Hubby wanted me to date

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My hubby is the one that started the discussion and I said I think it will hurt the relationship. Not sure why I said that, but it seemed strange to me. After almost 7 months of discussion I told him I'd try the dating part and he was overjoyed.

There's this guy at my work, who is always flirting with me and making sexual comments so I figured that would be an easy beginning. So, once I flirted back, he was anxious to go have a drink. He knew I was married and I knew he was too. We went to a bar and I really had no idea how this was gonna go. After just a few drinks he was so ready and so wanting it....it just turned me off, and I went home.

Weeks went by and hubby assumed it was a busted deal and that was it....but there was one other guy at work. He's easily 5 years younger than me i'm guessing and very athletic. Didn't wear a ring. I opened a discussion one evening and after a few of these late work discussions, we ended up at a bar and the experience was sooooo much better. My husband didn't even know that I was still pursuing his request. Nothing much happened on first bar date. I went home and told hubby that i had been for a drink with a guy and we had fantastic sex while he asked me all sorts of questions. This second guy asked me for another drink and I accepted. I knew what would happen, and he did too I think. Not sure, but I think so.

Anyway, we ended up at a local marriott because he IS married. The sex was fantastic and I wasn't nervous. It was very taboo since he is married and his wife doesn't know. We've met 3 other times now and hubby loves the details.

So, that's how it started for us.
 
My hubby is the one that started the discussion and I said I think it will hurt the relationship. Not sure why I said that, but it seemed strange to me. After almost 7 months of discussion I told him I'd try the dating part and he was overjoyed.

There's this guy at my work, who is always flirting with me and making sexual comments so I figured that would be an easy beginning. So, once I flirted back, he was anxious to go have a drink. He knew I was married and I knew he was too. We went to a bar and I really had no idea how this was gonna go. After just a few drinks he was so ready and so wanting it....it just turned me off, and I went home.

Weeks went by and hubby assumed it was a busted deal and that was it....but there was one other guy at work. He's easily 5 years younger than me i'm guessing and very athletic. Didn't wear a ring. I opened a discussion one evening and after a few of these late work discussions, we ended up at a bar and the experience was sooooo much better. My husband didn't even know that I was still pursuing his request. Nothing much happened on first bar date. I went home and told hubby that i had been for a drink with a guy and we had fantastic sex while he asked me all sorts of questions. This second guy asked me for another drink and I accepted. I knew what would happen, and he did too I think. Not sure, but I think so.

Anyway, we ended up at a local marriott because he IS married. The sex was fantastic and I wasn't nervous. It was very taboo since he is married and his wife doesn't know. We've met 3 other times now and hubby loves the details.

So, that's how it started for us.
That's wonderful - glad you managed to find the right guy to start this with. And if he's married it makes it easier in lots of ways - he's only looking for sex and is less likely to talk about it. Hope you continue to have lots of fun xx
 
My hubby is the one that started the discussion and I said I think it will hurt the relationship. Not sure why I said that, but it seemed strange to me. After almost 7 months of discussion I told him I'd try the dating part and he was overjoyed.

There's this guy at my work, who is always flirting with me and making sexual comments so I figured that would be an easy beginning. So, once I flirted back, he was anxious to go have a drink. He knew I was married and I knew he was too. We went to a bar and I really had no idea how this was gonna go. After just a few drinks he was so ready and so wanting it....it just turned me off, and I went home.

Weeks went by and hubby assumed it was a busted deal and that was it....but there was one other guy at work. He's easily 5 years younger than me i'm guessing and very athletic. Didn't wear a ring. I opened a discussion one evening and after a few of these late work discussions, we ended up at a bar and the experience was sooooo much better. My husband didn't even know that I was still pursuing his request. Nothing much happened on first bar date. I went home and told hubby that i had been for a drink with a guy and we had fantastic sex while he asked me all sorts of questions. This second guy asked me for another drink and I accepted. I knew what would happen, and he did too I think. Not sure, but I think so.

Anyway, we ended up at a local marriott because he IS married. The sex was fantastic and I wasn't nervous. It was very taboo since he is married and his wife doesn't know. We've met 3 other times now and hubby loves the details.

So, that's how it started for us.
Nice!
Ready for action,not like other people.
 
My hubby is the one that started the discussion and I said I think it will hurt the relationship. Not sure why I said that, but it seemed strange to me. After almost 7 months of discussion I told him I'd try the dating part and he was overjoyed.

There's this guy at my work, who is always flirting with me and making sexual comments so I figured that would be an easy beginning. So, once I flirted back, he was anxious to go have a drink. He knew I was married and I knew he was too. We went to a bar and I really had no idea how this was gonna go. After just a few drinks he was so ready and so wanting it....it just turned me off, and I went home.

