How many men has your gf or wife had ?

I really don't know. I've never asked about before me.

I've not kept count, but quickly totting up, at least nine since we've been married. Three of those have been long term relationships.
 
My wife's had 38 before me. After we married she's had one that she doesn't know i know about. I'd let her fuck him again as long as she tells me and especially if I get to watch and have her afterward.
First up, how do you know she had sex with this guy after you married her. Have you ever discussed the possibility of opening up your marriage and consenting to her continuing her fling with this guy or other guys for that matter. You never know, just maybe you both will end up getting exactly what you want.
 
First up, how do you know she had sex with this guy after you married her. Have you ever discussed the possibility of opening up your marriage and consenting to her continuing her fling with this guy or other guys for that matter. You never know, just maybe you both will end up getting exactly what you want.
You make a solid argument here! I know it took several years of conversation before my wife took the leap. For my wife, the holdup wasn’t her desire to fuck other guys. Instead it was not being comfortable with me fucking other women. My wife didn’t understand and probably still doesn’t understand why I enjoy her getting variety in her sex life.