So my wife was not a virgin when we got married. Especially today it is very rare that someone is still a virgin. But I knew everything she had guys in front of me.
We talk openly about the past and also about love life. Some couples can't possibly do that out of jealousy or what do I know. She told me a lot so that, for example, when she was younger, she used to go to a biker party with her best friend and a motorcycle gang. Then she told about her ex-boyfriends. Who they were as they were as characters etc.