Hi, so my husband and I have been married for 16 years, from pretty much day one he has pursued this hotwife fantasy. He begged me and harassed me to flirt with strangers, try to pick up men, and sleep with them. I wanted nothing to do with any of it. He harassed me for 15 years, last year we were apart for three months due to work and I was lonely, At his behest I slept with a coworker. Afterwards everything was fine and I had fun, so I decided to give my husband his fantasy. I became a hotwife, I started picking up men and having sex with them and sending him the proof. It’s everything he wanted. A year later I’m having fun with it. I asked him for rules and guidelines up front, who couldn’t I sleep with, he said no rules, sleep with whomever I want. So I have. I happen to like big dicks so I seek that out. He said no problem. At my work women do not get promoted unless there is some quid pro quo. So basically fuck the boss and he’ll give you a raise. So I never get raises, till this year, I asked for a promotion and agreed to dinner with the owner since I’m now a hot wife. We went to dinner at a nice hotel then went upstairs and I fucked the shit out of him. He’s attractive, he’s successful, and he is amazingly well endowed so it wasn’t exactly a chore. It was fun, I liked it, and I’ve continued doing it cause I want to and cause I want to make more money. And my husband said no rules. Now out of no where he has a problem with me fucking my boss. And said I’m not allowed to, I’m finally making more money than he is which we need, and to be perfectly honest I like fucking him, which I now want and need sexually to be satisfied. He also doesn’t want me chasing big dicks anymore, so i can only pursue shriveled troll penis’? Have any other hotwives had your husband try to flip the rules on you after your hooked? I only started cause he begged for years now he is all jealous and wants to quit, but I don’t wanna quit.
Husband wants to change the rules
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From what i read, this happens to a lot of couples. The man is in love with the fantasy but not the reality. If his only issue is with you fucking the boss then maybe its that concerned you will leave him for the boss. Is he cuckolded - meaning do you still have sex with him, or not? Do you tease him about his penis size compared to your boss. It sounds like he never watches. You really have to talk to him and find out what his issue is, and reassure him that you are still in love with him and not planning on leaving him. A lot of couples break up over this issue, but if you have been married for 16 years you should be able to get to the bottom of the issue. Is he submissive? Maybe he wants you to to tell him you are not stopping. I once told my wife i was really jealous of her with one lover and she stopped seeing him, but i wanted her to say "No, i am still going to see him" but that was my fantasy of her choosing big dick over my small dick and this may not be his fantasy. I hope it works out for you.
I don’t cuckold him or humiliate him, I’m not comfortable with trying to hurt him. I fuck my husband all the time, actually way more than I did before we started this. I never wanted him to feel less, and I refuse to hide my activities cause I’m not a cheater. I’m honest and up front. I even started doing the dirty stuff with him that I didn’t used to do much. Just so he knows he has all of me. He doesn’t watch that wasn’t ever the request, he wants pictures and videos of me fooling around. He likes me to come home messy so he can see it all. Mostly I meet guys we text, I send the texts to my husband, then I date and fuck them and send him pics during and after the sex happens. Then I come home and fuck him, then I take a shower.
so maybe it is just about him feeling that he is going to lose you? I have read a lot of stories and talked to wives who dont understand why the husband gets mad after begging them to do it for so long, so you are not alone.
So we’ve been doing this for a year now, I never humiliate him and I give him way more sex than I used to so he doesn’t get jealous or feel inferior. What he has always wanted is me to flirt with and pick up men then have sex with them. I send him a heads up text before I do it, usually something like, I’m about to be bad? Then I send him the screen shots of the tinder messages or the text chains. I snap a pic of me naked before I start and then I send him an after math selfie. Then I go home and have sex with him before i shower while I recount the events of the night. He gets super excited and cums fast ever time. My boss isn’t my first coworker though, the first one he begged me to do was a coworker. I just work so hard to keep his ego in check I feel betrayed right now. And you’re right I’m not going back at this point. I’m not sure what I’m doing yet.
