I am 100% into cuckolding! It turns me on like no other...but I know my wife would never go for it. Before me, she was a virgin...that’s right! She’s never been with anyone else, which also makes our sex life boring. But the thought of her being with a well-endowed guy is exciting, and I know she would LOVE IT! I think her experiencing a true big cock bull would change both our sex lives for the better. How do I make this happen???
How to convince my wife???
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got the same problem mate maybe not my wife but my girlfriend haha
nothing you can do but respect her views. Don't force things. If the differences consume you, divorce may be the only option. Best of luck..
When my husband first told me he wants to see me in bed with another man, I thought it was just a lame excuse for him wanting to be with another woman. But after several years of convincing me otherwise, I came to realize it really was all about me, and him wanting me to get pleasured really good. It takes time.
Kris.rk
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You should start watching 3some porns with her then slowly move to watching cuck porns.. if her response shows hint of positiveness then move to dirty talking on bed while having sex and see her reaction.. This could be few basic steps of knowing if she would agree or not.. just remember dont push anything and spoil your marraige. It will take time
Uncledude55
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Like everyone else that's replied I'm going to counsel patience. It took me several years of slowly moving things in that direction. Just as Kris.rk said....we started out watching threesome porn. Once I saw that she was turned on by that I started telling her fantasies during our sex, of watching her with other men. I would give great detail of how this would happen. It always made for really hot sex. I didn't talk fantasies every time we had sex. I didn't push her and the patience paid off as we actually did her favorite fantasy.
As bad as you want this you need to reassure her over and over that your relationship is solid and nothing will change that. It's a HUGE step for a woman to open herself up to having sex with someone other than her mate.
Be patient and good luck !!!
It took me a while, over a year. We were in our thirties and I thought our marriage needing spicing up. My wife was a very conservative woman so I knew I had my work cut out for me. I never approached her about another man, until I thought she was ready. I did the following things but not necessarily in the order listed. You kind of have to know your wife well enough to see when to come back and reinforce what your point is by redoing a point.
All this will be over a period of time.
1. I told her, "I loved you" all the time. If she told me she loved me, I didn't reply "me to", that is killer for most women. Always say, "I love you", women want to hear the words.
2. I did things for her around the house so she had time for herself for whatever she wanted to do.
3. I encouraged her to go out with her girlfriends, this encourages freedom and that you trust her. Also be aware that her girlfriends might have sex with other men, they might encourage her to do the same. Since this is what you want, then this should not be a problem. Another approach to this, if you know for sure that one of your wife's friends is already a married swinger or she fucks other men and you trust her , inform her you want your wife start fucking other men, other slut women are a great resource to help you turn your wife into a slut. If this happens you will have the slut you want a lot faster than all these steps can produce, but the danger is your wife can very wild and start cheating, instead of having the relationship that I think you are seeking.
4. I repeatedly left 1-2 pieces of chocolate or whatever candy your wife likes with a note that says, think of you sexy, love you sexy.
5. Encourage your wife to dress sexier and tell her how beautiful and sexy she looks.
6. Find out what her sizes are and if she dresses very conservative, start buying shorter to skirts with sexy heels that wrap around her ankle or pumps. The skirts don't have to be slutty, just short. Buy her very sexy panties, women love to please their men. Always have your model the new clothes for you and tell her how sexy and beautiful she looks.
7. Buy her sexy lingerie' and tell her to model it for you and tell her how hot she looks. Tell her you would make any men's cock hard.
8. Make sure you get rid of her conservative clothes, you don't want her going back to dressing that way again.
9. Once she is dressing sexier, and you are walking around with her in a mall, store, hotel or restaurant, quickly pick out a good looking guy and tell her, WOW, you look so sexy that guy couldn't take his eyes off of you. Honey, you really are very sexy woman. This has to be repeated several times at different places.
10. Start taking her out to night clubs in hotels, she might not feel comfortable at first in shorter skirts because she might not want to be seen by someone in short skirts, so take her to a club in a nearby town. Prefer clubs in hotels, everything is convenient in case you score.
