I was just offered money for sex

Ok, ok, … I’ll be the spoil sport here. I’m surprised at the replies.
You guys are putting this website in jeopardy. Read the TOS here again.
To the OP - are you asking for approval, or support, for prostitution? I’m sure there are forums for paid escorts, but this is clearly not one of them. This is not wifewantstoplay4Cash. A Hotwife, by definition, is not a prostitute. It’s insulting to post like it’s a seamless transition from one to another. This is a huge red flag post, these replies admit to conspiring, assisting, or encouraging human trafficking. At the same time, you put the owner of this site at risk, which is totally not fair. Using a website for arranging paid sexual encounters is a felony in 49 states in the USA. Speaking for myself, I don’t want this website to go away. Food for thought. Flame away, but please, think about it!
 
Ok, ok, … I’ll be the spoil sport here. I’m surprised at the replies.
You guys are putting this website in jeopardy. Read the TOS here again.
To the OP - are you asking for approval, or support, for prostitution? I’m sure there are forums for paid escorts, but this is clearly not one of them. This is not wifewantstoplay4Cash. A Hotwife, by definition, is not a prostitute. It’s insulting to post like it’s a seamless transition from one to another. This is a huge red flag post, these replies admit to conspiring, assisting, or encouraging human trafficking. At the same time, you put the owner of this site at risk, which is totally not fair. Using a website for arranging paid sexual encounters is a felony in 49 states in the USA. Speaking for myself, I don’t want this website to go away. Food for thought. Flame away, but please, think about it!
I asked because someone offered me $ and I asked. Some people take stuff too far. I am sure its been asked before and by the replies I read I am right.
 
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Ok, ok, … I’ll be the spoil sport here. I’m surprised at the replies.
You guys are putting this website in jeopardy. Read the TOS here again.
To the OP - are you asking for approval, or support, for prostitution? I’m sure there are forums for paid escorts, but this is clearly not one of them. This is not wifewantstoplay4Cash. A Hotwife, by definition, is not a prostitute. It’s insulting to post like it’s a seamless transition from one to another. This is a huge red flag post, these replies admit to conspiring, assisting, or encouraging human trafficking. At the same time, you put the owner of this site at risk, which is totally not fair. Using a website for arranging paid sexual encounters is a felony in 49 states in the USA. Speaking for myself, I don’t want this website to go away. Food for thought. Flame away, but please, think about it!
You've veered off into something completely different than the OP was discussing. Being offered pay by a random stranger for sex is a huge fantasy in this lifestyle and discussion of that isn't out of bounds. (Think "Pimp and Ho" theme nights that are routine occurrences at lifestyle clubs everywhere) Nobody was advocating for what you describe regarding human trafficking, etc. NOBODY was offering themselves for prostitution on this site and the idea that somehow discussing the fact that a member was offered money for sex and discussing that offer has nothing to do with "arranging for paid sexual encounters".

There was nothing "insulting" about hotwifing nor was there any insinuation that it is synonymous with prostitution. Hotwifing can be many things to many people and I don't believe there is one, end all-be all definition of the term. There are certainly many definitions. In any case, I can't imagine many people here would wish to promote human trafficking at all. It's like saying that if we discuss our sexual past and our early sexual experiences from when we were under age, that we are somehow advocating for pedophilia.

There are numerous threads on this site where members discuss actually being prostitutes and their involvement in it. I believe that most of those claims are simply fantasy, but still, the idea isn't exactly foreign to this site. To be sure, many of the wives on the site have received some sort of "benefit" from sexual acts, if not actual cash. It's not that they do it intentionally, but it's the nature of things. There are also many stories and fantasies about that sort of quid pro quo on the site as well.

Mrs Hw
 
You've veered off into something completely different than the OP was discussing. Being offered pay by a random stranger for sex is a huge fantasy in this lifestyle and discussion of that isn't out of bounds. (Think "Pimp and Ho" theme nights that are routine occurrences at lifestyle clubs everywhere) Nobody was advocating for what you describe regarding human trafficking, etc. NOBODY was offering themselves for prostitution on this site and the idea that somehow discussing the fact that a member was offered money for sex and discussing that offer has nothing to do with "arranging for paid sexual encounters".

There was nothing "insulting" about hotwifing nor was there any insinuation that it is synonymous with prostitution. Hotwifing can be many things to many people and I don't believe there is one, end all-be all definition of the term. There are certainly many definitions. In any case, I can't imagine many people here would wish to promote human trafficking at all. It's like saying that if we discuss our sexual past and our early sexual experiences from when we were under age, that we are somehow advocating for pedophilia.