The most fragile part of a man is he ego and what makes it worse is that he has no control over it. You fulfilled his fantasy which turned into a life improving experience for you both. what has changed? not the type of sex or another man's 'equipment'. The change was WHO. Now you earn more than him due to your boss, who is more well endowed, more successful, a partner of whom you enjoy sex with more than your husband, a man that has become, I'm sure, a regular.
The 1st rule of hotwifeing is, it's only sex. the 2nd rule is, it's only sex. With your boss you've signaled that it is more than just sex.
It feels like you're between a rock and a hard place. If you stop with your boss, your employment is in jeopardy with no guarantee that your relationship with your husband will improve or continue. If you don't stop with your boss, your marriage is in jeopardy with no guarantee that your employment will continue.
But there is the remote possibility that a hiatus might work. Keep your boss on the line while waiting for hubby to get back the urge. The urge never goes away.
The 1st rule of hotwifeing is, it's only sex. the 2nd rule is, it's only sex. With your boss you've signaled that it is more than just sex.
It feels like you're between a rock and a hard place. If you stop with your boss, your employment is in jeopardy with no guarantee that your relationship with your husband will improve or continue. If you don't stop with your boss, your marriage is in jeopardy with no guarantee that your employment will continue.
But there is the remote possibility that a hiatus might work. Keep your boss on the line while waiting for hubby to get back the urge. The urge never goes away.
Just take it easy and don't let this stuff adversely affect your primary relationship.
HW
yes, take slower, let it sink in.
Doe's the boss know your hubby is on board and encouraged you? So he still likes it since you are fucking quiet well, so tell him every thing is fine. Maybe you should move the goal post around a little, does he eat you out after you have been fucked? or offered to let him watch?
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Doe's the boss know your hubby is on board and encouraged you? So he still likes it since you are fucking quiet well, so tell him every thing is fine. Maybe you should move the goal post around a little, does he eat you out after you have been fucked? or offered to let him watch?
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Your husband has no control over you anymore, he said go fuck other guys and there is no rules, You couldn’t give up fucking other guys now even if you wanted, big cock does that to all women that are fortunate enough (like you) to have experience the overwhelming passion, the intensity her gut wrenching multiple orgasms that are bought on by having a big thick cock fill you to the brim and fuck you very deep. Make it clear to him that he talked you in to this when you didn’t want to do it in the first place, and now that you have done what he wanted and fulfilled his fantasy he has to live with it and enjoy it. Make him understand it isn't just for him now, he turned you into a hot wife and that now you won’t be stopping as you enjoy getting sexual pleasure from other guys. Is your husband uncomfortable because your boss is well hung or is it because his sexy wife’s quickly becoming a size queen.
You have no need to stop doing what you enjoy but, tell him to get over the jealousy and enjoy your promiscuity as well. You've already told him you're going to continue fucking other guys, just let him you’re going to fuck every big cock you can find in future.
You have no need to stop doing what you enjoy but, tell him to get over the jealousy and enjoy your promiscuity as well. You've already told him you're going to continue fucking other guys, just let him you’re going to fuck every big cock you can find in future.
I can’t understand your husband’s point of view here . For a true Cuckold male Jealousy is a HUGE part of the turn on. Practically the whole point ! And the more he loves the woman the more jealous he’ll be hence , the greater the turn on. A true Cuckold male CRAVES for the woman he loves to become “ hooked” on a bigger cock and relegate HIS to second class status .he WANTS his wife/girlfriend to prefer another man’s cock to his in bed and he wants her to TELL him that . It doesn’t mean he doesn’t want her to love him emotionally. In fact he wants her to love him even MORE for letting her have the best of BOTH worlds and allowing her to freely express to him that she WANTS it that way. And for putting her needs first. There are many other psychological aspects of cuckolding , but Jealousy is the central dynamic ! Naturally he’s jealous ! Doesn’t he understand that, that’s the whole point?????
Don't get me wrong I feel for you.
This is another case of your husband not thinking this situation through.
When you give someone something you can't take it away.
It has to be mutually agreed upon.
