I think getting cheated on changed my kinks

I was dating this girl for only a few weeks. I had suspicions she was cheating on me as soon as we started but she always she always said not to worry. She had this friend group with 2 other girls and 2 guys. After we would hang out she would then hang out with them. She would also never talk to me when they were together. i thought it was so strange. i told her im not comfortable with it. One day she came to my place to stay over. We had sex then went to bed but i stayed up for a while on my phone. Her phone then kept buzzing so i went to see why and it was one of the guys in the group saying “I love u, im so excited to see u tomorrow. Its been only 2 days and need to fuck you again.” I was stunned and so upset. I woke her up and started freaking out what i just read. I kicked her out and we broke up. She hit me up a couple times soon after to hang out but i never did. i was tempted but never gave in.

Fast forward a year later I started dating my current GF. She’s so incredible as a person and also so hot. We’ve been dating now for over 2 years. Our sex life is good but i like more kinky stuff. at some point 6 months ago i started getting into being more submissive in bed and then eventually being into being a cuck. i was confused why because i was so upset about my ex cheating on me and have been worried about being cheated on since but now i find it so hot. The idea of my GF getting fucked by some other guy who’s bigger and stronger than me makes me so horny. Getting humiliated and degraded by her turns me on. i

I didn’t tell my GF about this for a long time until a couple months ago. She knew i liked when she took control but not being cucked. We were having sex and i told her during it that I masturbate to the thought of her having sex with another guy. She was shocked and asked if i was being serious and I told her i was completely serious. she was surprised because she knows I’ve been cheated on before. I asked if she’s comfortable talking to me about getting fucked by another man. She said she was and ever since then when we have sex she does that for me. I finish so much faster when she starts doing it. She’s became so good at it and i always ask her to describe the guy thats fucking her. Its always a Big black guy and who’s way taller, fit and has a much bigger dick than me. Her kink is actually being dominated so she always talks about how the guy is taking full control of her, something i can’t do. It makes me finish so quick.

I have never asked her if she ever would actually fuck another guy while i watch. I have asked her if she would ever have a threesome. Either with MFM or FMF. She said nah she doesn’t think she would enjoy that. I have asked her about previous experiences and it always made me jealous but horny.

I’m not going to lie as much as i want to be a cuck, i am worried that it would ruin the relationship or she would leave me for that guy. I have no idew how or if i should ask her.


U need to find a women who likes being Dom or in charge/ control. 1 who'll ave u clean her up after she takes a good fucking or 2.

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Recently we driving home from dinner and we were in a goofy mood. I said to her lets talk about sex history. She was hesitant at first but eventually said sure why not. I had her ask me first to make it less embarrassing. She asked if she was the best i had. I said yes! I asked her what is the most obscure place she has done it. She said a school hallway in college. Got me so harr hearing that. After a couple questions i asked this “what is the biggest dick u had sex with?” she was nervous to answer at first but i told her ik im not and its ok. She told me 9 inches. I was stunned and ask how she liked it. she said it was little to big but was a lot of fun. She asked if i thought it was hot and i said i did. I asked if she ever fucked someone older than her by 10 years. She said once and it was a cop. i asked how was it and she said he was very dominanting and it was in a car. She asked if i have a no i haven’t. I asked if i wasn’t dating u what type of guy would u be interested in. I knew the answer, she said a big black man. I asked why and she said ik they would be good in bed. We got home and after hour we started to have sex. She starting dirty talking how i like but she added some of the stuff we talked about from the car ride. “I bet ur thinking about me fucking a black guy don’t u. U heard me say that and got real horny didn’t u. U wish u could watch me fuck a 9 inch dick like that cop. u couldn’t do what he did.” i loved every second of that.
 
