How many times has lover been with her?

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I read posts asking how many men a wife has been with. Answers are all over the place.
For us it's 3.
How many times ? One guy once, different guy 3 times.
The guy we see now is the guy we did it our first time. 6 times in 3 years then we got into it pretty good. For about 2 years it's been one, two and sometimes three times a month.
Twice a month times 24 months, that's 48 visits with him. Probably a little more.
When I think about it that's a bunch.
 
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She just notched her first guy a few weeks back after years of us talking about it. They’ve had two playdates, and we’re considering a solo date for the third. Took her a while, but she found a good one. Easily the hottest thing I’ve seen in my life was watching her struggle for 10 minutes before she could even get him inside her.
 
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Loridan said:
I read posts asking how many men a wife has been with. Answers are all over the place.
For us it's 3.
How many times ? One guy once, different guy 3 times.
The guy we see now is the guy we did it our first time. 6 times in 3 years then we got into it pretty good. For about 2 years it's been one, two and sometimes three times a month.
Twice a month times 24 months, that's 48 visits with him. Probably a little more.
When I think about it that's a bunch.
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She obviously enjoys the extra attention and loves good sex
 
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Loridan said:
I read posts asking how many men a wife has been with. Answers are all over the place.
For us it's 3.
How many times ? One guy once, different guy 3 times.
The guy we see now is the guy we did it our first time. 6 times in 3 years then we got into it pretty good. For about 2 years it's been one, two and sometimes three times a month.
Twice a month times 24 months, that's 48 visits with him. Probably a little more.
When I think about it that's a bunch.
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My wife was fucking 2 of her ex boyfriends when I met her and kept fucking them regularly for years. That wasn't negotiable and neither is my being faithful. My wife says if I ever cheat on her she will never fuck me again and start making me suck her lovers cocks.
 
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My Wife will spend maybe a couple of months with her different lothvers, she will fuck with them around 20 or so times before she gets bored and looks for another. She will also have one night stands on nights out with her friends, she fucks these guys on the night, will stay with them and fuck again in the morning before coming home to show me her sloppy, loose pussy so I can kiss and lick it for her.
 
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I will never understand this kind of question, so many variables to concider when attaching numbers to things; how long you been in the lifestyle, how old are you both. How long you been together as all the numbers go up the number of guys or times will go up. As a mature woman I could not tell you m.
 
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Loridan said:
I read posts asking how many men a wife has been with. Answers are all over the place.
For us it's 3.
How many times ? One guy once, different guy 3 times.
The guy we see now is the guy we did it our first time. 6 times in 3 years then we got into it pretty good. For about 2 years it's been one, two and sometimes three times a month.
Twice a month times 24 months, that's 48 visits with him. Probably a little more.
When I think about it that's a bunch.
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We are similar to you, we see a couple maybe 3/4 times a year and Julie will give my best pal a BJ
 
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Loridan said:
I read posts asking how many men a wife has been with. Answers are all over the place.
For us it's 3.
How many times ? One guy once, different guy 3 times.
The guy we see now is the guy we did it our first time. 6 times in 3 years then we got into it pretty good. For about 2 years it's been one, two and sometimes three times a month.
Twice a month times 24 months, that's 48 visits with him. Probably a little more.
When I think about it that's a bunch.
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Speaking for myself, I'm resigned to never knowing, but it's sure arousing when she shares new details about guys I didn't know about. But in her own words, she doesn't know how many men have been in her, or have ejaculated in her. She enjoys a drink at a good party for example, and had many men before she met me. In some scenarios, she was with multiple guys and lost track, or she woke up the next morning knowing she'd been fucked but not knowing how many guys took her. And every now and then she tells me about an experience I haven't yet heard about from her. My best guess is somewhere between 50 and 100. She's been married twice and PG three times, so there's a starting point to add it all up, but in the end, who cares! She just likes to fuck! Who doesn't?! 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣
 
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My wife has now settled down to having just one regular. They fuck every week now and they've fucked over 70 times in just over a year, the most being 4 times in 8 days around New Year.
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Thank you this is a good example of how would anyone know how many different or how many times. Having been in the lifestyle a long time the numbers have to be huge as at most parties or clubs I usually wide up with several different men in one evening, and as for regular bulls or males joining us, which happens once or twice a month in one night combined him and my. Man may take me several times each, make it a weekend and several times turns into 10-20 times between them both, add a third make and the numbers jumps again. I do have a regular off and on sometimes two, and they are regulars due to size performance and ability to take me several times in one evening. Like many of you my husband enjoys the act of both being involved and or reclaiming his wife when it’s over. Once my lover is gone he will again take me as a final act of love for our relationship. Such a silly and unreasonable question to ask for experienced swingers but perhaps if you’ve only done it once or twice keeping track of numbers may be easy.
 
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for the past 5 years i can say its a good number of bulls. Regulars she got 3 one of them is her boss so that means serving him on daily bases. Not like he fucks her every day but one way or another he is using my wife. Others they fuck for a month or two and some are just for one night.
 
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Why did she decide to just settle for one guy?
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Hi Cassy84, I should've worded that different, she's mostly happy with the same guy each week and she's comfortable with him but doesn't rule out a newbie and she has been with a couple of other guys this year, guys who she's fucked before.
She's been on quite a few socials this year with guys from a swingers website but unless they're exceptional they don't go any further.
The good thing about having the same guy every week is we all get on so well. He texts me all the time and I send him photos and I know he doesn't mind if I want to join in with them occasionally or just leave them to it, it makes no difference
 
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