Is my religious wife finally caving in?

This thread is a great read. I wish the best for you two, and hope both that she is getting her needs met and that she ends up comfortable being open about it.
 
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She has learned to sublimate.

She knows her sex life is seriously substandard.

The phone conversation:

Shifted from her friend’s problems to comparing their respective sex lives to this man’s assets.

Her response was immediate and enthusiastic, and with THAT shift, your wife went private mode. This friend doesn’t need your wife to workout or diet. Ditto for speedily delivered lingerie.

Given her motive, exuberance, secretive discussion and preparations — plus opportunity, which makes more sense to you:

A] A weight loss narrative.
B] He is porking your wife.

So — what way forward?

In your place, I’d work on creating an environment where it is safe for her to discuss her issues.

You could confide to her that YOU know her love life is running seriously substandard, and that she has to know this herself, and that it is so blatantly unfair that she is missing so much of the best of life because of YOUR shortcomings.

Explain that you love her dearly and would agree to anything to fix this. Tell her that this has plated on your mind for 3-4 years [since you’ve been having problems] but that you felt helpless to fix it since — well … your body is what it is…’

Tell her that you feel so guilty that she must do without because you ARE without [much]. Tell her that your inability to face and discuss this ‘even with my own wife’ shames you to disgrace. Tell her that it makes you feel unmanly. Tell her that you’ve realized that you can’t move forward or mature in respect for YOURSELF—UNLESS you face this fear, and that to face this fear, you have to be brutally honest with yourself.

You can say that you learned that when she uses humiliation with hand-jobs. Tell her ‘that works because it’s true.’ Ask her, ‘how can I love my wife as the prophet Mohammed peace be upon him taught IF I can’t even be honest with her.’

For many wives, your issues would be an outrage. Tell her that ‘I can’t in good conscience see her denied any longer of what is her’s by right.

Tell her that she’s given her girlfriend plenty of support. Ask her if she has any thoughts on how to resolve these things, and that you’d be grateful for anything she says.
 
Turns out all suspicion is correct. I received a call yesterday night (night she was supposed to come home) she has stayed over at theirs on three occasions now. I got a call from the husband who explained very casually to me that he's piping my wife because she isn't getting satisfaction at home and he said he knows that I have no issue since I don't mind her staying at theirs. I hung up and didn't know what to do, he called back but I didn't answer - he messaged me saying that he knows I'm shocked and don't know how to respond and that he'll phone me, put it aside and let me listen in. I literally felt like cumming from just reading the message, ears ringing and butterflies. I replied with a measly "Ok".

Around 1am (I could not sleep) I get a call and answer immediately - I hear my wife getting smashed as if she's a porn star, he made her humiliate me and he made her choke on his dick, a feat which I've never achieved. I came within 2 minutes of listening. Her wet pussy was easily heard aswell as their kissing. It went from sex to her sucking his dick three times before (I think he came) and hung up, during that 30 mins, it sounded like she came 3 times. But I'm not sure.

I've been thinking about this all day and don't know how to speak to her.

She will be staying until Sunday now ☺️

I've mixed feelings but overall really turned on. Wanked 5/6 times today..
 
Turns out all suspicion is correct. I received a call yesterday night (night she was supposed to come home) she has stayed over at theirs on three occasions now. I got a call from the husband who explained very casually to me that he's piping my wife because she isn't getting satisfaction at home and he said he knows that I have no issue since I don't mind her staying at theirs. I hung up and didn't know what to do, he called back but I didn't answer - he messaged me saying that he knows I'm shocked and don't know how to respond and that he'll phone me, put it aside and let me listen in. I literally felt like cumming from just reading the message, ears ringing and butterflies. I replied with a measly "Ok".

Around 1am (I could not sleep) I get a call and answer immediately - I hear my wife getting smashed as if she's a porn star, he made her humiliate me and he made her choke on his dick, a feat which I've never achieved. I came within 2 minutes of listening. Her wet pussy was easily heard aswell as their kissing. It went from sex to her sucking his dick three times before (I think he came) and hung up, during that 30 mins, it sounded like she came 3 times. But I'm not sure.