Your husband has no control over you anymore, he said go fuck other guys and there is no rules, so go fuck go whoever you want. You couldn’t give up fucking other guys now even if you wanted, big cock does that to all women that are fortunate enough (like you) to have experience the overwhelming passion, the intensity her gut wrenching multiple orgasms that are bought on by having a big thick cock fill you to the brim and fuck you very deep. Make it clear to him that he talked you in to this when you didn’t want to do it in the first place, and now that you have done what he wanted and fulfilled his fantasy he has to live with it , so he needs to enjoy it. Make him understand it isn't just for him now, he turned you into a hot wife and that now you won’t be stopping as you enjoy getting sexual pleasure from other guy especially the well endowered ones. If your husband is uncomfortable because your boss is well hung or is it because his sexy wife’s quickly becoming a size queen.
You have no need to stop doing what you enjoy but, tell him to get over the jealousy and enjoy your promiscuity as well. You've already told him you're going to continue fucking other guys, just let him you’re going to fuck every big cock you can find in future.
You have no need to stop doing what you enjoy but, tell him to get over the jealousy and enjoy your promiscuity as well. You've already told him you're going to continue fucking other guys, just let him you’re going to fuck every big cock you can find in future.
how does the sex with your boss happen? is it in his office during the work day? in a hotel room after dinner & drinks? are you, frequently, out until 2:00-3:00am? does your boss think you are cheating or is he aware hubby knows?
has your boss asked you to do anything that you had to refuse? example, an overnight stay, a weekend away etc.
i also agree with the other posters here. hubby shouldn't be asking you to stop. i think he gave up that right when he encouraged you to flirt & do so with no rules.
if hubby gives you the ultimatum; it's him or me, then you have something to think about.
pete
I think you should answer this questions to understand you:
* Do you still love your hubby and want to stay together?
Assuming yes, talk to him frankly and reassure him about that.
The issue here is of course he has gone over jelous because he expected you would fuck guys and then would be just that, but this boss is like an amazing dude with all good, money, big dick, etc. So in his cuck fantasies he might not have imagined it was going to be you and Tom Cruise
* Do you still love your hubby and want to stay together?
Assuming yes, talk to him frankly and reassure him about that.
The issue here is of course he has gone over jelous because he expected you would fuck guys and then would be just that, but this boss is like an amazing dude with all good, money, big dick, etc. So in his cuck fantasies he might not have imagined it was going to be you and Tom Cruise
I will tell you a story of what happened to a friend of mine was a very similar story to what bibabyemily told for 15 years the husband wanted to try out his fantasy’s every month he would talk about a bucket list and that he wanted his wife to sleep with men . The big day came and he got pics and video to prove the wife had done it .then two weeks later he started to get jealous and saying he wants to stop it now
Part2 the wife felt she had been let down she said I can’t stop so he backed of and let her carry on for the sake of the marriage within two months he felt the wife wasn’t being fair . The wife would go out at least twice a week then he did something not right he felt he had the right up sleep around but joining a website was getting harder to meet women so he did the unthinkable . he paid for sex escorts to have sex with regular he made sure they was always a new girl never the same
While he was telling me he kept smirking I thought what was going on but he kept the videos and pics the wife kept sending him I knew he had a plan was a shame thou wife was a nice women she just got sidetracked he finally told her while she was out having fun as he put it he was doing the same she said ok thinking he was just being a arsehole then he should the video of him having sex with the young escort. She demanded him out of the house he then said the videos and pics of his wife with men will go online they had the biggest fight to which she had to backdown crying punching him as he put it she actually stoped deleted all accounts and was depressed
I don’t ever agree to what he did but as he put it I made a mistake of letting the cat of the bag and then couldn’t put it back in . He slept with over 100 women as he puts it the wife did about 20 which causes massive arguments still he still is accused of cheating .the wife said he took
Everything of her and weather she will cheat no one knows but he has the videos and pics still as he puts it my way of not losing everything she has lost loads of weight I feel sorry for her but they both as bad as each other I say it to people pics and videos in the wrong hands can destroy life’s you can lose work family be careful fun can lead to depression in wrong hands
Everything of her and weather she will cheat no one knows but he has the videos and pics still as he puts it my way of not losing everything she has lost loads of weight I feel sorry for her but they both as bad as each other I say it to people pics and videos in the wrong hands can destroy life’s you can lose work family be careful fun can lead to depression in wrong hands
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