How long to cum?

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When my hotwife used to play (I was never allowed to watch) we used to talk about how long guys would fuck her for (and also how many times but that was another story!). I was always fascinated by the whole thing. She did say, most first fucks of the night never used to last that long, maybe 15-20 mins before the bulls used to cum, but on follow on fucking would often go 30 mins or longer! I was never sure whether she exaggerated this as part of the Dom/submissive relationship we had as she knew that would turn me on more as I’d always cum quickly. Normally in around 5 mins and once I’d cum, I was never a repeater so that used to be me finished (hence why we went into cuckolding as a way of her receiving full satisfaction!). So this whole story of how long do you last has intrigued me but was never really sure what the truth is.

However, when I’ve gone to expose her on here with more dominate online bulls/masters we message/chat and share photos and I’m always ready to cum quickly and always on the edge way before the online bull is. At times I’m amazed at how long the bull takes to cum! Is this a typical “cuck thing” where we cum quickly, or is it a “me thing” where I get so excited I just need to cum? Interested in people’s views and experiences whether other cucks or more dominant bulls.
 
My ex-roomate was hung and used to fuck girls for an hour. I would listen through the wall and jerk off, and sometimes cum twice before he came for the first time! When my gf (now wife) would come over, we would listen to him fuck and I would generally cum the first time with her within a minute, and the second time I could go for 2-3 minutes. One time I made it a third time, where I lasted nearly 5 minutes. so overall i came 3x with 9 minutes of actual fucking, while he took an hour to cum for the first time. Shameful.
 
If I'm fucking some guy I expect he's going to last. I like to tell him when he can cum if he's ready.
I expect at least 20-30 minutes of pumping unless it's gangbang then I probably expect an average of at leat 15 mins per cock over the session.
This will be when I'm satisfied or if he's a dud fuck and I want him to end it.
Unless I know he's a multi-cummer and then he can unload as much as he likes.
Paul is very good at holding back. If he's fucking another slut he won't cum at all until the end. He has got "blue balls" many times because of this.
Like me he enjoys the fucking part of it more than the cumming part of it.
We have left parties where he hasn't cum at all because he wanted to fuck all the ladies present and loves that horny feeling.
Of couse he usually unloads in me after we get home.
What I'm getting at is, men can hold back if they try, "oops I'm sorry" is a cop out in my experience.
I give men one failure. it can happen but two in a row means don't bother me again.
 
I zm not small but have severe PE. When jerking off i can last a while by edging but when penetration is involved i cum in a few minutes.
My wife doesnt always mind, she even often likes it with me.

From her bulls she expects men that can go for hours and preferably multiple times.
 
When my hotwife used to play (I was never allowed to watch) we used to talk about how long guys would fuck her for (and also how many times but that was another story!). I was always fascinated by the whole thing. She did say, most first fucks of the night never used to last that long, maybe 15-20 mins before the bulls used to cum, but on follow on fucking would often go 30 mins or longer! I was never sure whether she exaggerated this as part of the Dom/submissive relationship we had as she knew that would turn me on more as I’d always cum quickly. Normally in around 5 mins and once I’d cum, I was never a repeater so that used to be me finished (hence why we went into cuckolding as a way of her receiving full satisfaction!). So this whole story of how long do you last has intrigued me but was never really sure what the truth is.

However, when I’ve gone to expose her on here with more dominate online bulls/masters we message/chat and share photos and I’m always ready to cum quickly and always on the edge way before the online bull is. At times I’m amazed at how long the bull takes to cum! Is this a typical “cuck thing” where we cum quickly, or is it a “me thing” where I get so excited I just need to cum? Interested in people’s views and experiences whether other cucks or more dominant bulls.
I almost always take at least 15 minutes to cum in another man’s wife. And ALWAYS can cum
Multiple times a session.
And if we spend the night together, first thing in the morning is a definite while cuck serves us coffee in bed.
 
I almost always take at least 15 minutes to cum in another man’s wife. And ALWAYS can cum
Multiple times a session.
And if we spend the night together, first thing in the morning is a definite while cuck serves us coffee in bed.
Can you last 15 mins on the first fuck of the night? I don’t know how you control yourself not to unload more quickly. After if your with a hotwife the whole night, how many times could you go?

My hotwife would say 3-4 times a night with her regular bull would be an average and always again in the morning before they left! Can’t imagine being able to cum so many times during a single night.
 
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Can you last 15 mins on the first fuck of the night? I don’t know how you control yourself not to unload more quickly. After if your with a hotwife the whole night, how many times could you go?

My hotwife would say 3-4 times a night with her regular bull would be an average and always again in the morning before they left! Can’t imagine being able to cum so many times during a single night.
15 minutes is just about right for the first round. Longer after that first pop.
I can’t go as often as I used to but 3-4 times is still good for me.
Eight times in one night years ago was a personal best.
It’s just as much about attitude and connection among all of us involved plays a huge part in how long the adventure lasts.
That said, If my lover makes it known she’s ovulating, I go out of my way to go as long as often as possible
 
It all really depends on the vibe. In some cases our bull has cum really fast, in other cases, he has lasted very long. Same goes for me. Sometime's when I'm horny as hell, I could cum in less than 3-4 minutes, but other times, I've lasted for an hour or so. My wife actually enjoys it when her bull cums fast in some strange way.
 