11. When you are out at a club and she goes the lady's room, when she returns tell her a couple of guys came over and they told me how lucky I was being with a very hot looking woman.Tell your wife they even asked it was O.K. if they asked her to dance and you agreed. Just say a quick line that a dance isn't going kill anyone. Don't get into a big conversation about it.
12. At clubs, hotels,restaurants, always try to sit at a tables that are more private and maybe darker. When your on the dance floor, go to the area of the dance floor that is darker and more obscure, but where men can see her on the dance floor.
13. If she drinks make sure she gets some drinks in her and get her a little tipsy, not drunk, then take her to the dance floor and dance to some slow sexy music.
14. Start kissing her passionately while dancing and when she is kissing you, put one of your hands on one of her ass cheeks. If she should pull your hand up grab a little bit of her skirt and ride it up, just enough, to partially show the guys watching, a view of her panties or the top of her stockings.
15. What you want to do is send a signal to the guys watching, it is O.K. with you, if they want to dance with her and raise her skirt or feel her off. Dance with her a couple of songs and then go back to the table to sit and order some more drinks, while you go to the men's room.
16. On the way to the men's room, if you can, stop at the guys table that were watching you and quickly tell the guys what you want to do with your wife, don't let your wife see you. Another way this can be done is approach any guy in the men's room tell him what you want to do. You can even share what you want to do with a guy you know and trust. Several ways this can be done.
17. Ask one of the guys that was watching you dancing to walk to the bathroom, if not the bathroom some place more private and tell him your plan. Most young guys will go along with you because most young guys are out to get some pussy. Tell them she is not aware, so go easy, only dancing until the time is right for him to raise her skirt a little. You might only make a light plan for that evening and continue in small steps, get to know each other and make a plan.
18. Have more drinks, before you call the guy over, but don't get drunk. You might want to act like you know each other from the past, this usually makes a wife more at ease.
19. You don't really want to push too much or you will blow it. At this point you want to get her comfortable in other men's arms. So you will have to get a guy that will go along with you for whatever time it takes. Keep the friend interested by reminding him the reward is going to be fucking your wife.
20. Having your wife slow dancing often with other your friend sends signals to her that it is O.K. with you. You keep doing this until your wife is comfortable with an other man touching her and it shows her that it's O.K. with you.
21. For as long as it takes, you keep telling her wow, my friend thinks you are very sexy woman, his other friends saw you dancing with him and they told him you looked real sexy hot.
22. Keep taking your wife to the club and have your friend meet you there and have him slow dance often with your wife. You are now making her more and more comfortable to be with another man. Tell him to take subtle freedoms with her like lightly kissing her, moving his hand to her ass, if she will allow it. If she should move your friends hand to her waist, this is a great time for your friend to ride your wife's skirt up a little as she is moving his hand to her waist. Never force her to do anything.
23. Talk to your wife in bed and tell her, my friend thinks I am a very lucky man to have such a sexy and hot looking woman. All his other friends tell him that you are so beautiful and sexy. My friend said, I bet she is a great fun in bed! Depending on her comeback, you can say something like, I am just telling you how other men think of you, but I do agree with them, you are a very sexy woman.
24. Try to get your wife to wearing short skirts at home all the time. When you guys are by yourselves, start having drinks and do some very sexy slow dances at home. Practice your moves very well at home, including fingering her pussy, raising her skirt, feeling her ass and passionately kissing her. Do this several times at home so it is not a surprise to her the next time she is a little tipsy at the club and you dance the very same sexy way, including fingering her pussy when you are dancing. This will get her used to getting fingered on the dance floor. Get her real horny on the dance floor. When you go to your hotel room or home watch a threesome flick, she will get her even hornier. Get your wife as horny as hell than start fucking the shit out of her. Do this step several times over and over for weeks if you have to, make it a ritual part of your hot sex action at home. This step will get her used to being fingered and touched on the dance floor.