Weeks went by and hubby assumed it was a busted deal and that was it....but there was one other guy at work. He's easily 5 years younger than me i'm guessing and very athletic. Didn't wear a ring. I opened a discussion one evening and after a few of these late work discussions, we ended up at a bar and the experience was sooooo much better. My husband didn't even know that I was still pursuing his request. Nothing much happened on first bar date. I went home and told hubby that i had been for a drink with a guy and we had fantastic sex while he asked me all sorts of questions. This second guy asked me for another drink and I accepted. I knew what would happen, and he did too I think. Not sure, but I think so.

Anyway, we ended up at a local marriott because he IS married. The sex was fantastic and I wasn't nervous. It was very taboo since he is married and his wife doesn't know. We've met 3 other times now and hubby loves the details.

So, that's how it started for us.
love the details
 
My hubby is the one that started the discussion and I said I think it will hurt the relationship. Not sure why I said that, but it seemed strange to me. After almost 7 months of discussion I told him I'd try the dating part and he was overjoyed.

There's this guy at my work, who is always flirting with me and making sexual comments so I figured that would be an easy beginning. So, once I flirted back, he was anxious to go have a drink. He knew I was married and I knew he was too. We went to a bar and I really had no idea how this was gonna go. After just a few drinks he was so ready and so wanting it....it just turned me off, and I went home.

Weeks went by and hubby assumed it was a busted deal and that was it....but there was one other guy at work. He's easily 5 years younger than me i'm guessing and very athletic. Didn't wear a ring. I opened a discussion one evening and after a few of these late work discussions, we ended up at a bar and the experience was sooooo much better. My husband didn't even know that I was still pursuing his request. Nothing much happened on first bar date. I went home and told hubby that i had been for a drink with a guy and we had fantastic sex while he asked me all sorts of questions. This second guy asked me for another drink and I accepted. I knew what would happen, and he did too I think. Not sure, but I think so.

Anyway, we ended up at a local marriott because he IS married. The sex was fantastic and I wasn't nervous. It was very taboo since he is married and his wife doesn't know. We've met 3 other times now and hubby loves the details.

So, that's how it started for us.
What a turn on story!! Keep Enjoying Yourself! I'd love to hear more of Your adventures!!
 
This story rings true. So many times I read long involved stories. But they all seem to have a guy with a 10" cock and a previously disinterested wife, one cock in her life, had refused forever, who miraculously turns into a sex animal and takes it in the ass bareback. The only part I think is a bit off is that she decided to date only after husband encouraged her. My guess (based on what my wife did) is that she was attracted to guy one and had probably done a bit of flirting with him with limited results. Then, she got the guts to act and on subsequent dates she told husband this was the first time.
 
My hubby is the one that started the discussion and I said I think it will hurt the relationship. Not sure why I said that, but it seemed strange to me. After almost 7 months of discussion I told him I'd try the dating part and he was overjoyed.

There's this guy at my work, who is always flirting with me and making sexual comments so I figured that would be an easy beginning. So, once I flirted back, he was anxious to go have a drink. He knew I was married and I knew he was too. We went to a bar and I really had no idea how this was gonna go. After just a few drinks he was so ready and so wanting it....it just turned me off, and I went home.

Weeks went by and hubby assumed it was a busted deal and that was it....but there was one other guy at work. He's easily 5 years younger than me i'm guessing and very athletic. Didn't wear a ring. I opened a discussion one evening and after a few of these late work discussions, we ended up at a bar and the experience was sooooo much better. My husband didn't even know that I was still pursuing his request. Nothing much happened on first bar date. I went home and told hubby that i had been for a drink with a guy and we had fantastic sex while he asked me all sorts of questions. This second guy asked me for another drink and I accepted. I knew what would happen, and he did too I think. Not sure, but I think so.

Anyway, we ended up at a local marriott because he IS married. The sex was fantastic and I wasn't nervous. It was very taboo since he is married and his wife doesn't know. We've met 3 other times now and hubby loves the details.

So, that's how it started for us.
I agree 100%
 
My hubby is the one that started the discussion and I said I think it will hurt the relationship. Not sure why I said that, but it seemed strange to me. After almost 7 months of discussion I told him I'd try the dating part and he was overjoyed.

There's this guy at my work, who is always flirting with me and making sexual comments so I figured that would be an easy beginning. So, once I flirted back, he was anxious to go have a drink. He knew I was married and I knew he was too. We went to a bar and I really had no idea how this was gonna go. After just a few drinks he was so ready and so wanting it....it just turned me off, and I went home.

Weeks went by and hubby assumed it was a busted deal and that was it....but there was one other guy at work. He's easily 5 years younger than me i'm guessing and very athletic. Didn't wear a ring. I opened a discussion one evening and after a few of these late work discussions, we ended up at a bar and the experience was sooooo much better. My husband didn't even know that I was still pursuing his request. Nothing much happened on first bar date. I went home and told hubby that i had been for a drink with a guy and we had fantastic sex while he asked me all sorts of questions. This second guy asked me for another drink and I accepted. I knew what would happen, and he did too I think. Not sure, but I think so.

Anyway, we ended up at a local marriott because he IS married. The sex was fantastic and I wasn't nervous. It was very taboo since he is married and his wife doesn't know. We've met 3 other times now and hubby loves the details.

