Most of my one-on-one male encounters happen in the context of recruiting partners for my wife. Current example, we're concocting a gangbang event in April, so I'm looking for two to three appropriate males to join in.
Last night's hotel encounter is pretty typical; some housekeeping (ID's, STD test results), a shower - I like to start clean. Then some more intense pleasure, mutual stroking, some master-slave oral, then a very hot sixtynine session.
After a little intermission, some hot frot fun, with oral clean-up...
I'm not a top/bottom in that sense, most of my fun is oral, stroke, hot cock-on-cock stuff. Frot fun is really intense.