I suspect she might be lying

this is a bit weird for me to write and even understand bc she’s allowed to play and we normally talk about everything.
Long story short, Elly had her best friend stay over who she made clear from the beginning that she had no interest in so of course it isnt a big deal to me either way. She’s twenty and they are still friends from school. She calls me over just as he left and when I arrive she is getting out of bed in just a small black thong and adjusting a tube top that just about covers her breasts. I tell her: is this how he saw you? To which she replies that it was dark and they crashed in the bed as soon as they got home. She also stressed that they were just friends so it was fine.
And that was that but I was left confused by her casual response. She gets dressed and we go on to have a cute date in the park and I’m just happy to have such a beautiful girl that loves me back.
But now reliving the moment, I can’t shake the feeling that something feels off. Why would she even lie to me? She’s free to explore anyways and does so as well. And we don’t have any rules about her not fucking friends. Although I do know him. Or am I overthinking/overblowing it? It does trigger my fantasy of her cheating on me behind my back. Especially with someone close to us. Something that I would never dare to ask but secretly wish for. So I’m okay with it and would like her to continue. But not knowing is driving me a little crazy. I’d love to hear ur thoughts or advice on this whole thing if you have any
 
this is a bit weird for me to write and even understand bc she’s allowed to play and we normally talk about everything.
Long story short, Elly had her best friend stay over who she made clear from the beginning that she had no interest in so of course it isnt a big deal to me either way. She’s twenty and they are still friends from school. She calls me over just as he left and when I arrive she is getting out of bed in just a small black thong and adjusting a tube top that just about covers her breasts. I tell her: is this how he saw you? To which she replies that it was dark and they crashed in the bed as soon as they got home. She also stressed that they were just friends so it was fine.
And that was that but I was left confused by her casual response. She gets dressed and we go on to have a cute date in the park and I’m just happy to have such a beautiful girl that loves me back.
But now reliving the moment, I can’t shake the feeling that something feels off. Why would she even lie to me? She’s free to explore anyways and does so as well. And we don’t have any rules about her not fucking friends. Although I do know him. Or am I overthinking/overblowing it? It does trigger my fantasy of her cheating on me behind my back. Especially with someone close to us. Something that I would never dare to ask but secretly wish for. So I’m okay with it and would like her to continue. But not knowing is driving me a little crazy. I’d love to hear ur thoughts or advice on this whole thing if you have any
I’d love to help you explore your fantasy it sounds Hot Dm me let’s chat
 
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this is a bit weird for me to write and even understand bc she’s allowed to play and we normally talk about everything.
Long story short, Elly had her best friend stay over who she made clear from the beginning that she had no interest in so of course it isnt a big deal to me either way. She’s twenty and they are still friends from school. She calls me over just as he left and when I arrive she is getting out of bed in just a small black thong and adjusting a tube top that just about covers her breasts. I tell her: is this how he saw you? To which she replies that it was dark and they crashed in the bed as soon as they got home. She also stressed that they were just friends so it was fine.
And that was that but I was left confused by her casual response. She gets dressed and we go on to have a cute date in the park and I’m just happy to have such a beautiful girl that loves me back.
But now reliving the moment, I can’t shake the feeling that something feels off. Why would she even lie to me? She’s free to explore anyways and does so as well. And we don’t have any rules about her not fucking friends. Although I do know him. Or am I overthinking/overblowing it? It does trigger my fantasy of her cheating on me behind my back. Especially with someone close to us. Something that I would never dare to ask but secretly wish for. So I’m okay with it and would like her to continue. But not knowing is driving me a little crazy. I’d love to hear ur thoughts or advice on this whole thing if you have any
Women can be devious creatures and very secretive when they feel it's necessary. My wife Hannah, despite our agreement not to involve family or friends in our lifestyle, went on to fuck two of my close friends. Not only that, she was fucking them every Saturday night for almost a whole year. All this time she was telling me that she was dating a (fictitious) boyfriend.

Every Sunday night I was drinking with my two buddies, totally unaware that they had both fucked Hannah the night before. I was still turned on even though she lied to me the whole time.
 
this is a bit weird for me to write and even understand bc she’s allowed to play and we normally talk about everything.
Long story short, Elly had her best friend stay over who she made clear from the beginning that she had no interest in so of course it isnt a big deal to me either way. She’s twenty and they are still friends from school. She calls me over just as he left and when I arrive she is getting out of bed in just a small black thong and adjusting a tube top that just about covers her breasts. I tell her: is this how he saw you? To which she replies that it was dark and they crashed in the bed as soon as they got home. She also stressed that they were just friends so it was fine.
And that was that but I was left confused by her casual response. She gets dressed and we go on to have a cute date in the park and I’m just happy to have such a beautiful girl that loves me back.
But now reliving the moment, I can’t shake the feeling that something feels off. Why would she even lie to me? She’s free to explore anyways and does so as well. And we don’t have any rules about her not fucking friends. Although I do know him. Or am I overthinking/overblowing it? It does trigger my fantasy of her cheating on me behind my back. Especially with someone close to us. Something that I would never dare to ask but secretly wish for. So I’m okay with it and would like her to continue. But not knowing is driving me a little crazy. I’d love to hear ur thoughts or advice on this whole thing if you have any
She is definitely getting dicked ! - She is lying to you. She wore that to bed, with another man, and they didn't happen to bump uglies at least once in the night ? She is taking cock right under your nose ! - It is amazing that men can be so damn blind. Sorry, but I understand the stupidity because it happened to me as well.

