How long to cum?

When my wife travels for business to a certain city she meets up with her favorite bull. This one time they arranged to meet in her hotel room. He had to work late until 11pm, so he gets there around 1130. They fuck until sometime after 2am. It's late so they fall asleep. The next morning she finally responded to my text, telling me how hard she just rode him. And that he was in the shower cleaning up.
As she's making her way home she's giving me details about the fun they had. It's driving me crazy and by time she gets home we're both really horny for each other. We race to the bedroom and she eagerly pulls my pants down, grabs my cock and blows me, surely the way she did to him the night before. It's too much for me to handle and I last about 30 seconds. It was very intense.
She was surprised. But I think she took joy in how turned on I was and how easily she could make me come.
 
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If I'm fucking some guy I expect he's going to last. I like to tell him when he can cum if he's ready.
I expect at least 20-30 minutes of pumping unless it's gangbang then I probably expect an average of at leat 15 mins per cock over the session.
This will be when I'm satisfied or if he's a dud fuck and I want him to end it.
Unless I know he's a multi-cummer and then he can unload as much as he likes.
Paul is very good at holding back. If he's fucking another slut he won't cum at all until the end. He has got "blue balls" many times because of this.
Like me he enjoys the fucking part of it more than the cumming part of it.
We have left parties where he hasn't cum at all because he wanted to fuck all the ladies present and loves that horny feeling.
Of couse he usually unloads in me after we get home.
What I'm getting at is, men can hold back if they try, "oops I'm sorry" is a cop out in my experience.
I give men one failure. it can happen but two in a row means don't bother me again.
I don’t see that as being unreasonable, I tend to go until my wife is either so tired or sore she tells or makes me cum. To me sex is a marathon not a sprint. Lol last as long as the women wants! Plus guts the more you last the more you learn how to make her cum over and over and over again, and the more you make her cum the more likely she’ll want you back again in the future! Everyone wins!
 
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I am only average in size. I satisfied women because I could delay my own climax. With my first wife, I would delay until she had an orgasm and then I would release at the same time as her. With other women, I might withdraw and give them oral or just rub my dick on their pussy. I was always able to prolong my erection until I felt they were ready for me to climax. After the first time, I'd be ready for round two within 5 minutes. Round two always lasted a long time. It is hard to measure time in that situation and I never checked a clock, but I think that round two could last 45 minutes or longer. I would have difficulty climaxing the second time, so I would try a variety of positions and both of us would become desperate for me to end, I would pound harder and harder. Some women said it was too much or that it hurt, especially if I put their legs on my shoulders in the missionary position. One woman really liked the hard and long pounding, especially doggie. She claimed that it was baby-making love. I wish things had worked out for us. I really liked her and she expressed interest in the lifestyle. Unfortunately, she had a substance problem that I couldn't overlook. I still think of her 40 years later.
 
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My ex-roomate was hung and used to fuck girls for an hour. I would listen through the wall and jerk off, and sometimes cum twice before he came for the first time! When my gf (now wife) would come over, we would listen to him fuck and I would generally cum the first time with her within a minute, and the second time I could go for 2-3 minutes. One time I made it a third time, where I lasted nearly 5 minutes. so overall i came 3x with 9 minutes of actual fucking, while he took an hour to cum for the first time. Shameful.
Damn bet your gf was impressed an wanted to watch him fuck.....
 
My BF luvs to tease & deny me using her fingers, mouth & pussy. Then she goes to see her bull & sets up her cam/phone. She blows him for his 1st load, that get him ready to fuck her long & hard as I watch on her cam
 
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When I say 30 minutes of pumping. I don't mean 30 minutes in the same position. 30 minutes is not long to roll around the bed. Nothing wrong with stopping the pumping to suck his cock or get my cunt licked a bit but between missionary, doggy, cowgirl or on my stomach or side, 30 minutes is not too much pumping to ask. I mean if I guy is fucking me I expect that he's not going to shoot his load too soon.
Including all the fucking, sucking and licking I've had may sessions that have kept me naked and in bed for a couple of hours.
In my opinion, Sex is an Art. Everyone can fuck, but very few people can offer and perform good sex.
 
