Intimate questions to ask wife?

[Bernie84]

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[samsar]

Looking for some suggestions on Questions to ask the wife during sex to help her release her fantasies or previous experiences?

Ask her if she has ever thought about having sex with other guys,just say you are curious, 👍

 

[Azncouple21]

Ask her if she has ever thought about having sex with other guys,just say you are curious, 👍

Thats how i brought it up to my wife
17 guys later............

 

[Jackbeam69]

Ask her if she has ever thought about having sex with other guys,just say you are curious, 👍

This right here. If she says yes or seems interested, then you can move into asking if she would want you to watch.

 

[sam sammy]

ask her how did she felt the first time she had a cock in her mouth?

 

[owlmale]

I ask mine who would she wanted sex with besides me I was surprise when she told me who she would do.

 

[sam sammy]

I ask mine who would she wanted sex with besides me I was surprise when she told me who she would do.

im curious myself? would love to know whom

 

[wisper69]

Looking for some suggestions on Questions to ask the wife during sex to help her release her fantasies or previous experiences?

My favorite one is asking her if she would enjoy it more if I was bigger 🫣

 

[Sharedwife16]

I found the best way in was suggesting we spiced things up by pointing out men in public and asking if she would....

It was my way of making her think about it, and also letting her see that her fancying other men didn't make me jealous or think less of her.

I made it sound like a game,something to just spice out sex life up, but I really wanted her to see how far removed I was from the typical jealous type husband.

To get my wife to admit to you about men she'd fuck,even disguised as a game, made her comfortable just thinking about it, and that's what i was trying to achieve.

It opened the door to mentioning it in bed during sex,it wasn't now a out of nowhere comment, I felt I'd laid the foundations if you like , so I just, in the heat of the moment said " god,your so damn sexy,I bet loads of men would love to fuck you".......the rest is history 🤣

 

[samsar]

We’ve used toys during sex and when I ask her if she wants another big dick she replies “yes”.
She’s a bit shy so I’m trying to be a bit more subtle.
Should I maybe say have you got another one in mind?
She normally goes cold on the subject after sex so I’m thinking is it just in the heat of the moment when she’s very aroused?
Yesterday she was working but during some messaging she agreed to use a blindfold. She actually brought this idea up a few weeks ago herself. She wanted to blindfold me.
When she come home last night we were watching a movie and silly me fell asleep, duh!

Dah,lol
You need to ask her when you are having her sex with her just as she is building up to her orgasm ask her then whisper it to her like it's just part of the sex and her reaction may be totally different,
You know how you get so excited just before you orgasm and then afterwards you calm down and your dick gets soft and you start to think with your Brain instead of your dick again it's the same for a woman what she thinks about while having sex can be different than what she thinks about before or after sex,
I believe sex talk during sex can reveal a lot of what a woman is really thinking about or indeed who she is thinking about during sex,👍

 

[Smudger]

I was similar in wanting to plant the seed in wife.

I like to make up little quizzes for her.
Started vanilla and as wife was ok with it, pushed the boundaries.

Eg give list options.

pick best sex position from the list
Pick top 3 hottest men, celebs
Pick hottest couples on nude beach
Pick hottest Speedo options on men
Pick one dildo you had to have from list
Pick hottest 3sum position

Probably loads more,and but better than these, but you get the point..these are sex talk starters in the sheets

 

[Spice]

My wife has always been open about her past sexual experiences, I've found it easier for her to talk about it if we start talking before the sex.

 

[Smudger]

Yeah I’m going to try this tonight. I’m going to suggest she wear the blindfold and I’ll take things slowly and ask these and maybe similar questions. Thanks for the reply, will keep all updated.

Yes dude. Go for it.