25. After several times or weeks of practicing your actions at home, contact your friend and tell him the next time you are all at the club I will give you a sign to cut in and try to take as much liberty with your wife as she will allow him to. Tell him to try to grind his cock against her pussy, if she will allow him. Sometimes a woman might not feel comfortable and they get nervous, so tell your friend to ease her by gently laying her head on his shoulder. What you are doing you are going to let your friend continue where you left off and see how far it goes, no forcing. You might have to do this over and over for sometime to reinforce everything that got you to this point. You have to show her you are alright with all that is going on with your friend and other men. You have to show your wife you still respect and love her.
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26. Next time at the club have a few drinks before you start dancing, get her a little tipsy, not drunk. Take her to the dance floor and put on some of the same sexy grind to her pussy that you did at your house. Let her feel your cock getting hard. Start deep french kissing her while you move a hand or both hands to her ass. She will be thinking of how hot you guys dance at home and all the fucking she saw on the threesome flick, and how much fucking she did afterwards. She will be high and horny enough that she won't even feel you lifting her skirt higher than ever, this time without a doubt the guys can get an excellent view of her panties. Now, you can start bring your arm down and try fingering her pussy, I bet she will be very, very, wet.
27. Call your friend over to cut in while your wife is in a very horny state. Go and sit at the table and watch the action. My wife was pretty tipsy and the guy I contacted, put both arms between her ass and her waist and started grinding on her pussy. Later, my wife said, she was getting real horny as she felt his cock rising. My wife was wearing a very short black flare skirt, this made it easy for him to grab a small piece of her skirt and ride it up. My wife's ass looked hot in very sheer black and white trim panties. My wife later told me he also started fingering her pussy with her other hand. She said she didn't believe she was letting him do all this to her, but she was liking it a lot and was very horny. As much as this guy did, he did not have sex with her, she still had a hangup. We continued doing this for a while and then more men were added.
28. I contacted my friend and told him to bring more of his buddies, because I wanted to see if my wife was open to more men touching her. After some drinking, my friend sat down beside my wife and started kissing her and started to raise her skirt and wanted to finger her pussy. My wife turned to me as wanting my approval and I said go a head, have some fun. To show my wife that I was O.K. with it, I took my friend's hand and placed on her pussy, he wasted no time and started darting his fingers in her pussy. My wife started to moan and buck against my friends fingers. That night all three of the other guys that were with my friend danced and also fingered my wife.
29. It was time to go up to the room and everybody wanted to fuck my wife, but I said no, because I didn't want for her to get scared and back out and told them maybe later and the other 3 guys left disappointed. We went to the room, my wife excused her self and went to the bathroom and came out with an extremely sexy sheer black short nightie with extremely sheer tiny black panties that hardly covered anything. She had on black stockings and heels that made her legs look very long. My wife looked hot and ready to fuck. I asked my wife when she decide to fuck another guy. She said, she wasn't sure when it happened, but she started getting real hot when she started being the center of attention.
30. The friend took his cloths off and laid my wife on the edge of the bed and she turned to me for approval and I said, have fun, go for it and he started kissing her inner thighs making way up to her pussy. He kissed her all around her pussy, but still did not dart his tongue in her pussy, she was getting extremely hot. He raised her negligee' and kissed her stomach and then went up to the top and open it and revealed her beautiful breasts, I had a raging hard-on just looking. He started kissing her breasts and she was moaning. He than broke away and started french kissing her and kissing her neck. My wife was red hot. He finally went down to her pussy again and started to dart his tongue in and out of her pussy. She was finally ready and he put her legs on his shoulders and started to insert his 9 inch cock in her pussy. My wife started to moan, "AAHH". He fucked her all night until 7:00 am next day and he left. After he left, I fucked my wife several times. I could feel all the cum he left in her pussy and it made me fuck her harder.
