We got started in this lifetyle because of a chance occurrence at a bowling alley J had bowled at for 2 years......she discovered that Black and Hispanic men were attracted to her. LONG story, but she got hooked on BBC encounters for a 3 year period....by the time that ended (another long story posted somewhere on here) she was going out 5-6 nights a week and having sex with ANY Black guy that wanted her, usually 5-6 a night or more. SO easily hundreds of Black guys she had sex with........
Since that ended, we settled into a much more controlled safe version where she has had affairs with primarily guys she worked with, or met as a result of her profession, and one long term (10 yr) affair with her Boss/Lover. Total number of Lovers, fewer than fingers on both hands for different guys......but still a significant number of ertramarital sexual encounters, more than I can EVER manage to catch up with!!
Her Boss alone was 2-3 times a week when not traveling for business, every day when they traveled and usually more than once, and they traveled a LOT!! The spent a month together at the Corporate Condo in Florida even December doing "business planning". And if she was involved in a short term afffair (most were 6 months to a year), she was available to them any time they could arrange to get away from their wives as I was aware of the affairs even tho they thought I was not and we both wanted her to be available to them as often as possible. I could NEVER catch up with the number of encounters she has had outside the marriage..........I lack the desire or stamina!! LOL CW