This is an interesting one for me. My husband and I have a wonderful ....... We are stable. We are financially secure. I'm getting a bit older and my clock to have another ...... isn't gonna last forever. I've definitely thought about going off birth control and letting what happens happen. I know my husband would support it. There are obvious risks. Not knowing the genetic background and family health lineage of the father, if it was a mixed race, the explanations and it would no longer be 'in the closet' that it wasn't my husband who fucked me. But I have and am giving it a LOT of thought.