Impact of Cuckold porn

[UneLarme]

Hello !

First of all I don't know if I'm on the right topic, don't hesitate to tell me.

I'm a young french guy of 21 years old in couple with my girlfriend since 2 years.
We are not in the Cuckold relationship, and she knows nothing about it.

I come to you to ask you some questions.

I discovered a little more than a year ago the cuckold porn.
Since that day, I'm totally addicted to it.
I feel like I've been brainwashed.
As soon as I come across it, I get erections right away.
The problem is that I feel like this kind of thing is starting to make my penis weak: when I masturbate, I cum very quickly.
And my girlfriend is starting to complain sexually too, because I can't hold it like I used to
I know it sounds weird but can this kind of video indirectly 'brainwash' me? Have other men also experienced this?
Because now it goes beyond just some moments, I often think about this during the day.

I am a regular visitor of this forum without having dared to register and I regularly see this question if young people are also affected by Cuckold and I can give my opinion of a young French European: the answer is yes.
More and more young people of my age are watching this kind of porn.
I created a Twitter account just to watch this kind of video and there are a lot of young white people like me.
The only problem that still persists today is to go beyond the virtual and accept all this.

 

[WiseOld]

Hello !

First of all I don't know if I'm on the right topic, don't hesitate to tell me.

I'm a young french guy of 21 years old in couple with my girlfriend since 2 years.
We are not in the Cuckold relationship, and she knows nothing about it.

I come to you to ask you some questions.

I discovered a little more than a year ago the cuckold porn.
Since that day, I'm totally addicted to it.
I feel like I've been brainwashed.
As soon as I come across it, I get erections right away.
The problem is that I feel like this kind of thing is starting to make my penis weak: when I masturbate, I cum very quickly.
And my girlfriend is starting to complain sexually too, because I can't hold it like I used to
I know it sounds weird but can this kind of video indirectly 'brainwash' me? Have other men also experienced this?
Because now it goes beyond just some moments, I often think about this during the day.

I am a regular visitor of this forum without having dared to register and I regularly see this question if young people are also affected by Cuckold and I can give my opinion of a young French European: the answer is yes.
More and more young people of my age are watching this kind of porn.
I created a Twitter account just to watch this kind of video and there are a lot of young white people like me.
The only problem that still persists today is to go beyond the virtual and accept all this.

Stop watching porn. You are far too young to be having sex problems. Here is what I wrote elsewhere, but which I believe applies to you, sadly.

In addition, a single obsessive fetish can quickly become fatiguing to others, as can most obsessions.

Long ago, after an amazing sexual romp with gorgeous and intensely interesting woman, which suited her also being a self-made millionaire, I praised how lovely her naked feet were, as I found her long, slender toes and high arches on her small pretty feet supremely feminine and sexy. She blurted out, "Please, please dear God, do not tell me you have foot fetish."

I asked if having a foot fetish was a bad thing. Her answer was that all fetishes were bad. I asked for more explication. She told me that, if nothing else, her ex's fetish lead directly to their divorce. Now, I was truly intrigued and questioned her further. She explained that at first she welcomed her husband's newly acquired fetish (I cannot remember what it was, perhaps it was feet or cuckoldry or SM), as their sex life caught on fire. Paradoxically, however, the more sex they had, less they actually fucked. Apparently, her ex-husband got so wound up with his fetish talk that he could not stroke more than a few times in her before blowing his load, so they spent most of their sex life, with his hard cock inside her, but without him moving, her husband constantly on the edge of orgasm, as they talked his fetish talk. He always came massively, while she got soft cock and no relief.

Save the cuckold fantasy for those night when you need some extra help getting in the mood.. It should be something exceptional, not a constant thought.

 

[shymalea]

ask her to dress sexy in public and at home,you cum the whole day as result

 

[majorem]

Stop watching porn. You are far too young to be having sex problems. Here is what I wrote elsewhere, but which I believe applies to you, sadly.

In addition, a single obsessive fetish can quickly become fatiguing to others, as can most obsessions....