I've been thinking about this all day and don't know how to speak to her.

She will be staying until Sunday now ☺️

I've mixed feelings but overall really turned on. Wanked 5/6 times today..
Absolutely beautiful!

Everything that happened is contained in seminal form in your original post:

‘… her friend said, he is 8 inches hard and 4 soft.. the next thing I heard was my wife say “oh my god” and come close to her door and close it...’

Your wife confessed.

For her, learning about a big penis is a revelation from god. Hearing of his gift, she immediately confessed in her own words her intuitive understanding that his heavy penis IS god’s very answer to her prayers.

‘Oh my god’ was her prayer of acceptance of god’s will. Being devout, she would not insult god by spurning that gift. Accepting the gift, she hastened preparations to go to go and to obey god with him at once.

Since this is god’s will for your wife, god wills for you to believe and accept it. Your mixed feelings show a weak faith. Your only rightful place is to accept this and give god thanks for resolving your wife’s need as you cannot. This is god’s gift to you also.

Contact this man. Tell him that all he said was true. Say that you want him to give her all the pleasure she is able to experience. Thank him for letting you listen, and that it helps you to accept this and to know your place in this arrangement.

Tell your wife that you could not be happier that finally, she is experiencing satisfaction with sex god intends for it to be. Thank her for showing you god’s will and way.

Tell your wife that while listening to them helped, it would deepen and strengthen your acceptance of this as god’s will if you actually saw them together.

Give thanks to god for working all these things. Show your gratitude by helping them in their own marriage. Whenever he becomes angry with your wife’s friend, explain to him that you are sending your wife to him, and that instead of being angry, he should channel all his energy and emotions into giving it to your wife until she can’t stand up.

You now have words to speak, and several conversations to have. Let us know how it goes.
 
You HAVE to share some nude body pictures of her man(obvi cutting/blurring out her face for privacy reasons) Its not everyday that you come across a desi muslim hotwife! i have been looking for them but they are harder to find than a damn unicorn! please please share some nudes! and if you dont want to share them publicly than feel free to dm them to me!
 
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Turns out all suspicion is correct. I received a call yesterday night (night she was supposed to come home) she has stayed over at theirs on three occasions now. I got a call from the husband who explained very casually to me that he's piping my wife because she isn't getting satisfaction at home and he said he knows that I have no issue since I don't mind her staying at theirs. I hung up and didn't know what to do, he called back but I didn't answer - he messaged me saying that he knows I'm shocked and don't know how to respond and that he'll phone me, put it aside and let me listen in. I literally felt like cumming from just reading the message, ears ringing and butterflies. I replied with a measly "Ok".

Around 1am (I could not sleep) I get a call and answer immediately - I hear my wife getting smashed as if she's a porn star, he made her humiliate me and he made her choke on his dick, a feat which I've never achieved. I came within 2 minutes of listening. Her wet pussy was easily heard aswell as their kissing. It went from sex to her sucking his dick three times before (I think he came) and hung up, during that 30 mins, it sounded like she came 3 times. But I'm not sure.

I've been thinking about this all day and don't know how to speak to her.

She will be staying until Sunday now ☺️

I've mixed feelings but overall really turned on. Wanked 5/6 times today..
Sounds like all your patience and encouragement paid off - well done. Now you have to show her that you're happy she got fucked and let her know you aren't angry or upset with her.
Play it cool and she'll be getting fucked regularly - I hope you have as much fun with your wife getting fucked as I have with Lynn over the years.
Best of luck, James
 
Turns out all suspicion is correct. I received a call yesterday night (night she was supposed to come home) she has stayed over at theirs on three occasions now. I got a call from the husband who explained very casually to me that he's piping my wife because she isn't getting satisfaction at home and he said he knows that I have no issue since I don't mind her staying at theirs. I hung up and didn't know what to do, he called back but I didn't answer - he messaged me saying that he knows I'm shocked and don't know how to respond and that he'll phone me, put it aside and let me listen in. I literally felt like cumming from just reading the message, ears ringing and butterflies. I replied with a measly "Ok".