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When my hotwife used to play (I was never allowed to watch) we used to talk about how long guys would fuck her for (and also how many times but that was another story!). I was always fascinated by the whole thing. She did say, most first fucks of the night never used to last that long, maybe 15-20 mins before the bulls used to cum, but on follow on fucking would often go 30 mins or longer! I was never sure whether she exaggerated this as part of the Dom/submissive relationship we had as she knew that would turn me on more as I’d always cum quickly. Normally in around 5 mins and once I’d cum, I was never a repeater so that used to be me finished (hence why we went into cuckolding as a way of her receiving full satisfaction!). So this whole story of how long do you last has intrigued me but was never really sure what the truth is.

However, when I’ve gone to expose her on here with more dominate online bulls/masters we message/chat and share photos and I’m always ready to cum quickly and always on the edge way before the online bull is. At times I’m amazed at how long the bull takes to cum! Is this a typical “cuck thing” where we cum quickly, or is it a “me thing” where I get so excited I just need to cum? Interested in people’s views and experiences whether other cucks or more dominant bulls.
 
Before my wife & I married we
When my hotwife used to play (I was never allowed to watch) we used to talk about how long guys would fuck her for (and also how many times but that was another story!). I was always fascinated by the whole thing. She did say, most first fucks of the night never used to last that long, maybe 15-20 mins before the bulls used to cum, but on follow on fucking would often go 30 mins or longer! I was never sure whether she exaggerated this as part of the Dom/submissive relationship we had as she knew that would turn me on more as I’d always cum quickly. Normally in around 5 mins and once I’d cum, I was never a repeater so that used to be me finished (hence why we went into cuckolding as a way of her receiving full satisfaction!). So this whole story of how long do you last has intrigued me but was never really sure what the truth is.

However, when I’ve gone to expose her on here with more dominate online bulls/masters we message/chat and share photos and I’m always ready to cum quickly and always on the edge way before the online bull is. At times I’m amazed at how long the bull takes to cum! Is this a typical “cuck thing” where we cum quickly, or is it a “me thing” where I get so excited I just need to cum? Interested in people’s views and experiences whether other cucks or more dominant bulls.
My Asian gf (now wife) and I had the same issue only worse. I'm hung on the small side and would cum way to fast for her liking. I could last a bit if she rode me cowgirl style, but once I got on top and started thrusting it was all over in 15-30 seconds. She had a fantastic wet tight pussy which I just couldn't last in. We tried swapping with other couples but it was awkward - as I would cum even faster with the other woman, watching my gf get pounded. Finally settled on finding hung guys with stamina to do her while I watched. It was an education for both of us. I watched her have marathon sex with four different better-hung studs. First, it turns out size was not an issue, she actually struggled with guys bigger than me as she had a tight, shallow pussy. Second, she found that once she came hard, she was done, she wouldn't cum again mo matter how long she fucked for. This was true with all the guys she fucked. It taught me how to get her to that one big orgasm. Now when we have sex I can get her there pretty easily. Once she cums she is done, so then I can jump on top and thrust 20 or 30 times before unloading. Once we found what works for us and got married, she lost interest in getting fucked by other guys (unfortunately!) But it was great seeing her little Asian pussy take big cock while it lasted.
 
I expect at least 20-30 minutes of pumping
How the fuck does that eve work? I cannot imagine 5 minutes of actual active fucking without slowing down constantly. And 30 minutes? That's crazy. I don't think I can even stay hard for 30 minutes without putting 1000% of mental capacity and scrambling together every single brain cell to focus on either not cumming or not getting distracted by some completely random thoughts and start to get soft... which means it extremely hard to stay present in the moment... and sometimes, after longer foreplay and longer fucking... my dick gets tires and I can't even cum lol
 
How the fuck does that eve work? I cannot imagine 5 minutes of actual active fucking without slowing down constantly. And 30 minutes? That's crazy. I don't think I can even stay hard for 30 minutes without putting 1000% of mental capacity and scrambling together every single brain cell to focus on either not cumming or not getting distracted by some completely random thoughts and start to get soft... which means it extremely hard to stay present in the moment... and sometimes, after longer foreplay and longer fucking... my dick gets tires and I can't even cum lol
When I say 30 minutes of pumping. I don't mean 30 minutes in the same position. 30 minutes is not long to roll around the bed. Nothing wrong with stopping the pumping to suck his cock or get my cunt licked a bit but between missionary, doggy, cowgirl or on my stomach or side, 30 minutes is not too much pumping to ask. I mean if I guy is fucking me I expect that he's not going to shoot his load too soon.
Including all the fucking, sucking and licking I've had may sessions that have kept me naked and in bed for a couple of hours.
 
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When I say 30 minutes of pumping. I don't mean 30 minutes in the same position. 30 minutes is not long to roll around the bed. Nothing wrong with stopping the pumping to suck his cock or get my cunt licked a bit but between missionary, doggy, cowgirl or on my stomach or side, 30 minutes is not too much pumping to ask. I mean if I guy is fucking me I expect that he's not going to shoot his load too soon.
Including all the fucking, sucking and licking I've had may sessions that have kept me naked and in bed for a couple of hours.
Ok, if it's 30 minutes spread over a couple hours, then that's much more believable.