I think getting cheated on changed my kinks

I was dating this girl for only a few weeks. I had suspicions she was cheating on me as soon as we started but she always she always said not to worry. She had this friend group with 2 other girls and 2 guys. After we would hang out she would then hang out with them. She would also never talk to me when they were together. i thought it was so strange. i told her im not comfortable with it. One day she came to my place to stay over. We had sex then went to bed but i stayed up for a while on my phone. Her phone then kept buzzing so i went to see why and it was one of the guys in the group saying “I love u, im so excited to see u tomorrow. Its been only 2 days and need to fuck you again.” I was stunned and so upset. I woke her up and started freaking out what i just read. I kicked her out and we broke up. She hit me up a couple times soon after to hang out but i never did. i was tempted but never gave in.

Fast forward a year later I started dating my current GF. She’s so incredible as a person and also so hot. We’ve been dating now for over 2 years. Our sex life is good but i like more kinky stuff. at some point 6 months ago i started getting into being more submissive in bed and then eventually being into being a cuck. i was confused why because i was so upset about my ex cheating on me and have been worried about being cheated on since but now i find it so hot. The idea of my GF getting fucked by some other guy who’s bigger and stronger than me makes me so horny. Getting humiliated and degraded by her turns me on. i

I didn’t tell my GF about this for a long time until a couple months ago. She knew i liked when she took control but not being cucked. We were having sex and i told her during it that I masturbate to the thought of her having sex with another guy. She was shocked and asked if i was being serious and I told her i was completely serious. she was surprised because she knows I’ve been cheated on before. I asked if she’s comfortable talking to me about getting fucked by another man. She said she was and ever since then when we have sex she does that for me. I finish so much faster when she starts doing it. She’s became so good at it and i always ask her to describe the guy thats fucking her. Its always a Big black guy and who’s way taller, fit and has a much bigger dick than me. Her kink is actually being dominated so she always talks about how the guy is taking full control of her, something i can’t do. It makes me finish so quick.

I have never asked her if she ever would actually fuck another guy while i watch. I have asked her if she would ever have a threesome. Either with MFM or FMF. She said nah she doesn’t think she would enjoy that. I have asked her about previous experiences and it always made me jealous but horny.

I’m not going to lie as much as i want to be a cuck, i am worried that it would ruin the relationship or she would leave me for that guy. I have no idew how or if i should ask her.
 
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Sounds like a fun start to things, she may or may not ever go through with it for real but great to get the communication going.
 
I was dating this girl for only a few weeks. I had suspicions she was cheating on me as soon as we started but she always she always said not to worry. She had this friend group with 2 other girls and 2 guys. After we would hang out she would then hang out with them. She would also never talk to me when they were together. i thought it was so strange. i told her im not comfortable with it. One day she came to my place to stay over. We had sex then went to bed but i stayed up for a while on my phone. Her phone then kept buzzing so i went to see why and it was one of the guys in the group saying “I love u, im so excited to see u tomorrow. Its been only 2 days and need to fuck you again.” I was stunned and so upset. I woke her up and started freaking out what i just read. I kicked her out and we broke up. She hit me up a couple times soon after to hang out but i never did. i was tempted but never gave in.

Fast forward a year later I started dating my current GF. She’s so incredible as a person and also so hot. We’ve been dating now for over 2 years. Our sex life is good but i like more kinky stuff. at some point 6 months ago i started getting into being more submissive in bed and then eventually being into being a cuck. i was confused why because i was so upset about my ex cheating on me and have been worried about being cheated on since but now i find it so hot. The idea of my GF getting fucked by some other guy who’s bigger and stronger than me makes me so horny. Getting humiliated and degraded by her turns me on. i

I didn’t tell my GF about this for a long time until a couple months ago. She knew i liked when she took control but not being cucked. We were having sex and i told her during it that I masturbate to the thought of her having sex with another guy. She was shocked and asked if i was being serious and I told her i was completely serious. she was surprised because she knows I’ve been cheated on before. I asked if she’s comfortable talking to me about getting fucked by another man. She said she was and ever since then when we have sex she does that for me. I finish so much faster when she starts doing it. She’s became so good at it and i always ask her to describe the guy thats fucking her. Its always a Big black guy and who’s way taller, fit and has a much bigger dick than me. Her kink is actually being dominated so she always talks about how the guy is taking full control of her, something i can’t do. It makes me finish so quick.

I have never asked her if she ever would actually fuck another guy while i watch. I have asked her if she would ever have a threesome. Either with MFM or FMF. She said nah she doesn’t think she would enjoy that. I have asked her about previous experiences and it always made me jealous but horny.

I’m not going to lie as much as i want to be a cuck, i am worried that it would ruin the relationship or she would leave me for that guy. I have no idew how or if i should ask her.
Show her this pic and ask if this is what she's fantasizing about....could YOU handle your wife in some hotel room with
a giant black guy with a giant cock like this? Do you wonder how a guy like this even fits between her legs? How a thick cock like
this fits into her little, white married pussy?

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I was dating this girl for only a few weeks. I had suspicions she was cheating on me as soon as we started but she always she always said not to worry. She had this friend group with 2 other girls and 2 guys. After we would hang out she would then hang out with them. She would also never talk to me when they were together. i thought it was so strange. i told her im not comfortable with it. One day she came to my place to stay over. We had sex then went to bed but i stayed up for a while on my phone. Her phone then kept buzzing so i went to see why and it was one of the guys in the group saying “I love u, im so excited to see u tomorrow. Its been only 2 days and need to fuck you again.” I was stunned and so upset. I woke her up and started freaking out what i just read. I kicked her out and we broke up. She hit me up a couple times soon after to hang out but i never did. i was tempted but never gave in.

