is my wife an exhibitionist, and am I beginning to see myself in the role of a cuckold husband?

Hello everyone.
Yesterday, I had sex with my wife. This time it was very different from usual. Before having sex, we drank quite a lot of wine while talking about our mischief before we met and got married. My wife said she likes nerdy, skinny men who aren’t social and have no experience with romance or women. That’s completely the opposite of me, the man she married. She mentioned that she once flirted with her friend through Facebook chat. My wife then showed me the evidence of that Facebook chat.

From what I read in the chat between my wife and this man ten years ago, my wife was indeed flirting with him very naughtily, even though at that time she already had a boyfriend. My wife kept saying very naughty things until eventually this man sent a photo of his penis with his cum. Then I asked my wife, “Did you enjoy doing that at the time?” She replied, “Yes, and for some reason I felt aroused when a skinny, nerdy man shyly looked at me from head to toe.”

From there, I started kissing my wife's entire body and told her to tell me more. Here, I was surprised but also felt an adrenaline rush I'd never experienced before. My wife reacted differently than usual when we were making out. From her facial expressions, body movements, to her voice, everything was crazier than usual.

I wondered, is my wife an exhibitionist? And am I becoming a cuckold? Because I also got turned on hearing my wife's experiences.
 
It depends on what you're both looking for. I've known many women over the years who love the thrill of being attractive and/or are bored and looking for excitement (flirting/sexting with another person). In my first job, an innocuous message from my boss's wife turned into something so hot I thought my phone would melt. But it never progressed past that, because she just wanted to know that she caught the eye of someone other than her husband.

Meanwhile, some people like to be watched, while others are into cucking/swapping.

A lot of guys like to know their other half is attractive and lusted after, but at the end of the day it's how far you're willing to take it.

From what you described, it sounds like she did have a fantasy but it's not something that drives her and has not happened since. She married you, the total opposite of her fantasy, which means there are so many things about you that she wants and the skinny guy thing is not that important.

However, if she is willing to explore and you're cool with it too, then take it step by step...
 
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Hello everyone.
Yesterday, I had sex with my wife. This time it was very different from usual. Before having sex, we drank quite a lot of wine while talking about our mischief before we met and got married. My wife said she likes nerdy, skinny men who aren’t social and have no experience with romance or women. That’s completely the opposite of me, the man she married. She mentioned that she once flirted with her friend through Facebook chat. My wife then showed me the evidence of that Facebook chat.

From what I read in the chat between my wife and this man ten years ago, my wife was indeed flirting with him very naughtily, even though at that time she already had a boyfriend. My wife kept saying very naughty things until eventually this man sent a photo of his penis with his cum. Then I asked my wife, “Did you enjoy doing that at the time?” She replied, “Yes, and for some reason I felt aroused when a skinny, nerdy man shyly looked at me from head to toe.”

From there, I started kissing my wife's entire body and told her to tell me more. Here, I was surprised but also felt an adrenaline rush I'd never experienced before. My wife reacted differently than usual when we were making out. From her facial expressions, body movements, to her voice, everything was crazier than usual.

I wondered, is my wife an exhibitionist? And am I becoming a cuckold? Because I also got turned on hearing my wife's experiences.
would she like a bit off kinky roleplay with me as her obedient servant,doing whatever she demands(even taboo)?
 

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