Aw thanks - yes I know I am but even that is confusing because like all cds who binge there stuff my wife also is up and down with her support too . Like I bought us matching panties for our holidays , took pics of them - see above - next she’s saying it’s ok to dress up but she doesn’t “want it in her face “ which I totally understand and have never done !. Next she’s saying wait till later and you can show me those dresses on and she’ll tell me if my heels match ok - so I take the support when I can get it and back off when it doesn’t seem to be there . Mostly if I look at womens stuff on line which I do in front of her I can ask her real world woman opinion of something and if I buy something I will buy her or treat her also . Other times she is really prudish about everything sexual - just can’t work her out - we’re on holiday and the maintenance guy at the pool was chasing a fly around her face and upper area - she had black bikini on and he was having a good look - at one point I thought he was going to brush her tits - her nipples were out during this and I mentioned it later - she just said - why does everything have to be about sex with you ? . Was nothing !!! . I just said well your nipples were saying something else and we both noticed that - no reply - - she’s just so up / down - positive / negative - so frustrating