Around 1am (I could not sleep) I get a call and answer immediately - I hear my wife getting smashed as if she's a porn star, he made her humiliate me and he made her choke on his dick, a feat which I've never achieved. I came within 2 minutes of listening. Her wet pussy was easily heard aswell as their kissing. It went from sex to her sucking his dick three times before (I think he came) and hung up, during that 30 mins, it sounded like she came 3 times. But I'm not sure.

I've been thinking about this all day and don't know how to speak to her.

She will be staying until Sunday now ☺️

I've mixed feelings but overall really turned on. Wanked 5/6 times today..
You are officially a cuck!!!!
 
I'm relatively new here so hi! :) (Please be nice!!) - about me - I'm 31, 5'8, stocky and a bit chubby, shy with short hair and not very good looking, size wise it reflects my shy / submissive personality. I'm 4.5" erect.

Regarding my wife, on the other end of the spectrum - 30, Size 12, 34C, Curvy / Thicc, Caramel Hair, Wears Hijab / Quite conservative and religious and has an extremely high sex drive whereas mine is quite low.

Me and my wife have been having issues with sex for about three/four years now, we have been married for 7 years but we hardly have sex. Infact, the first time I had sex with her (honeymoon first night), I couldn't fuck her as my dick wouldn't get hard due to nerves. Since then, our sex life has been average and we now fuck once a week at best, position wise it is some foreplay, missionary, doggy and back to missionary, she then rubs her pussy to completion and jacks me off to completion. We've tried other positions but we struggle as I'm just not well endowed or flexible enough. She does humiliate me when jacking me off and does use her fingers to jerk me off and make me cum.

Regarding watching her have sex with another man, anyone from a Pakistani / Muslim background will tell you it is pretty much impossible to get them to do that. So I've teased the idea but never really gained traction.

Recently, I believe we might have made some good progress (excited as I type this!) - One of her friends is one she has known for a long time since college, she is not very good looking and is nearly 6 feet and like a size 18/20 (so quite a big woman). My wife does advise her and her husband doesn't treat her well, she then complains and moans to my wife. The other day she opened up to my wife regarding their sex life and my wife was really open with her, I happened to be listening from the office when my wife told her that I'm on the "small" side and that she didn't really have much sex with me, which instantly got me hard - I could hear her friend telling my wife how sex was not a problem at all but they had other issues (such as his behaviour towards her, he was quite hot tempered as most men from back home tend to be) - they delved deeper into the details and my wife mentioned that we only did two positions, which surprised her friend, her friend was saying how they have tried so much stuff (desk, kitchen, shower, sideways, him lifting her among ither things which I can't remember) and how the sex was pretty much what is keeping them together. As they continued to talk, my wife mentioned that riding me just doesn't work because of the combination of my size and her thicc arse, her friend laughed and replied that she loves riding and has no such issue. My wife then daringly asked how big he was.. to which her friend said, he is 8 inches hard and 4 soft.. the next thing I heard was my wife say oh my god and come close to her door and close it as if she knew I was listening or incase I was listening, they continued to talk after that. This was last Thursday or Friday.

This morning, my wife has said to me that she wants to visit her friend and wants to make it a regular thing (once a week) because she needs to help her with weight loss. I didn't think too much of it and agreed to it, it allows me some time to watch cuckold porn and jack off whilst talking to men about my wife and helping them jack off. However, just an hour ago she started showing me some lingerie which she wants to buy and she is insisting I buy it for her with next day delivery, I asked her why the rush? To which she replied, "that's none of your business, just buy it for me". I then replied and said ok.

I'm now sat here with a rock hard dick thinking that they've decided on some sort of agreement / possibly a threesome. It could be a coincidence but she never asks for lingerie, her asking for some now just before meeting her friend is very fishy but it really turns me on. Could it be happening? Could I be in for a treat?! What do you guys reckon?

I'll report back as more things unfold, let's hope I am correct :)