How do you approach a mature couple?

[hugging_face45]

We are both around 30 and actually prefer to meet with more mature couples. Probably around 40-55. Its just the type of fun we would prefer.

So the reason I opened this discussion is that usually people sceptical on the internet when you are just trying to share because its "too good to be true" from the mature couple perspective.

So my question is in a vacation / hotel scenario - how can you approach a mature couple with this? Any experience in general how you approach anyone without making it weird?

 

[Quarky]

Mature couples have a sixth sense...I'd approach them only during the hours of 11PM to 1AM, wearing commando camouflage.

Otherwise, why not find out if there are any here...I'm 56 but can't play but I'm sure some will!

Oh and Asian wives are a definite kink of mine!

 

[toolman2c]

We are both around 30 and actually prefer to meet with more mature couples. Probably around 40-55. Its just the type of fun we would prefer.

So the reason I opened this discussion is that usually people sceptical on the internet when you are just trying to share because its "too good to be true" from the mature couple perspective.

So my question is in a vacation / hotel scenario - how can you approach a mature couple with this? Any experience in general how you approach anyone without making it weird?

BUMP, this couple has a good question, id love 2c some helpful info and advice for them, i hope to learn nore about U2 and the advice you get,, good luck

 

[GrovelingCuck]

I am the husband in a mature Lifestyle couple who has been in the LS for 26 years so i can give you a couple pointers.

When mature Lifestyle couples are on the prowl they tend to exhibit some signs. Usually the wife will dress rather sexy and provocatively. They will be a little more open and social than most, possibly set up at the bar, dance floor, or at other places where they can mingle. 'Signal' jewelry such as anything pineapple may or may not be present on the wife (my wife has pineapples, QoS pendants, and a 'Hotwife' pendant).

But most importantly take a chance, talk to people, mingle. Like successfully picking up anybody it's a bit of a numbers game and you'll know if there is a spark. If not, politely excuse yourself and move on.

 

[Hotwife_Rachel]

Just ask! But be ready to prove your real, such as a photo with an agreed word and date on it. e. If I am approached by someone I am not sure of I ask for that and if comes through then that's at least one step in the right direction. Today with video chat rooms, video calls etc it's a lot easier to suss out people to be genuine or not.

 

[Carrienlarry]

We are both around 30 and actually prefer to meet with more mature couples. Probably around 40-55. Its just the type of fun we would prefer.

So the reason I opened this discussion is that usually people sceptical on the internet when you are just trying to share because its "too good to be true" from the mature couple perspective.

So my question is in a vacation / hotel scenario - how can you approach a mature couple with this? Any experience in general how you approach anyone without making it weird?

Being an older couple. Just approach like anyone else. Courteous. Friendly. Etc.

 

[wendell]

A hotel or vacation scenario is ideal. A little friendly chat. If my wife seems a little forward, she is seeing how you are reacting.

 

[Ht805cpl]

We are both around 30 and actually prefer to meet with more mature couples. Probably around 40-55. Its just the type of fun we would prefer.

So the reason I opened this discussion is that usually people sceptical on the internet when you are just trying to share because its "too good to be true" from the mature couple perspective.

So my question is in a vacation / hotel scenario - how can you approach a mature couple with this? Any experience in general how you approach anyone without making it weird?

how about just saying hello, and be honest; seems like a good approach to me?

 

[Memories4Us]

This reminds me of something that happened to the wife and I in Las Vegas probably 15 years ago. We were both late 30s and we hadn’t yet started down this road.

A nice couple, probably 10 years younger than us was standing beside us as we watched the Fremont Street Experience light show. The wives made small talk and sipped their drinks and the other wife made a couple of references that they were staying at the D (I think it was still Fitzgeralds back then possibly). They seemed like a very genuine conservative type couple, dressed nicely but not overdone and it was easy to tell they weren’t scammers or anything like that. In hindsight, the vibe was good.

But, we had no idea and no intention of doing any swapping or sharing at that point in our marriage so we just went our separate ways and now I’ve always wondered what might have been that night had it occurred within the last few years with an aware wife that has a desire to experience others.

 

[Mwstag]

Just say hello. If they're looking they will engage in conversation.
As stated above, we will be at the bar or near the dance floor, somewhere easy to approach.