Is divorce a real possibility?

2wheel

Male
Backstory:
Recently I met a woman who wants to become a hotwife. She says it is paramount in her life and understands it may mean the end of her marriage.

Here are 2 questions thrown out to the general hotwife/cuckold/stag community.

For the men - Is the desire to be a cuckold or stag, the draw to the lifestyle, the need to have a hotwife so strong that no matter the underlying issue, that divorce would be in the cards allowing you to search for a woman willing to be your hotwife?

For the women - Is the desire to be a hotwife, the draw to the lifestyle, the need to have a cuckold/stag husband so strong that no matter the underlying issue, that divorce would be in the cards allowing you to search for a man willing to be your cuckold/stag?