31. After your wife fucks another man for the first time, quickly setup dates for her with several men to fuck her. You need to get her fucked by more strangers so set her up with several men to fuck her often, this will make her lose her inihbitions and make her comfortable in her new hot-wife role. About six different men later, your wife will be comfortable fucking other men, she will understand her new role as a hot-wife is to make herself available for fucking. This step was easy for me since I already had 3 other disappointed guys that wanted to fuck my wife, all 3 finally fucked her, one guy at a time, they introduced more of their friends to my wife, several guys started fucking her every week.
32. My wife went from a very conservative woman to slut that loved to fuck, she fucked any guy that wanted her pussy. Make sure this is what you want, because the term hot-wife, is a nicer term for whore or slut. In most cases a hot-wife doesn't get paid like a prostitutes, but they are used as prostitutes to close contracts for husbands, boyfriends or bosses. Example: Several years ago, through some friends I knew of these law partners, all black, they hired young white lawyers that just graduated very much in debt. The way it was told to me after the first 6 months, they were offered great pay raises, but only if they could fuck their young wives. Some stayed made lots of money, some left, their choice. As I understood it, the wives not only fucked the law partners, they were used to fuck clients and close the contracts. In some cases, hot-wives get pimped out usually in their own homes, some hot-wives love gang-bang parties, some hot-wives don't mind getting fucked by several men, but only one at a time, some hot-wives are open about their lifestyle, some are not, it all depends how far you and your wife want take the lifestyle.
27. Call your friend over to cut in while your wife is in a very horny state. Go and sit at the table and watch the action. My wife was pretty tipsy and the guy I contacted, put both arms between her ass and her waist and started grinding on her pussy. Later, my wife said, she was getting real horny as she felt his cock rising. My wife was wearing a very short black flare skirt, this made it easy for him to grab a small piece of her skirt and ride it up. My wife's ass looked hot in very sheer black and white trim panties. My wife later told me he also started fingering her pussy with her other hand. She said she didn't believe she was letting him do all this to her, but she was liking it a lot and was very horny. As much as this guy did, he did not have sex with her, she still had a hangup. We continued doing this for a while and then more men were added.
28. I contacted my friend and told him to bring more of his buddies, because I wanted to see if my wife was open to more men touching her. After some drinking, my friend sat down beside my wife and started kissing her and started to raise her skirt and wanted to finger her pussy. My wife turned to me as wanting my approval and I said go a head, have some fun. To show my wife that I was O.K. with it, I took my friend's hand and placed on her pussy, he wasted no time and started darting his fingers in her pussy. My wife started to moan and buck against my friends fingers. That night all three of the other guys that were with my friend danced and also fingered my wife.
29. It was time to go up to the room and everybody wanted to fuck my wife, but I said no, because I didn't want for her to get scared and back out and told them maybe later and the other 3 guys left disappointed. We went to the room, my wife excused her self and went to the bathroom and came out with an extremely sexy sheer black short nightie with extremely sheer tiny black panties that hardly covered anything. She had on black stockings and heels that made her legs look very long. My wife looked hot and ready to fuck. I asked my wife when she decide to fuck another guy. She said, she wasn't sure when it happened, but she started getting real hot when she started being the center of attention.
30. The friend took his cloths off and laid my wife on the edge of the bed and she turned to me for approval and I said, have fun, go for it and he started kissing her inner thighs making way up to her pussy. He kissed her all around her pussy, but still did not dart his tongue in her pussy, she was getting extremely hot. He raised her negligee' and kissed her stomach and then went up to the top and open it and revealed her beautiful breasts, I had a raging hard-on just looking. He started kissing her breasts and she was moaning. He than broke away and started french kissing her and kissing her neck. My wife was red hot. He finally went down to her pussy again and started to dart his tongue in and out of her pussy. She was finally ready and he put her legs on his shoulders and started to insert his 9 inch cock in her pussy. My wife started to moan, "AAHH". He fucked her all night until 7:00 am next day and he left. After he left, I fucked my wife several times. I could feel all the cum he left in her pussy and it made me fuck her harder.