Fast forward a year later I started dating my current GF. She’s so incredible as a person and also so hot. We’ve been dating now for over 2 years. Our sex life is good but i like more kinky stuff. at some point 6 months ago i started getting into being more submissive in bed and then eventually being into being a cuck. i was confused why because i was so upset about my ex cheating on me and have been worried about being cheated on since but now i find it so hot. The idea of my GF getting fucked by some other guy who’s bigger and stronger than me makes me so horny. Getting humiliated and degraded by her turns me on. i

I didn’t tell my GF about this for a long time until a couple months ago. She knew i liked when she took control but not being cucked. We were having sex and i told her during it that I masturbate to the thought of her having sex with another guy. She was shocked and asked if i was being serious and I told her i was completely serious. she was surprised because she knows I’ve been cheated on before. I asked if she’s comfortable talking to me about getting fucked by another man. She said she was and ever since then when we have sex she does that for me. I finish so much faster when she starts doing it. She’s became so good at it and i always ask her to describe the guy thats fucking her. Its always a Big black guy and who’s way taller, fit and has a much bigger dick than me. Her kink is actually being dominated so she always talks about how the guy is taking full control of her, something i can’t do. It makes me finish so quick.

I have never asked her if she ever would actually fuck another guy while i watch. I have asked her if she would ever have a threesome. Either with MFM or FMF. She said nah she doesn’t think she would enjoy that. I have asked her about previous experiences and it always made me jealous but horny.

I’m not going to lie as much as i want to be a cuck, i am worried that it would ruin the relationship or she would leave me for that guy. I have no idew how or if i should ask her.
Dm me let’s chat
 
So yesterday I wanted to see how she felt about my fantasy and if she was comfortable with still doing it so i asked her about it. She said yea she is but was worried i wanted to bring another woman into bed for a threesome. I told her no, I honestly find it hot when I imagine you with another man. She was like oh ok thats fine. She did say she is not a fan of threesomes at all and would never participate. she only enjoys 1 on 1. She said she doesn’t think about other men. After this conversation i felt that she’s not near that stage yet of which is watching her fuck another guy while i watch. I did think it was interesting that she is totally fine with me imagining her with another guy. We did end up fucking that night and again she played into it talking about she’s getting fucked by a guy who is much taller than me and has a much bigger dick than i do and called me small. It was fantastic.
 
Show her this pic and ask if this is what she's fantasizing about....could YOU handle your wife in some hotel room with
a giant black guy with a giant cock like this? Do you wonder how a guy like this even fits between her legs? How a thick cock like
this fits into her little, white married pussy?

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i would love watching her get fucked by a guy like this
 
So yesterday I wanted to see how she felt about my fantasy and if she was comfortable with still doing it so i asked her about it. She said yea she is but was worried i wanted to bring another woman into bed for a threesome. I told her no, I honestly find it hot when I imagine you with another man. She was like oh ok thats fine. She did say she is not a fan of threesomes at all and would never participate. she only enjoys 1 on 1. She said she doesn’t think about other men. After this conversation i felt that she’s not near that stage yet of which is watching her fuck another guy while i watch. I did think it was interesting that she is totally fine with me imagining her with another guy. We did end up fucking that night and again she played into it talking about she’s getting fucked by a guy who is much taller than me and has a much bigger dick than i do and called me small. It was fantastic.
She will get there...when u play in bed play up the fact how small u are s h with might start believing it and think she would like a bigger dick
 
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I agree. I think i was the combination of women cheating on me and my wife rejecting sex with me 80% of the time that when I found out she had cheated in the past while rejecting me for sex I was turned on by it...
This. This is basically what happened with me too. From the beginning of my marriage, sex was something that didn’t happen often. I was very jealous, fits of rage if I thought she’d talked to someone else or certainly fucked someone. And she did, a few times behind my back but it took many years before I learned the truth.

We separated for a year and during that time we fucked like rabbits, she also got a boyfriend with a very large cock. Best year of my life. She also admitted to fucking behind my back earlier in our marriage. Changed me too. Now I get off to knowing she cheated, I want her to have a BF, I enjoy hearing her tell me about bigger cocks she’s fucked and love hearing her tell me I’m small. I realized the most important thing… it is just fucking.

If she loves me, is with me, married to me… her fucking someone who is bigger is just that, fucking.
 
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So yesterday I wanted to see how she felt about my fantasy and if she was comfortable with still doing it so i asked her about it. She said yea she is but was worried i wanted to bring another woman into bed for a threesome. I told her no, I honestly find it hot when I imagine you with another man. She was like oh ok thats fine. She did say she is not a fan of threesomes at all and would never participate. she only enjoys 1 on 1. She said she doesn’t think about other men. After this conversation i felt that she’s not near that stage yet of which is watching her fuck another guy while i watch. I did think it was interesting that she is totally fine with me imagining her with another guy. We did end up fucking that night and again she played into it talking about she’s getting fucked by a guy who is much taller than me and has a much bigger dick than i do and called me small. It was fantastic.
Discuss with her if she would like you to fuck her with a big strap-on - maybe while you're in chastity.