So, that's how it started for us.
Good girl ;)
 
I am older than my wife. When we met, she was an eastern Carolina farmer's daughter, knew little or nothing about sex. After we were married, I insisted that she date other men, posted some ads with pictures and she was booked three nights a week. The guys were to come by the house and pick her up. I selected what she was to wear, and also insisted she never date the same many twice. This went on for about three years, and believe me, before the dating ended, she knew and loved more about sex than I ever imagined! Initially, she was shy and very uneasy going out with strange guys who were obviously there to fuck her before they brought her home. But, once she got into the swing of things, she became quite an educated and sexy little slut and I loved her even more when she came home after some guy had used and fully enjoyed her hot little body! She's so damn good looking that every guy that sees her wants to fuck her.001-p-rockr-framed.jpg
 
I am older than my wife. When we met, she was an eastern Carolina farmer's daughter, knew little or nothing about sex. After we were married, I insisted that she date other men, posted some ads with pictures and she was booked three nights a week. The guys were to come by the house and pick her up. I selected what she was to wear, and also insisted she never date the same many twice. This went on for about three years, and believe me, before the dating ended, she knew and loved more about sex than I ever imagined! Initially, she was shy and very uneasy going out with strange guys who were obviously there to fuck her before they brought her home. But, once she got into the swing of things, she became quite an educated and sexy little slut and I loved her even more when she came home after some guy had used and fully enjoyed her hot little body! She's so damn good looking that every guy that sees her wants to fuck her.View attachment 553213
you may have enjoyed it, but I bet she enjoyed it more then you did. The rule about only fucking a guy once is not a good rule, even though usually the first time is the most exciting, the truly great sex comes as they get to know each other a little better, then who would only want to fuck a hung guy only once. my bet is that she fucked heaps of guys more than once that you don't know about.
 
Anyway, we ended up at a local marriott because he IS married. The sex was fantastic and I wasn't nervous. It was very taboo since he is married and his wife doesn't know. We've met 3 other times now and hubby loves the details.
Did you find it exciting for you both to decide to "get a room" and then really do that? What do you and hubby do as you tell him the details? I'm curious about both because I've been the "other guy" but not the hubby, and I think it must be like being told a highly erotic story as on Literotica but made intensely exciting by being real about the wife just returned who is now right there. Right there and showing the evidence of that encounter. Maybe even more intense because the other guy was married too but he really was cheating on his wife without her knowing, and maybe you know her too. When you next meet her you can think "I know what your husband's cum tastes like. I know what it feels like in me. He likes what I do to him! We did something I know you never do!" Seems hot to me!
 
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This story rings true. So many times I read long involved stories. But they all seem to have a guy with a 10" cock and a previously disinterested wife, one cock in her life, had refused forever, who miraculously turns into a sex animal and takes it in the ass bareback. The only part I think is a bit off is that she decided to date only after husband encouraged her. My guess (based on what my wife did) is that she was attracted to guy one and had probably done a bit of flirting with him with limited results. Then, she got the guts to act and on subsequent dates she told husband this was the first time.
I know what you mean. Some stories reek of BS. That said, don't be too quick to decide a story is BS. I know my own stories have some of the elements you describe. In particular, the wife who declines the idea, says "It will never happen" and then went wild one night. I've been married three times, to my wife now of 20 years. All three of my wives, and three girlfriends that I had while between wives ended up doing it. But they all started out saying "no way, never!" My wife rejected the idea for five years. When I first brought it up, while we were planning to get married, she initially seemed very excited, but then the next day, had chilled to the idea and said she would not. I found out many years later that she had talked to her mother about it and her mom advised her not to, that I would not want her afterward (WRONG!!!). I also found out years later that she did cuck me while we were dating, and only told me when she finally became convinced that I really wanted it and that it excited me (which of course also left her free to walk it back by saying she only told me this to please me, but that it wasn't true, in case I would have gotten upset).

To this day, she does it only rarely, and between times, she often acts like she only does it for me. But she she does it, there is no denying that she loves it.

Bottom line, this and all human sexuality is complex. People are very different and there is undoubtedly a lot of truth in the stories found here. If people flavor them up a bit, attribute it to poetic license. But yeah, I wish people wouldn't insist on the 10" cocks. Real life is much more imperfect, and yet much more satisfying!
 
Hubby's who want wives to date/fuck,
want ALL the details! The blow-by-blow, everything, from start to finish.
Give them that as you gently stroke them when you get back from a date...and you'll see what they really need & get off on: DETAILS!
So true, I love waiting at home for the full details while wife is on a date.
 
So true, I love waiting at home for the full details while wife is on a date.
Does it take the form of telling an erotic story (like Literotica)? A porn script? Does she describe the feeling of his hard cock in her mouth, the head and veins against her tongue? How it felt as he positioned it on her wet lips and she quickly pushed up eager to take its length? What does she say? When do you finally groan and release?