Is my religious wife finally caving in?

I think you're doing exactly right. Keep on the track you are on. You will have plenty of time in the future to confess to her that you heard her and that you were aware of it. And consider this, isn't part of the thrill for you that she is doing it somewhat secretly?

At some point, I think you owe it to her to relieve her of any guilt she may have over it though. But it sounds to me like you are enjoying having her "betray" you by telling her friend these secrets of your marriage.

There is a saying that "any form of prohibition leads inevitably to excessive consumption." So the fact that she is religious and conservative does not auger against her being naughty. It encourages it.

My opinion.
 
I'm relatively new here so hi! :) (Please be nice!!) - about me - I'm 31, 5'8, stocky and a bit chubby, shy with short hair and not very good looking, size wise it reflects my shy / submissive personality. I'm 4.5" erect.

Regarding my wife, on the other end of the spectrum - 30, Size 12, 34C, Curvy / Thicc, Caramel Hair, Wears Hijab / Quite conservative and religious and has an extremely high sex drive whereas mine is quite low.

Me and my wife have been having issues with sex for about three/four years now, we have been married for 7 years but we hardly have sex. Infact, the first time I had sex with her (honeymoon first night), I couldn't fuck her as my dick wouldn't get hard due to nerves. Since then, our sex life has been average and we now fuck once a week at best, position wise it is some foreplay, missionary, doggy and back to missionary, she then rubs her pussy to completion and jacks me off to completion. We've tried other positions but we struggle as I'm just not well endowed or flexible enough. She does humiliate me when jacking me off and does use her fingers to jerk me off and make me cum.

Regarding watching her have sex with another man, anyone from a Pakistani / Muslim background will tell you it is pretty much impossible to get them to do that. So I've teased the idea but never really gained traction.

Recently, I believe we might have made some good progress (excited as I type this!) - One of her friends is one she has known for a long time since college, she is not very good looking and is nearly 6 feet and like a size 18/20 (so quite a big woman). My wife does advise her and her husband doesn't treat her well, she then complains and moans to my wife. The other day she opened up to my wife regarding their sex life and my wife was really open with her, I happened to be listening from the office when my wife told her that I'm on the "small" side and that she didn't really have much sex with me, which instantly got me hard - I could hear her friend telling my wife how sex was not a problem at all but they had other issues (such as his behaviour towards her, he was quite hot tempered as most men from back home tend to be) - they delved deeper into the details and my wife mentioned that we only did two positions, which surprised her friend, her friend was saying how they have tried so much stuff (desk, kitchen, shower, sideways, him lifting her among ither things which I can't remember) and how the sex was pretty much what is keeping them together. As they continued to talk, my wife mentioned that riding me just doesn't work because of the combination of my size and her thicc arse, her friend laughed and replied that she loves riding and has no such issue. My wife then daringly asked how big he was.. to which her friend said, he is 8 inches hard and 4 soft.. the next thing I heard was my wife say oh my god and come close to her door and close it as if she knew I was listening or incase I was listening, they continued to talk after that. This was last Thursday or Friday.

This morning, my wife has said to me that she wants to visit her friend and wants to make it a regular thing (once a week) because she needs to help her with weight loss. I didn't think too much of it and agreed to it, it allows me some time to watch cuckold porn and jack off whilst talking to men about my wife and helping them jack off. However, just an hour ago she started showing me some lingerie which she wants to buy and she is insisting I buy it for her with next day delivery, I asked her why the rush? To which she replied, "that's none of your business, just buy it for me". I then replied and said ok.

I'm now sat here with a rock hard dick thinking that they've decided on some sort of agreement / possibly a threesome. It could be a coincidence but she never asks for lingerie, her asking for some now just before meeting her friend is very fishy but it really turns me on. Could it be happening? Could I be in for a treat?! What do you guys reckon?

I'll report back as more things unfold, let's hope I am correct :)
a woman's sex drive is often more powerful than their religious convictions. It often adds more excitement of the taboo of doing something wrong. they will often carry more shame than other's though. In my experience religious women are some of the biggest whores waiting to be unchained. which is good. we need more good girls to become whores. The shame will go away after she gets used to it, and realizes it doesn't matter.

there was a jewish christian girl I used to date. I was constantly trying to get into her pants. she would always stop it trying to do what she thought was right. eventually I got in her snatch and from there she went down hill. we were fucking all the time, after a while she was cheating on me with two other guys. she became a real whore, and that is good. I'm proud of any woman that whores up.
 
Update : I haven't been on here for a while, my wife did end up staying for nearly a week at her friends, she has not mentioned anything about having sex with her or her friend's husband. Regarding clues, her panties look "normal", I didn't find any cum inside her, her pussy is slightly looser than before but not enough to say for sure, her sex drive is slightly lower but it is now that time of the month.

All seems normal apart from me seeing her friend's husband's name popping up on her phone (they don't usually message each other) - I was eager to find out what he said, so she left her phone on charge two days ago and went out, I know her code so I went through her phone. His message was just one message "Chat on Telegram" and her reply was "Ok" - Now, Telegram tells you when someone installs it but my wife hasn't got it and I could not find it on her phone, leaves me a bit confused but intrigued too - Just one message saying that? Surely there must have been a conversation which she potentially deleted? The thought continues to excite me thoroughly :)
 
Does your wife typically have correspondence with the husbands of her friends?

