How many wives in this lifestyle actually fuck.

I don' think we're there yet in this 'process" yet. I don't want to scare her off since she hasn't indicated by talk or action what her ultimate response to his proposition might be. Right now I'm trying to sneakily push her towards cheating. I've posted her under a subject " MISSED OPPORTUNITY" more details about this whole thing/ Net of it is I think she'll take the bait if I just present the right opportunity with the right covert encouragement. Stand by?