So where do I start? M44 & F42, in a relationship (not married) for coming up to 13 years, 2 kids together, and 3 from her previous partner. Pretty much a 'normal' couple, apart from I harbour a desire to find someone to seduce her and have sex with her.
Our sex life is best described as sporadic, and when it does happen, is focused entirely on her. We have foreplay, I give her oral, and penetration, if it happens, is always from behind, doggy style us Brits call it. She rarely gives me oral, claiming early on in our relationship she's not keen on it. She cums from foreplay and oral, she used to cum with penetration but that hasn't happened for a long time. I also unfortunately do not last as long as I used to. There was a period last year, a couple of months, where she suddenly developed a liking for giving me oral, her technique changed, and she couldn't get enough, licking and sucking me, and sucking my balls, caressing them as she sucked my cock, but that stopped as suddenly as it started, and without explanation, her just saying she didn't know why.
Again, early on in the relationship, I told her if she ever wanted to go with someone else, as long as it was just sex, I didn't mind, as long as she told me. This was met with she didn't want anyone else. There have been times over the last few years when I've got the feeling she has had some fun with someone else, but she will never admit to it, and at other times she will readily accuse me of cheating, something I understand people do to disguise their own behaviour! I also mentioned, early on, that I'd love to see her with someone else, share her in our bed, which she brushed off. I've mentioned it a few times since, her response is always the same, no, but I've noticed her body seems to react differently, she gets noticeably wetter, very quickly, almost instant. We have never role played, I know her well enough to know she wouldn't. We also don't communicate very well, we talk, but have never seemed to be able to communicate about this, she brushes it off and won't talk about it.
I know in the past she has cheated on previous partners, she is still in contact on Facebook with the two men she cheated with, but denies there is anything more than friendship, besides they both live 40 miles away and she doesn't drive. I also have my suspicions she's had some fun with one or two of our friends, she won't admit to anything though. I've also found pictures on her phone, of her, semi naked and using her vibe, which were never sent to me. They also looked like they weren't taken in our house! When she found out I knew about them, she was adamant they'd been taken in our bedroom, by her, and she'd just forgotten to send them to me. I also know she has dabbled with a bisexual mutual friend, before we got together but again she's no longer willing to discuss it.
So, with that all now shared, would I be wrong to try and find someone to introduce her to, unknowing to her, to see if they could seduce her and introduce her to this lifestyle?
Our sex life is best described as sporadic, and when it does happen, is focused entirely on her. We have foreplay, I give her oral, and penetration, if it happens, is always from behind, doggy style us Brits call it. She rarely gives me oral, claiming early on in our relationship she's not keen on it. She cums from foreplay and oral, she used to cum with penetration but that hasn't happened for a long time. I also unfortunately do not last as long as I used to. There was a period last year, a couple of months, where she suddenly developed a liking for giving me oral, her technique changed, and she couldn't get enough, licking and sucking me, and sucking my balls, caressing them as she sucked my cock, but that stopped as suddenly as it started, and without explanation, her just saying she didn't know why.
Again, early on in the relationship, I told her if she ever wanted to go with someone else, as long as it was just sex, I didn't mind, as long as she told me. This was met with she didn't want anyone else. There have been times over the last few years when I've got the feeling she has had some fun with someone else, but she will never admit to it, and at other times she will readily accuse me of cheating, something I understand people do to disguise their own behaviour! I also mentioned, early on, that I'd love to see her with someone else, share her in our bed, which she brushed off. I've mentioned it a few times since, her response is always the same, no, but I've noticed her body seems to react differently, she gets noticeably wetter, very quickly, almost instant. We have never role played, I know her well enough to know she wouldn't. We also don't communicate very well, we talk, but have never seemed to be able to communicate about this, she brushes it off and won't talk about it.
I know in the past she has cheated on previous partners, she is still in contact on Facebook with the two men she cheated with, but denies there is anything more than friendship, besides they both live 40 miles away and she doesn't drive. I also have my suspicions she's had some fun with one or two of our friends, she won't admit to anything though. I've also found pictures on her phone, of her, semi naked and using her vibe, which were never sent to me. They also looked like they weren't taken in our house! When she found out I knew about them, she was adamant they'd been taken in our bedroom, by her, and she'd just forgotten to send them to me. I also know she has dabbled with a bisexual mutual friend, before we got together but again she's no longer willing to discuss it.
So, with that all now shared, would I be wrong to try and find someone to introduce her to, unknowing to her, to see if they could seduce her and introduce her to this lifestyle?