All seems normal apart from me seeing her friend's husband's name popping up on her phone (they don't usually message each other) - I was eager to find out what he said, so she left her phone on charge two days ago and went out, I know her code so I went through her phone. His message was just one message "Chat on Telegram" and her reply was "Ok" - Now, Telegram tells you when someone installs it but my wife hasn't got it and I could not find it on her phone, leaves me a bit confused but intrigued too - Just one message saying that? Surely there must have been a conversation which she potentially deleted? The thought continues to excite me thoroughly :)
 
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The issue is she thinks I am unaware and I'm not 100% sure yet. Saying that, I'll be dropping her off shortly - her dress code is the same as usual BUT slightly tighter fitting Abaya and a stylish Hijab, and she's dolled up on the make up too :D, this is the sexiest I've seen her dress in a while - she'll be wearing heels and a tight belt around her waist to make her dress even more tight lol.

Get us up to date... 😁 Did she come back with any stories about her friend's husband? You could tell her it would have been hot if something happened between the two of them 😁
 
Suggestion: If you are shy about telling her, or fear her reaction if you do, you can deflect some of that by telling her that you had a dream. While you're lying in bed enjoying the prelude to sex, tell her you had a very...interesting...dream about her. She'll naturally be curious and ask you to tell her, at which point you can be as coy as you think is appropriate. Then gently ease into it, starting with vague terms if you wish. Such as saying that you dreamed she was "with" another man, and then getting more specific. This way, you'll be able to gauge her reaction and adjust your approach accordingly.

She may resist admitting to it, so don't take it too seriously if she does. Check her state of arousal by how wet she is getting, compared to her normal wetness. Dilated pupils, increased heartbeat and faster breathing, which may be harder to detect, are also signals of arousal. If you find that she is aroused, but denies being interested in the idea, you can ask if she is sure, and even point out that she seems awfully wet. Just be sure you are doing this in a sexy, provocative way, not an accusatory way. Continue to tell her the details you envision, and at some point, guide her hand to your erection, which should tell her how the scenario excites you. If you are brave enough, you can then tell her directly that you were crazy aroused by it in your dream, and found that it continued to excite you after you woke up, and that you keep thinking about it.
 
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Suggestion: If you are shy about telling her, or fear her reaction if you do, you can deflect some of that by telling her that you had a dream. While you're lying in bed enjoying the prelude to sex, tell her you had a very...interesting...dream about her. She'll naturally be curious and ask you to tell her, at which point you can be as coy as you think is appropriate. Then gently ease into it, starting with vague terms if you wish. Such as saying that you dreamed she was "with" another man, and the getting more specific. This way, you'll be able to gauge her reaction. She may resist admitting to it, so don't take it too seriously if she does. Check her state of arousal by how wet get is getting, compared to her normal wetness. Dilated pupils, increased heartbeat and faster breathing, which may be harder to detect, but are also signals of arousal. If you find that she is aroused, but denies being interested in the idea, you can ask if she is sure, and even point out that she seems wet. Just be sure you are doing this in a sexy, provocative way, not an accusatory way. Continue to tell her the details you envision, and at some point, guide her hand to your erection, which should tell her how the scenario excites you. If you are brave enough, you can then tell her directly that you were crazy aroused by it in your dream, and found that it continues to excite you and that you keep thinking about it.

Whatever you decide to do though, update us fer cryin' out loud! lol :LOL:
This is a great idea! I'll bring it up with her today

And no, she doesn't usually have correspondence with friend's hubbys as that's something uncommon amongst our culture!

I'll try to keep you all updated, I'm trying to work three different things at the same time, two businesses and a full time job haa!
 
Yes, I think it would be uncommon in most cultures. Even in situations where the couples are all friends, it would raise an eyebrow if one of the men initiated private chat with the other man's wife. I wonder if his wife knows he is having private correspondence with your wife. Looking forward to your updates!
And no, she doesn't usually have correspondence with friend's hubbys as that's something uncommon amongst our culture!
 
Update : I haven't been on here for a while, my wife did end up staying for nearly a week at her friends, she has not mentioned anything about having sex with her or her friend's husband. Regarding clues, her panties look "normal", I didn't find any cum inside her, her pussy is slightly looser than before but not enough to say for sure, her sex drive is slightly lower but it is now that time of the month.

All seems normal apart from me seeing her friend's husband's name popping up on her phone (they don't usually message each other) - I was eager to find out what he said, so she left her phone on charge two days ago and went out, I know her code so I went through her phone. His message was just one message "Chat on Telegram" and her reply was "Ok" - Now, Telegram tells you when someone installs it but my wife hasn't got it and I could not find it on her phone, leaves me a bit confused but intrigued too - Just one message saying that? Surely there must have been a conversation which she potentially deleted? The thought continues to excite me thoroughly :)
I found out that you can duplicate her account. Go on your telegram, add account, put her Mobile number, read the code on her phone so you can put it into yours and voilà all done. REMEMBER, you will need to delete the text message containing the code and the message she will get inside telegram that another device was logged in to her account