 

[Maheejayasekara]

Dah,lol
You need to ask her when you are having her sex with her just as she is building up to her orgasm ask her then whisper it to her like it's just part of the sex and her reaction may be totally different,
You know how you get so excited just before you orgasm and then afterwards you calm down and your dick gets soft and you start to think with your Brain instead of your dick again it's the same for a woman what she thinks about while having sex can be different than what she thinks about before or after sex,
I believe sex talk during sex can reveal a lot of what a woman is really thinking about or indeed who she is thinking about during sex,👍

you are correct ..i have few experiences about my wife too....dm me for further details

 

[samsar]

So we had sex last night, I asked her to close her eyes and lay down. I began stroking her body, licking and sucking her nipples and teasing her pussy before I went down on her.
I asked her some questions,
1. Where would she like to have sex in any location in the world. Her answer was a holiday resort exclusively for adults.
2. What’s the most times she’s had sex in the one day, her reply was 3 last week with me, which I’m a little dubious about but still a turn on.
I then knelt to the side of her whilst still stroking, teasing and finger fucking her wet pussy by now whilst she sucked my dick. Her pussy was really wet the sound was amazing. We began fucking in various positions and when she was on top of me riding away I asked her what her favourite position would be if we were having a threesome, she replied “ Anyway you’d like it to be”.
She was very horny, I then spun her round and pumped my load deep inside her. It felt really good as we both orgasmed.
Afterwards as she has a works night out this weekend I asked her to think about something exciting she could do before the end of the week. She asked “like what”.
I then told her anything exciting that makes you happy and maybe me happy.

It sounds like you are giving her a green light to have a great weekend, do you think she will go for it,?👍

 

[joboo6]

Early on before marriage and after I would always dirty talk her about how she really liked dicks inside her. When really close to orgasm she would talk about how much she loved Dick. Have you had big ones? Ohh yes. You like those the best don’t you? Yes I I love big dicks.

 

[samsar]

Knowing what I know about her past and if she liked a certain person I think she would. We do both love each other and she is aware of my fantasy although I think she thinks that I want for us to have a threesome. I wouldn’t mind a threesome but my next step which I’m finding difficult to express to her is that I would like to just watch as well.
Any tips or suggestions to subtly explain this to her would be appreciated.

I would suggest talk,talk to her explain exactly what you want out of this be honest with her but if she turns it down don't pressure her to do it ,
I would say be careful what you want my not be good for your relationship in the long run I have seen so many people, frends,even family members relationships fall apart because their fantasy just doesn't stand up in reality,
I'm not saying dont but be careful. 👍

 

[TallBWCArizona]

Knowing what I know about her past and if she liked a certain person I think she would. We do both love each other and she is aware of my fantasy although I think she thinks that I want for us to have a threesome. I wouldn’t mind a threesome but my next step which I’m finding difficult to express to her is that I would like to just watch as well.
Any tips or suggestions to subtly explain this to her would be appreciated.

Don't try to micro manage the whole lifetime of experiences. You got her to agree already. She has agreed to be in the room with you and another naked man. What are you trying to to accomplish?

When you both enjoy date night together. Do you sit her down and talk to her at length about what you are going to do? No you don't.

You tell her you're going to dinner:

"I'm going to be wearing a suit and tie. Make sure you bring a sweater. It has a nice path though a nature area park. You might get cold. I made arraignments for the kids to send the night at your parents. It will give us time alone tonight."

You dont usually tell her you going to come home. Have wild and crazy sex. The go into every position and how you will take her.

She has agreed to a threesome. Al three of you are going at it. It's fun for everyone. You break away and lay next to them. You send a loving gaze toward your wife as he guy takes his huge and girthy cock. She's on her elbows and knees. He swabs the huge mushroom head of his cock on your wife's vulva. It's fully engorged and soaked. She is so ready for what's about to happen.

He mounts her, then proceeds to slowly penitrate her. She lets out a deep and long moan as is huge cock head penetrated her. He grasps her beautiful wide hips. The plunges in his full 10 inches. You notice he's balls deep in her. His huge nutsack filled with his potent ejaculate. It's slapping against her very wet and dripping pussy. She turns her head toward you and gives you that look. Bedroom eyes and she is beautiful. She mouths to you thank you baby. I have never lived you more than this moment.

You smile and tell her she is beautiful. You really mean it too. She is ovulating and has this blush about her. You are thinking about that nut sack full of live active and potent sperm. Knowing tonight she is going to get a few full load.

You get a crazy idea. You move under them. You start lapping away at her pussy. Not caring one bit about the others guy cock shaft sliding right past your lips.

Your relationship is going just the way you want it. Stop trying to manage it. Tela and go with the flow.

Send me DM if you want to discuss what your next steps.