Hi all, have been lurking on this forum for a while and learned and enjoyed a lot of everyone's experiences and stories!
My wife and me are married, 35 years old and love each other a lot. Our sex life together started off great, but the last 2 years its gone down hill. Assumingly just because of my very demanding job (poor excuse I know).
I've got acquainted with cuckolding/wifesharing years ago when I fucked a hotwife I found on craigslist for her first time in front of her husband whilst he was jerking. In my head the tables have turned and it really turns me on thinking that my wife gets fucked by other guys with bigger dicks. I'm submissive myself and my wife is quite dominant. We did like to do stuff like pegging but since our sex life is not as it was we haven't done these things for a while. I've been open about cuckolding and told her this is a fantasy of mine. Please see how this is currently developing:
-I've told my wife a while ago I think it's a hot idea that she would have sex with other man and get bigger dicks.
-My wife knows It turns me on when my wife tells me my dick is small (13cm), she also make jokes about my dick and sometimes says she wants big/fat dick.
-Sometimes she jerks me off while saying my dick is small and she want someone else's fat dick.
-She told me her ex boyfriend had a very big dick, even though it hurt sometimes it also made her squirt.
-She told me some Instagram gay guy she follows has a 'side boyfriend'. I told her it would be ok for me to have a side boyfriend like that. EDIT: this meant to be: She asked me if it was ok for me if she had a side boyfriend, not me.. I told her that for me it would be OK if she had a side boyfriend.
-She told me it's her fantasy to see me get fucked by another guy. At the time she told me this this was not of interest to me, but I would be ok if this was her Bull.
The above does all seem to go in the right direction but my feeling is that this is still quite 'playful' and perhaps she tells this just to make me horny and cum.
When we had a serious conversation about that I would be ok with a 'side boyfriend' she became quite mad and said:
-I don't love her enough if I can share her and it could lead to relationship problems in the future.
-She doesn't have interest in fucking someone else (contradicts what she says sometimes, but not sure if its just words..)
-She cannot imagine wanting to share me and see me fuck another woman (which I have no interest in)
-She is somewhat afraid in the future I want to use this as an excuse to hookup also with others. I've very clearly told her I have no interest in this and this is something we can enjoy together.
At the moment I'm a bit stuck with her augments on the last 3 points. At the same time I also don't always want to bring it up. Any recommendations on how to proceed? Appreciate the help!
My wife and me are married, 35 years old and love each other a lot. Our sex life together started off great, but the last 2 years its gone down hill. Assumingly just because of my very demanding job (poor excuse I know).
I've got acquainted with cuckolding/wifesharing years ago when I fucked a hotwife I found on craigslist for her first time in front of her husband whilst he was jerking. In my head the tables have turned and it really turns me on thinking that my wife gets fucked by other guys with bigger dicks. I'm submissive myself and my wife is quite dominant. We did like to do stuff like pegging but since our sex life is not as it was we haven't done these things for a while. I've been open about cuckolding and told her this is a fantasy of mine. Please see how this is currently developing:
-I've told my wife a while ago I think it's a hot idea that she would have sex with other man and get bigger dicks.
-My wife knows It turns me on when my wife tells me my dick is small (13cm), she also make jokes about my dick and sometimes says she wants big/fat dick.
-Sometimes she jerks me off while saying my dick is small and she want someone else's fat dick.
-She told me her ex boyfriend had a very big dick, even though it hurt sometimes it also made her squirt.
-She told me some Instagram gay guy she follows has a 'side boyfriend'. I told her it would be ok for me to have a side boyfriend like that. EDIT: this meant to be: She asked me if it was ok for me if she had a side boyfriend, not me.. I told her that for me it would be OK if she had a side boyfriend.
-She told me it's her fantasy to see me get fucked by another guy. At the time she told me this this was not of interest to me, but I would be ok if this was her Bull.
The above does all seem to go in the right direction but my feeling is that this is still quite 'playful' and perhaps she tells this just to make me horny and cum.
When we had a serious conversation about that I would be ok with a 'side boyfriend' she became quite mad and said:
-I don't love her enough if I can share her and it could lead to relationship problems in the future.
-She doesn't have interest in fucking someone else (contradicts what she says sometimes, but not sure if its just words..)
-She cannot imagine wanting to share me and see me fuck another woman (which I have no interest in)
-She is somewhat afraid in the future I want to use this as an excuse to hookup also with others. I've very clearly told her I have no interest in this and this is something we can enjoy together.
At the moment I'm a bit stuck with her augments on the last 3 points. At the same time I also don't always want to bring it up. Any recommendations on how to proceed? Appreciate the help!
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