There are numerous threads on this site where members discuss actually being prostitutes and their involvement in it. I believe that most of those claims are simply fantasy, but still, the idea isn't exactly foreign to this site. To be sure, many of the wives on the site have received some sort of "benefit" from sexual acts, if not actual cash. It's not that they do it intentionally, but it's the nature of things. There are also many stories and fantasies about that sort of quid pro quo on the site as well.

Mrs Hw
Thank you very much! I don't see how I crossed the line.SMH at some who jumps to their own conclusions.
 
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Well it is against the law and you both could be arrested. I'm not saying I agree with the law, but there is definitely a risk.
Yes it is a risk. Just having sex with others presents risks. There are places where swing parties still are subject to possible police raids.

It is all a matter of are you willing to take the risks and what you do to reduce them.
 
Meet no sex?
About 10 years ago I went out with a co worker to his eldest sons stage at a local strip club. Watched the dancers for a while then something happened. This great looking lady took the stage. However she was the worlds worst dancer. Moved like a limping ox.

end of story right. No.

two years later went out with this co worker to his middle sons stage. Who is the dancer miss lurch. Dancing skill had not improved. Kneed the poor guy during a lap dance.

end of story right. No.

went to a massage spa. Who is there. Mrs lurch. Great massage. Saw her a few more times. She did try an offer me more however due to high blood pressure medicine I could not accept.

then I suggested I watch her and her husband. (yes she was wearing a wedding ring) turned out to be a wrestling ring. ladies wear them to stop having to wrestle with guys usually bosses.

a few months later I got a call from her asking me if I was still interested in watching. Turned out her day job boss had offered her money.

long story short he called me to set it up. i through a number out. He said yes. Then I told him that he had to be tested at a particular clinic. This clinic speciallized in sex workers so they put the test ies photo on the result form.

i then called her back and we talked about the when’s. She was tested as well. On the first weekend after her period they showed up at my place and fucked for about 36 hours.
 
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Yes being paid is a fantasy for some but it doesn't always work as you would want, my wife was a hot wife almost 40 years ago she played with my full support, but unknown to me she had this fantasy she decided to act on it , we live in the UK so a little different but not much, she worked in a shop in a small village, now and again she would have to take delivers and she would flirt with the drivers one asked her to meet him as he would be sleeping overnight in a local truck stop, for a laugh she said how much £10 he replied ( probably about 12/15 dollars then ) she said yes and they made their arrangements, a few weeks later and he turns up again same arrangement and another £10 she asked him if any of his mates would be interested so he asked around, a few days later and a truck stops outside and the driver asked if she was Maggie he had come to book her for that night, so it went on her charging well under the going rate for the thrill of being paid for, word went round and numbers built up , one night one of them roughed her up a bit that's when I found out about it I told her to stop but she enjoyed it to much. It was about 3 months later she came in bruised and battered she was naked even though she had driven 10 miles home and had to park on the street then walk up the drive to our door, turned out he had almost strangled her knocked her about and kicked her out of his cab without her clothes she managed to grab her bag with her keys in it but had to walk past a busy supermarket to get to her car, next morning the bruising was showing on her tits and neck, her face marked down one side , that convinced her that it was a dangerous game to play without the right precautions in place. My avatar picture is her about the time it took place.
 
We have a massage room set up in our home. I do massages for people I know as well as strangers. I do it for pleasure, not money. I would say that about 95% have happy endings and 75%+ of those are full service. I get offered a tip more often then I thought I would. I always say it's not necessary but often they insist. That money goes is a special spot and always ends up as charity. It's like getting two thrills.
 
We have a massage room set up in our home. I do massages for people I know as well as strangers. I do it for pleasure, not money. I would say that about 95% have happy endings and 75%+ of those are full service. I get offered a tip more often then I thought I would. I always say it's not necessary but often they insist. That money goes is a special spot and always ends up as charity. It's like getting two thrills.
Smart couple
 
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Ots ok if done right. NO truck park lizards! NO casual street pickups. No car or truck sleeper
cabs. Do it right, get her a room in a very nice
hotel with interior halls, so no suspicion
with guys coming to the same room for a session.

Gotta place an ad and closely vet the guys.
Age, education, profession, marital status, etc.
Worked without a hitch for my gf a few years
back. Still have a few she sees for extra $$.
Every guy she saw wants to see her again.
 
Ots ok if done right. NO truck park lizards! NO casual street pickups. No car or truck sleeper
cabs. Do it right, get her a room in a very nice
hotel with interior halls, so no suspicion
with guys coming to the same room for a session.
this is key, there is a world of difference between a street whore and a classy call girl.