31. After your wife fucks another man for the first time, quickly setup dates for her with several men to fuck her. You need to get her fucked by more strangers so set her up with several men to fuck her often, this will make her lose her inihbitions and make her comfortable in her new hot-wife role. About six different men later, your wife will be comfortable fucking other men, she will understand her new role as a hot-wife is to make herself available for fucking. This step was easy for me since I already had 3 other disappointed guys that wanted to fuck my wife, all 3 finally fucked her, one guy at a time, they introduced more of their friends to my wife, several guys started fucking her every week.
32. My wife went from a very conservative woman to slut that loved to fuck, she fucked any guy that wanted her pussy. Make sure this is what you want, because the term hot-wife, is a nicer term for whore or slut. In most cases a hot-wife doesn't get paid like a prostitutes, but they are used as prostitutes to close contracts for husbands, boyfriends or bosses. Example: Several years ago, through some friends I knew of these law partners, all black, they hired young white lawyers that just graduated very much in debt. The way it was told to me after the first 6 months, they were offered great pay raises, but only if they could fuck their young wives. Some stayed made lots of money, some left, their choice. As I understood it, the wives not only fucked the law partners, they were used to fuck clients and close the contracts. In some cases, hot-wives get pimped out usually in their own homes, some hot-wives love gang-bang parties, some hot-wives don't mind getting fucked by several men, but only one at a time, some hot-wives are open about their lifestyle, some are not, it all depends how far you and your wife want take the lifestyle.
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Took my gf about 4 years before she opened up to it. Patience is key. Don’t be pushy. Many compliments on her looks and definitely talk about things when she’s horny. It’ll help her to like the fantasy. Here she is now. Wanting new cock of her own. Uses dildos and loves dirty talk. 
cuckolddick
Couple
Love to see Kathy get fucked by a really well hung guy! I only have 3 1/2 inches and I know she would be really pleased to have a 8 or 9 inch cock fuck 
her and cum deep inside her as well.
her and cum deep inside her as well.
nutinbutfun
Couple
I am slowly seeing the changes in my wife. Patience, patience, patience. I have planted the idea in my wifes head that I want to clean her up after I fill her. I am doing this because I am truly curious about what we will taste like but also in hopes that she will like me cleaning her up. My thinking there is that it will embolden her some to be a little more selfish in her sexual desires.
I thought it was going to happen last night but she used the vigina magic on me in the missionary position and I blew. She knows she has to be on top and in control in order to do it. After we were finished and making dinner last night I took her (still in a orgasmic afterglow) and asked her if she noticed how quickly I disengaged afterwards. She said she did and I told her that if my load was the same as thursday nights load was, I had every reason to be concerended because I cam a quart.
She then grabbed my cock as we were talking and it was hard. She gave me a wicked smile.
Just had to run out to a customers office and she had just started cooking dinner. I asked her to have somethign ready for me to eat when I return tonight. She just smiled.
I thought it was going to happen last night but she used the vigina magic on me in the missionary position and I blew. She knows she has to be on top and in control in order to do it. After we were finished and making dinner last night I took her (still in a orgasmic afterglow) and asked her if she noticed how quickly I disengaged afterwards. She said she did and I told her that if my load was the same as thursday nights load was, I had every reason to be concerended because I cam a quart.
She then grabbed my cock as we were talking and it was hard. She gave me a wicked smile.
Just had to run out to a customers office and she had just started cooking dinner. I asked her to have somethign ready for me to eat when I return tonight. She just smiled.
nutinbutfun
Couple
What do you think about my hoping that she'll enjoy being cleaned up as a way to show her it is ok to think of her own sexual needs over mine?
You have a beautiful wife. Mine is a looker still but she stopped cheating on me a few years ago and sadly I can't get her to go back to her old ways. I know she wants a good fuck but she just won't do it now.
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