My wife and I are new to this, we have had some very very in-depth discussions and we would really like to try a first experience for her with another guy. She really just wants to blow a guy, no sex, no strings, but how do you go about finding someone and also having that trust in someone too? Interested to hear about peoples experiences if they have ever done it this way? It was one of the things that attracted us to the thought of a glory hole but they seem impossible to find.