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Recently we driving home from dinner and we were in a goofy mood. I asked her lets talk about sex history. She was hesitant at first but eventually said sure why not. I had her ask me first to make it less embarrassing. She asked if she was the best i had. I said yes! I asked her what is the most obscure place she has done it. She said a school hallway in college. Got me so harr hearing that. After a couple questions i asked this “what is the biggest dick u had sex with?” she was nervous to answer at first but i told her ik im not and its ok. She told me 9 inches. I was stunned and ask how she liked it. she said it was little to big but was a lot of fun. She asked if i thought it was hot and i said i did. I asked if she ever fucked someone older than her by 10 years. She said once and it was a cop. i asked how was it and she said he was very dominanting and it was in a car. She asked if i have a no i haven’t. I asked if i wasn’t dating u what type of guy would u be interested in. I knew the answer, she said a big black man. I asked why and she said ik they would be good in bed. We got home and after hour we started to have sex. She starting dirty talking like how i like but she added some of the stuff we talked about from the car ride. “I bet ur thinking about me fucking a black guy don’t u. U heard me say that and got real horny didn’t u. U wish u could watch me fuck a 9 inch dick like that cop. u couldn’t do what he did.” i loved every second of that.
That’s hot
 
In college my biggest kink was getting chicks with boyfriends to cheat with me.
Then I caught my roommate fucking the ...... out of my girlfriend. I'd never been more aroused. It changed everything for me.
It’s weird man, my wife had cheated on me years ago after getting on some stuff she shouldn’t have. Took me forever to somewhat get “over” it so to speak but then it’s like, the thought of her getting fucked in every hole every way possible is actually turning me on…..
 
Recently in bed she has been little more dominant in bed and its been incredible. She talks about i should be lucky to fuck her and talks about how she’s had a bunch of guys fuck her and im fortunate to be able to. She has started talking about her other experiences during sex while saying im small and a cuck.
One big thing i never expected her to say during sex was one time she told me to she wanted to do doggy and while i was going at it she was telling me “cum all over my back and my ass with ur tiny dick. i bet u would want to cum all over me then lick it off” I was stunned. i couldn’t believe she said that. i never mentioned or thought about something like that before. it made me wonder if she been thinking about me doing that or she just dirty talking. i ask if she wanted me to do that and all she said was if u want to faintly. i didn’t do it but idk if i would or wouldn’t but it made so horny that she said something like that.
 
I was dating this girl for only a few weeks. I had suspicions she was cheating on me as soon as we started but she always she always said not to worry. She had this friend group with 2 other girls and 2 guys. After we would hang out she would then hang out with them. She would also never talk to me when they were together. i thought it was so strange. i told her im not comfortable with it. One day she came to my place to stay over. We had sex then went to bed but i stayed up for a while on my phone. Her phone then kept buzzing so i went to see why and it was one of the guys in the group saying “I love u, im so excited to see u tomorrow. Its been only 2 days and need to fuck you again.” I was stunned and so upset. I woke her up and started freaking out what i just read. I kicked her out and we broke up. She hit me up a couple times soon after to hang out but i never did. i was tempted but never gave in.

Fast forward a year later I started dating my current GF. She’s so incredible as a person and also so hot. We’ve been dating now for over 2 years. Our sex life is good but i like more kinky stuff. at some point 6 months ago i started getting into being more submissive in bed and then eventually being into being a cuck. i was confused why because i was so upset about my ex cheating on me and have been worried about being cheated on since but now i find it so hot. The idea of my GF getting fucked by some other guy who’s bigger and stronger than me makes me so horny. Getting humiliated and degraded by her turns me on. i

I didn’t tell my GF about this for a long time until a couple months ago. She knew i liked when she took control but not being cucked. We were having sex and i told her during it that I masturbate to the thought of her having sex with another guy. She was shocked and asked if i was being serious and I told her i was completely serious. she was surprised because she knows I’ve been cheated on before. I asked if she’s comfortable talking to me about getting fucked by another man. She said she was and ever since then when we have sex she does that for me. I finish so much faster when she starts doing it. She’s became so good at it and i always ask her to describe the guy thats fucking her. Its always a Big black guy and who’s way taller, fit and has a much bigger dick than me. Her kink is actually being dominated so she always talks about how the guy is taking full control of her, something i can’t do. It makes me finish so quick.

I have never asked her if she ever would actually fuck another guy while i watch. I have asked her if she would ever have a threesome. Either with MFM or FMF. She said nah she doesn’t think she would enjoy that. I have asked her about previous experiences and it always made me jealous but horny.

I’m not going to lie as much as i want to be a cuck, i am worried that it would ruin the relationship or she would leave me for that guy. I have no idew how or if i should ask her.
you sound smart ! - i think very few men or women anticipate that reaction. Most do not really want it, they just loke the fantasy. WIth you previous experience, that may or may not apply for you. !