You just have to resolve whether you like it or not !
 
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this is a bit weird for me to write and even understand bc she’s allowed to play and we normally talk about everything.
Long story short, Elly had her best friend stay over who she made clear from the beginning that she had no interest in so of course it isnt a big deal to me either way. She’s twenty and they are still friends from school. She calls me over just as he left and when I arrive she is getting out of bed in just a small black thong and adjusting a tube top that just about covers her breasts. I tell her: is this how he saw you? To which she replies that it was dark and they crashed in the bed as soon as they got home. She also stressed that they were just friends so it was fine.
And that was that but I was left confused by her casual response. She gets dressed and we go on to have a cute date in the park and I’m just happy to have such a beautiful girl that loves me back.
But now reliving the moment, I can’t shake the feeling that something feels off. Why would she even lie to me? She’s free to explore anyways and does so as well. And we don’t have any rules about her not fucking friends. Although I do know him. Or am I overthinking/overblowing it? It does trigger my fantasy of her cheating on me behind my back. Especially with someone close to us. Something that I would never dare to ask but secretly wish for. So I’m okay with it and would like her to continue. But not knowing is driving me a little crazy. I’d love to hear ur thoughts or advice on this whole thing if you have any
It's best to just leave it alone, especially if you don't care or it turns you on. Just let her have her sexual freedom...as long as it doesn't become a habit. Sounds like she's a "girlfriend" and not a wife. No reason for a girlfriend to stick around if she finds something more appealing.
 
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She is definitely getting dicked ! - She is lying to you. She wore that to bed, with another man, and they didn't happen to bump uglies at least once in the night ? She is taking cock right under your nose ! - It is amazing that men can be so damn blind. Sorry, but I understand the stupidity because it happened to me as well.

You just have to resolve whether you like it or not !
It’s just that it’s something she was wearing anyways so I didn’t give it a second thought. But she was very comfortable with it. Now I do wonder how far they actually went but her getting fucked that night is exciting as hell. Especially since we fuck raw, I’m pretty sure that’s how she let him as well
 
It's best to just leave it alone, especially if you don't care or it turns you on. Just let her have her sexual freedom...as long as it doesn't become a habit. Sounds like she's a "girlfriend" and not a wife. No reason for a girlfriend to stick around if she finds something more appealing
So should I assume it’s true? Although I do hope to marry her someday
 
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So should I assume it’s true? Although I do hope to marry her someday
You have some decisions to make. If it's true and you're ok with this, then all is well. If you want to marry her then she's going to continue to do this, hopefully you're ok with that. If you stay without commitment and she finds somebody else she enjoys more..and who's better in bed, then there is no reason for her to stick around. If you want to keep her and both of you are sure about it...you should marry her and enjoy the ride. How much you discuss this now or before marriage is up to you, but it could go sideways if she doesn't want to talk about it.
 
You have some decisions to make. If it's true and you're ok with this, then all is well. If you want to marry her then she's going to continue to do this, hopefully you're ok with that. If you stay without commitment and she finds somebody else she enjoys more..and who's better in bed, then there is no reason for her to stick around. If you want to keep her and both of you are sure about it...you should marry her and enjoy the ride. How much you discuss this now or before marriage is up to you, but it could go sideways if she doesn't want to talk about it.
I agree with your take! I would think the best thing would be to have a real conversation with her about what he's thinking and feeling. Putting off the discussion will just lead to more anxiety. The thing is that this could be the deal of a lifetime! Why not roll the dice and see if she's the one! If not, lesson learned and move on to the next, right?
 
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Appreciate everyone chiming in! Then I should consider talking about marriage.

About the friend situation I’m a bit torn as i would like to know but I realized that I enjoy it being a tease. Tho she did make it a bit obvious last time. She’s asked to stay over at his for a movie night so I’ll just roll with it and ask to pick her up in the morning.
 
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Appreciate everyone chiming in! Then I should consider talking about marriage.

About the friend situation I’m a bit torn as i would like to know but I realized that I enjoy it being a tease. Tho she did make it a bit obvious last time. She’s asked to stay over at his for a movie night so I’ll just roll with it and ask to pick her up in the morning.
You don't know this guy other than through your gf? Are going to drop her off and pick her up? She must be wondering what you are thinking and why you haven't said anything if she's being obvious. Do think the thrill would be the same for either of you if she knew that you knew?