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Married 20+ years, ok to good sex life. Wife easily cums from me licking her, never from me pumping her.
About 4 years ago we get into mfm with a guy we know, exciting but weird and awkward first times, more comfy each time, really comfy now.
We'd done it with him maybe 10 times over about a year, was fun. One night I was licking her while they were kissing, she came. I climbed on her and started while they made out, did that befor. I unloaded pretty quick....it's exciting hell when he's with us. He starts his turn, they're kissing while he pumping. She starts to grunt, her body got stiff and she came HARD, she's pushing back to him, that got him off. I'd never seen her that out of breath.
Now she cums with him pumping her every time he's with us. She's cum with me fucking her sometimes but only on nights he's with us. It's damn hot.
So in a night always once, sometimes twice. There's been times after he's gone I've licked her to orgasm....so 3 is the most.

Do you ever let them be together alone? J (the wife)
 
My ex would almost always cum with me. She did when I was fucking her, but even more so and harder when I gave her oral. With other guys she would rarely ever cum. I personally assumed that she was holding herself back, but I also knew that it was always most important for her, to make the guy cum and to make him cum fast! I always took it as some sort of self reward or confidence booster. There was this one time when I remember she was being fucked by our fuck buddy, (D), which had also been her first BBC. I was filming them while they were in the missionary position and she didn’t know I was in the room, or that I was filming them. And because they were in the missionary position, she couldn’t see me either. I heard her ask him where I was and he told her I was in another room. I could immediately see and hear a significant difference in her! She had so obviously opened up and allowed herself to completely let herself go. It wasn’t long before I witnessed something I had never seen or heard from her before. She was breathing faster and heavier. She was the most vocal I’d ever heard! At first she was just saying things like, “oh my god!” “Oh, oh, oh yeah!” And then from completely out of nowhere, she very clearly and loudly, almost screaming, “OMG!!, OMG!! WHAT ARE YOU DOING??, OMG, WHAT ARE YOU DOING TO ME???!!!” Followed instantly with her pussy squirting the most amount of fluid I’ve ever seen!! He continued pumping his big cock in and out of her tightly stretched pussy and her juices found ways to escape and in only a matter of seconds, his cock and balls were completely drenched, as well as her ass, thighs and of course the bed!! I had NEVER been so excited and turned on as I was watching what had just happened!!! As she was trying to catch her breath, she was telling him that she had never felt anything like that before in her life!! He was still fucking her but had slowed down considerably, moving very slowly and even stopping at times. I thought he must have cum and I thought I had seen what looked like semen too. They began kissing in a really passionate way and he started to slide himself in and out, but even more gently and slower. It appeared more like he was making love to her, rather than fucking her! It didn’t bother me at all and if anything, made the whole event even better! I heard her ask him if he had cum to which he replied that he hadn’t. I already knew just how much he absolutely loved her pussy, and just like all the other guys, couldn’t get enough of it!! I also knew that he could recover quickly and cum multiple times. There were at least two or three other times prior that I wondered if he had already came once, but was able to hide it enough so he could fuck her again. I didn’t care either way tbh. In between and during the kissing, I’m treated to one of my all-time favorite things! I hear her tell him that she wants him to cum! That she wants him to cum inside her!! That she wants him to cum inside her pussy!!! It always starts out as more of a request, but always turns into a demand, or maybe even her begging. I absolutely love it when I get to hear her say that!!! By this time he’s going full throttle and balls deep!!! She’s still encouraging him to give her what she wants and it isn’t very long before he makes it loudly and visibly clear that he’s completed his task. Shortly after he filled her pussy full of cum, I decided to finally make my presence known. I stood up and walked to the side of the bed, all the while with a huge smile on my face, and a huge hard on with my cock!! Before anything could be said, I looked at her and told her that that was the most incredible and amazing thing I’d ever seen!!!! I told her how fucking hot and sexy she looked and sounded!! She looked at me with what seemed to me to be a relieved feeling over what my reaction might have been. She openly explained how unbelievable she felt at that one moment! (D) began to slowly pull his cock out of her pussy, and now I was yet again about to be treated to two more of my all-time favorite things!!! Always in this same order, first off, watch the cock until it’s completely out and wait for the moment as his cum can be seen and especially as it starts to slowly drip from the lips of her pussy!!! And lastly, but without any doubt whatsoever, the ABSOLUTE BEST part of it all, I quickly positioned myself between her legs, her still, wide open legs!!! I look down and notice how much her, usually tightly closed pussy lips, are now reddened and spread wide apart and just how swollen and hard her clit is!!!! I always take in another look at her freshly fucked cum filled pussy!! I lean over her and move my head towards hers until our lips touch and we’re immediately reconnected with each other, even stronger than before!!! The passion mixed with the lust is so powerful, it’s almost unbearable!!! Within a matter of merely seconds, my rock hard cock lines up and effortlessly slides inside her warm and slippery pussy!!! Then once again, within a matter of merely seconds, I’m fucking her hard and fast until I’m adding another load of cum to her pussy!!!