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It is interesting to look back over our marriage and see how much we have evolved. The early years of our marriage had to be disappointing for my wife (even though she never said anything), because I could cum in seconds and sometimes would last a minute. We most often had sex every morning and many days would have either a nooner or evening round. After being married 3 years she had an affair with one of our friends and he gave her the first orgasm through penetration. I took that information with both positive and negative feelings. I was glad for her, but also felt it was something I should have been able to do for her. The years started adding up for us and she had the opportunity to be with one more of our friends and two men who were a one night stand. When she hit 60 it stopped for different reasons, but the memories have been kept alive. Now we have been married 53 years and I am 75 and she is 72, so the frequency has slowed down for us, but I can now last 15 or 20 minutes when we have sex. She is almost in a constant state of orgasm and loves that I last as long as I do now. I know she thinks of past lovers who could do that and what it gave her. I only witnessed her with one of her lovers, so I know she was capable of the mind shattering orgasms that she got. Now she will lay on the bed recovering and say that my cock is as good or better than her former lovers. It makes me so happy that we can still do this for her at our age.
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It is interesting to look back over our marriage and see how much we have evolved. The early years of our marriage had to be disappointing for my wife (even though she never said anything), because I could cum in seconds and sometimes would last a minute. We most often had sex every morning and many days would have either a nooner or evening round. After being married 3 years she had an affair with one of our friends and he gave her the first orgasm through penetration. I took that information with both positive and negative feelings. I was glad for her, but also felt it was something I should have been able to do for her. The years started adding up for us and she had the opportunity to be with one more of our friends and two men who were a one night stand. When she hit 60 it stopped for different reasons, but the memories have been kept alive. Now we have been married 53 years and I am 75 and she is 72, so the frequency has slowed down for us, but I can now last 15 or 20 minutes when we have sex. She is almost in a constant state of orgasm and loves that I last as long as I do now. I know she thinks of past lovers who could do that and what it gave her. I only witnessed her with one of her lovers, so I know she was capable of the mind shattering orgasms that she got. Now she will lay on the bed recovering and say that my cock is as good or better than her former lovers. It makes me so happy that we can still do this for her at our age.
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For me, it definitely takes longer than it used to. Might be an age thing, or might be you get experienced in controlling it more.

It's great to hear you still enjoy each other that way - I hope it lasts much longer!
 
My experience is all over the map. Krista, with a "new" guy will generally get an initial 15 - 20 minutes before the guy loses it and cums. After a break, she'll get maybe 30 - 45 minutes out of the guy in round two. A few rare guys, mostly on the younger side, can go a third or fourth round, longer duration, 30 - 45 minutes.

The more their balls get drained, the longer they will last, but once they are drained, that's it...

We have one friend, Rick, who can control himself and fuck Krista for well into an hour; delivering multiple orgasms for her along the way... a very skilled cocks-man. He's a huge, heavy cummer, but "one and done," so once he unloads, he's over for the event...

Krista usually wants a physical break around the hour mark - something to drink, a little stretch, particularly if she's been enjoying an "athletic" fucking. Her pussy is amazingly elastic, properly lubed and cared for, Krista can take cock for several hours.
 
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My experience is all over the map. Krista, with a "new" guy will generally get an initial 15 - 20 minutes before the guy loses it and cums. After a break, she'll get maybe 30 - 45 minutes out of the guy in round two. A few rare guys, mostly on the younger side, can go a third or fourth round, longer duration, 30 - 45 minutes.

The more their balls get drained, the longer they will last, but once they are drained, that's it...

We have one friend, Rick, who can control himself and fuck Krista for well into an hour; delivering multiple orgasms for her along the way... a very skilled cocks-man. He's a huge, heavy cummer, but "one and done," so once he unloads, he's over for the event...

Krista usually wants a physical break around the hour mark - something to drink, a little stretch, particularly if she's been enjoying an "athletic" fucking. Her pussy is amazingly elastic, properly lubed and cared for, Krista can take cock for several hours.
My 'record' when I was a LOT younger was 6 times over the course of an afternoon with my gf. Definitely last longer after the first. Sometimes I wouldn't finish but she'd O a few times riding me. After a break go at it again lol
 
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My 'record' when I was a LOT younger was 6 times over the course of an afternoon with my gf. Definitely last longer after the first. Sometimes I wouldn't finish but she'd O a few times riding me. After a break go at it again lol
Indeed - before I hit forty, I could go at least a half dozen rounds a night, with enough jizz to squirt a reasonable load at the last round... these days I'm doing well to go three rounds in a 24-hour period....

Fortunately, with four men in the household, we keep Krista well-supplied with cock.