....She explained that at first she welcomed her husband's newly acquired fetish (I cannot remember what it was, perhaps it was feet or cuckoldry or SM), as their sex life caught on fire. Paradoxically, however, the more sex they had, less they actually fucked. Apparently, her ex-husband got so wound up with his fetish talk that he could not stroke more than a few times in her before blowing his load, so they spent most of their sex life, with his hard cock inside her, but without him moving, her husband constantly on the edge of orgasm, as they talked his fetish talk. He always came massively, while she got soft cock and no relief.

Save the cuckold fantasy for those night when you need some extra help getting in the mood.. It should be something exceptional, not a constant thought.

Uhhh really? I mean, I totally agree with the idea that sexual obsessions should be avoided, can tire and frustrate your partner, and should be saved for certain occasions.

How does frequently obsessing over some type of fetish make people cum increasingly quickly? Not saying I don't believe this but its so far opposite of my experience. I feel like I've moved from one sex fetish obsession to the next over the years, eventually getting bored or at least, no longer as excited by each. I remember in high school a girl told me about how a guy came in his pants when she went to unzip them, which I found comical and hard to imagine. I don't think I've ever cum in under 5m and these days, I think the best I could manage is 10m maybe. It seems like it takes longer as I get older and nothing is new and exciting enough anymore to really push me over the edge very easily.

To that end, my advice, along with what Old Wise said above, is to pace yourself, otherwise you might end up de-sensitized and unexcited by normal sex, always needing something more taboo and perverted to get off... but each of those things will also, eventually come to seem mundane and less stimulating.

 

[Evangt]

its absolutely normal, i was the same at a younger age. i openly told my girlfriends and all of them found it arousing allthough we never acted on it. i find that after all these years i wish i had pressed towards making it happen for real.

 

[Kogjin]

It is normal, but....
Don't let it control your sex life. Spice things up with this, when you need it, don't make it the only thing you get off on.
You know, your girlfriend need the attention and to be satisfied.
So you need to focus on what you like in her first and after that think about another person fucking her.

 

[Owned sissy]

I predict you'll soon be wearing panties, opening the door for your girlfriend's dates, help her choose sexy bras and panties for her date nights, clean her when she's messy, get down on your knees before her superior hot boyfriends and do what you're told. Oh wait... that's me.

If you're a cuckold, with or without porn you probably already know.

 

[Loux]

Hello !

First of all I don't know if I'm on the right topic, don't hesitate to tell me.

I'm a young french guy of 21 years old in couple with my girlfriend since 2 years.
We are not in the Cuckold relationship, and she knows nothing about it.

I come to you to ask you some questions.

I discovered a little more than a year ago the cuckold porn.
Since that day, I'm totally addicted to it.
I feel like I've been brainwashed.
As soon as I come across it, I get erections right away.
The problem is that I feel like this kind of thing is starting to make my penis weak: when I masturbate, I cum very quickly.
And my girlfriend is starting to complain sexually too, because I can't hold it like I used to
I know it sounds weird but can this kind of video indirectly 'brainwash' me? Have other men also experienced this?
Because now it goes beyond just some moments, I often think about this during the day.

I am a regular visitor of this forum without having dared to register and I regularly see this question if young people are also affected by Cuckold and I can give my opinion of a young French European: the answer is yes.
More and more young people of my age are watching this kind of porn.
I created a Twitter account just to watch this kind of video and there are a lot of young white people like me.
The only problem that still persists today is to go beyond the virtual and accept all this.

I like cuck porn, bbc porn etc, i have a girlfriend of for years, we ve talked about it, and we are planning trying mmf and ffm threesomes. Has porn affected my fetishes, probably, is my cock still big and healthy, yes. Can i still last enough to make my gf orgasm once or twice, yes. So no i dont thing its about your porn addiction. It could play a part but not to that extentend in my opinion based on my experience. Maybe you have some medical issues you need to check, could be phycological as well. You need to see a specialist probably.