Sex is ALWAYS so much better when we are not being porn stars for a husband/SO and can really just let go and ENJOY it!!! J (the wife)
 
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Probably 30 times with me for every one with another man.

Edit: Now that I think of it, it may be closer to 5:1, depending on the year. Last year we went to 2 sex clubs in Europe, and had a pre-trip encounter before going to Hawaii. The sex clubs alone probably had 10-12 other men fuck May.

This year there's only been one encounter so far. Though we have a big trip planned for later in the year. So right now we're probably at 20 fucks from me, to one with another man.
 
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Sex is ALWAYS so much better when we are not being porn stars for a husband/SO and can really just let go and ENJOY it!!! J (the wife)
I like to watch herxand him, he likes to watch her and me. I don't think she does things to show off. Whoever isn't doing her sometimes will toung kiss her, she likes that. She will look over to me while he's doing her. We're all comfy together, we all relax and enjoy. There's times she just lays there with her eyes closed and enjoys him pumping her.
 
Just curious on what the average is when she’s with you vs another man?

My wife on average cums about 10-20 times when we fool around vs maybe 1 or so with her ex husband. That’s pretty much her experience sexually. So just wondering if maybe the number of times she cums with me is holding her back from being shared? We were fooling around already when she was married. I was her booty call. Lol
I've been wandering about the same thing myself. She cums with me at least two times clitorally (using her magic wand), usually three, and even more vaginally. We have sex on the average once in two days, sometimes more. With other men, she cums many times vaginally but is almost unable to have a clitoral orgasm. So, I have the feeling that she's too well-satisfied to be looking for adventures more than once or twice per month. On the other hand, I'm not at all willing to give up our wounderful sexual relationship to make her fuck others more often. Kind of sac-du-cul.
 
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Yea my thinking too if they are very satisfied the amount of time they play outside of marriage I think will be less/none rather than if they are never satisfied sexually I think they would be more willing to explore.
In fact, she was cheating on her ex-boyfriend, and he wouldn't have liked it had he ever known. With me, she doesn't like other men as men, she is just aroused by the many cocks, sometimes pussies, around, above, and below her, and by the fact that I'm pleased by these cocks penetrating her. I'm very flattered by her affection but just want her to yield to her unharnessed sexual desire more often, without thinking of me all the time.
 
Let me tell you. If a woman really did have 10-20 full blown orgasms she would be dead. Maybe your wife is massaging your ego or yourself. Either way it has nothing to do with holding her back from being shared. Odd how you can correlate the two together like that. Where you masturbating when you wrote the post?
I'm not a woman but I disagree partially. It depends on the type of orgasm the author means. My wife is absolutely able to cum vaginally every two or three minutes; if she cums for the first time, say, in the tenth minute of the intercourse and I (or somebody else) fuck her for another 35 minutes (which is normal), you can calculate. During the first months of our relationship, this was our normal way of having sex; however, back then we could meet for only two or three days per week. Afterward, when we were already living together, so much orgasms became too intense for her. Now she usually stops me doing that "special thing" when she's on top and that makes her cumming too much. Before you put the same blame on me and claim that she is just "massaging my ego", I must assure you that I know very well her reactions, especially the spasms of her belly. On the other hand, the clitoral orgasm is another universe. I really cannot imagine a woman cumming this way more than five or six times, and that rarely. My girl used to do it once, almost always touching herself. When an acquaintance of ours gave her as a gift the magic wand, she increased the number firstly to six, then five, now three, more rarely two. With 20 of these, she wouldn't pass out; she would probably have a cardiac arrest.
 
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She very rarely cums with me, I get too excited and can’t last, her bulls on the other hand make her cum with foreplay several times and several more when fucking her, she as never squirted by me only with bbc
 
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