and was never even in a serious relationship before us. About 4 years into our marriage I found out she was cheating, I was working a lot of night shifts and didn’t spend as much time together or even give as much attention as she was used to getting. She chatted online and was soaking up the attention she was getting and enjoyed flirting and sending pics with a few guys she found online.

She ended up meeting one of the men a few times and fucked without my knowledge. I found out and of course was angry and hurt at first but I asked her to tell me what happened, how it started and how often it occurred.

She started telling me they talked for two weeks mostly flirted to get to know one another. He knew she was married and he was in a relationship as well. She went to his house one night while I was working they drank a few drinks on the couch then started kissing.

She unbuttoned his pants and started sucking his dick. I was bothered by what she was saying but was also getting turned on and could feel my dick starting to get hard but hid it from her. I asked her if he was bigger than me and was that why she went to meet him. She said he wasn’t longer but maybe a little wider if so wasn’t even by much to even feel or tell a difference. I’m what I consider average 7” not overly thick girth uncircumcised.

She said after sucking for 15 mins he laid her on the couch and slid his hand up her dress, she didn’t wear any underwear Bc she had said she knew after talking the last few weeks their plan was to fuck Incase they didn’t have another opportunity to meet. He went down on her and eat her pussy. I asked if she cum and she said she didn’t. She always cums when I eat her pussy She said he grabbed her hand and led her to his bedroom.

She laid on her back and he got on top of her and put his dick in her. She said it wasn’t long she rolled him over and climbed on top which I already knew is the way she cums. She said she didn’t ride him long before she cum on his dick.

I asked her if he wore a condom Bc she was not on any sort of birth control. She told me he did. She said he bent her over for a few mins and she could feel his dick start to jerk and knew he was cumming in the condom inside her. She said he rolled over on his back beside her and she realized he didn’t have condom on. She didn’t ask him Bc at that moment she didn’t care.

She told me she was feeling alone with me gone and missed attention plus she said she never been with anyone else and wanted experience sex with someone else. This is when she realized I was rock hard. She asked why I wasn’t upset like she expected I then told her this was a turn on and a fantasy of mine that I’ve never spoke to her about.

I told her I had seen cuckold porns and it was actually my favorite to watch. I explained what that was of course me knowing and being involved not like this situation happened but I never spoke on it Bc I didn’t ever think she would ever want to entertain anything like that with me being her one and only ever. She showed me pics and videos they exchanged with one another and I was turned on even more. She assured me she would never cheat again and we went 2 years with no incident.

One night we were drinking and I brought up that night with them two. I asked her if she wanted to find a guy to chat with and know in advance the situation or fantasy I would like to fulfill and me watch them two. She was nervous and wasn’t sure she could with me in room but she ended up talking to a few guys on a website we found and openly flirted and texted other men to find one for us both to meet. He was divorced white 45 year old with a larger and much thicker dick she was intrigued with that had been in the cuckold lifestyle in the past.

We all met at a bar she sat beside him as I sat across from them. We all hit it off and he invited us to come to his house a few miles down the road. We agreed and went there and had a few beers. They sat on same couch as we all talked. It didn’t take long his hand started rubbing her and she started rubbing his pants They started kissing and both at that moment forgot I was even in the room. I watched a much bigger dick go inside my wife and I was turned on and not jealous a bit!!!

She climbed on top and cummed right in front of me. I asked her if she liked his bigger dick and she said yes. He flipped her over different positions in the next 15 mins and made her cum three times in that 15 mins. I’ve never seen her that way it was great to watch. She asked if he could cum in her and I said yes.

On our ride home she left her panties off and dress up. When we got in car I felt how wet she was and how while fingering her I could easily tell how much bigger he was than me. That was fun for both of us and we both agreed to try that again but not too often that it becomes a marriage issue.

So we find out we are pregnant with what is our last child (third total) about a year or so later which of course was planned by us. But since then we have talked about trying another cuckold situation but she is self conscious with her body more after our last child. She did gain some extra weight but has dropped some back off but does have a mommy bod with some sagging skin she isn’t happy with. I assure her she looks great and even signed in our old profile and showed her all compliments she gets which she enjoys but still worried the guy will be judging her while having sex.

I really wanna watch her with a black guy with atleast a 10” dick that’s thick and she has even had a fantasy of that as well. When we watch porn together she always picks cuckold bbc creampie and is amazed when a white girl cums on one the creamy white cum running down a bbc how it looks and even said she wants to see her cum do that. She hasn’t put forth any effort though to find one Bc she feels as if she’s “fat”. By no means is she. She’s a BBW with great ass, tits, face and tight pussy.

How do y’all think I can get her to step out of her comfort zone? Maybe make friends with a black guy let him know what my fantasy and hers is without her knowing and maybe him be over to watch a game with me and see where it goes overtime? I’ll add a few pics of her to show her off as well.View attachment 562343View attachment 562344View attachment 562346
Watching her with a BBC is going to blow your mind, and most importantly, hers! If she’s over concerned about putting on a few pounds, remind her that most black men prefer a woman with some curves, and so she certainly fits the the mold even more perfectly than if she were to lose any weight. Good luck, Robin and I both fantasied about it and when it finally happened.. Amazing!!
 

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Watching her with a BBC is going to blow your mind, and most importantly, hers! If she’s over concerned about putting on a few pounds, remind her that most black men prefer a woman with some curves, and so she certainly fits the the mold even more perfectly than if she were to lose any weight. Good luck, Robin and I both fantasied about it and when it finally happened.. Amazing!!
I’m looking forward to it as she is. I have also told her black men always enjoy a BBW and she is perfect the way she is!
 
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