Is she secretly into the idea of cuckolding/hotwifing?

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Recently, I've been trying to get my wife to open up with me a bit more about her sexual fantasies. She's very conservative, very loving, and very loyal. She's smoking hot, mid 30s, Russian (speaks perfect English with almost no accent), blonde hair, blue eyes, soft white skin, petite, and has an amazing figure. Beautiful perfect ass.

In an attempt to get her to open up, we did an online sexual fantasy quiz where we both take the quiz and when we're done, it only displays the answers that you agreed with or we're at least interested if your partner is. Most of her answers came out pretty tame. For the questions related to "Group", she marked all of them as "No", so stating that she's not interested in having sex with other people, orgies, couple sharing, cuckolding, etc. I had told her shortly a different night that the idea of an MFM threesome actually turns me on and the next time we had sex she sucked on my fingers and pretended it was another cock because I told her that it turned me on. She seems to like to entertain the idea.

However, she recently opened up and told me she has this office sex fantasy, where she is this powerless whore of a secretary that gets banged relentlessly by her dominant boss (not a real person) in his office and her sole job is to be his fuck toy. We roleplay this scenario a lot to get her off and she gets off super hard when I paint the fantasy out for her (I can make up a pretty good story). When I told her about my MFM fantasy, I told her how I imagined her in her sexy schoolgirl outfit and she walks into the boys locker room and then we grab her and takes turns fucking her and making her suck on cocks and she got off really hard to that too. The most recent time, we had some oil and I pretended that I was masseuse who was giving her a "special" experience and she said "I'll make sure I won't tell my husband" and she said after that "sorry, that turns me on" and I told her that it turns me on too.


My question here is, does it sound like she has some secret interest in MFM or hotwifing or cheating from what I've described? I secretly want to see her fuck somebody else in front of me, but she's pretty conservative and I think maybe she is turned on by the idea but prefers to keep it a fantasy and is embarrassed to maybe share more of her secret fantasies with me.
 

penc1ld1kt

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From what I have read on this site you are best off playing the long game. If you come right out with a request to be cucked you risk scaring her off. I suggest keep going with the role playing, gently increasing the intensity over time.

You know your wife better than anyone so you could try watching porn with cheating scenarios together if you think that she would enjoy that. Maybe going on a sex toy website to see what she might like to try - make sure you peruse the dildos and let her know you would be turned on watching her use one. With any luck she would choose one that's bigger than you (or you could even suggest it if you think that would help get her there). With a dildo you can act out a whole lot of cuckold scenarios without having to even discuss introducing a third.

Just my thoughts though. Disclaimer that am in a similar position to you though my goal is not real life cucking, just adding some kink to our vanilla play.
 
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From what I have read on this site you are best off playing the long game. If you come right out with a request to be cucked you risk scaring her off. I suggest keep going with the role playing, gently increasing the intensity over time.

You know your wife better than anyone so you could try watching porn with cheating scenarios together if you think that she would enjoy that. Maybe going on a sex toy website to see what she might like to try - make sure you peruse the dildos and let her know you would be turned on watching her use one. With any luck she would choose one that's bigger than you (or you could even suggest it if you think that would help get her there). With a dildo you can act out a whole lot of cuckold scenarios without having to even discuss introducing a third.

Just my thoughts though. Disclaimer that am in a similar position to you though my goal is not real life cucking, just adding some kink to our vanilla play.
Thanks for the reply penc1ld1kt.

I've been kind of trying to push her to buy sex toys but she doesn't find them appealing, especially dildos. She says most of her stimulation is from her clit; doesn't like being fingered or really get off on penetration. I usually get her off with my hands by rubbing her clit, she says it's magic and she gets off really hard the way I do it especially when I whisper sexy fantasy stories in her ear while rubbing her just right.

Personally, i think she's just never been fucked by a big thick dick before and so she doesn't know what she's missing out on. She's only been with two men before me: her first real boyfriend who cheated on her and her ex-husband who also cheated on her after about 5 years. His dick was roughly the same size as mine in both length and girth, which is slightly below or at average (I saw some photos of his on a hard drive that she has forgotten about that served as a backup drive before she ever met me; she doesn't know I've seen them!). As for her first boyfriend, I don't know how big he was, but I assume not much different than me since big dicks don't interest her. She also says they look like they hurt and she even hurts a little sometimes when her and I have sex and I put it in initially. Doggystyle can be pretty uncomfortable for her for some reason and she usually wants to switch positions, although sometimes it's fine and she enjoys it.

Honestly, I am fine with never actually cucking, too, our life is good, we're both faithful to each other and why out our marriage to the test if we're already happy? But I definitely want to get into more roleplay with toys and simulate an MFM or just do dirty talk. If she ever says she's into doing an MFM though, I'm pretty sure I would say yes, almost 100%.
 
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Thanks for the reply penc1ld1kt.

I've been kind of trying to push her to buy sex toys but she doesn't find them appealing, especially dildos. She says most of her stimulation is from her clit; doesn't like being fingered or really get off on penetration. I usually get her off with my hands by rubbing her clit, she says it's magic and she gets off really hard the way I do it especially when I whisper sexy fantasy stories in her ear while rubbing her just right.

Personally, i think she's just never been fucked by a big thick dick before and so she doesn't know what she's missing out on. She's only been with two men before me: her first real boyfriend who cheated on her and her ex-husband who also cheated on her after about 5 years. His dick was roughly the same size as mine in both length and girth, which is slightly below or at average (I saw some photos of his on a hard drive that she has forgotten about that served as a backup drive before she ever met me; she doesn't know I've seen them!). As for her first boyfriend, I don't know how big he was, but I assume not much different than me since big dicks don't interest her. She also says they look like they hurt and she even hurts a little sometimes when her and I have sex and I put it in initially. Doggystyle can be pretty uncomfortable for her for some reason and she usually wants to switch positions, although sometimes it's fine and she enjoys it.

Honestly, I am fine with never actually cucking, too, our life is good, we're both faithful to each other and why out our marriage to the test if we're already happy? But I definitely want to get into more roleplay with toys and simulate an MFM or just do dirty talk. If she ever says she's into doing an MFM though, I'm pretty sure I would say yes, almost 100%.
I have to agree with penc1ld1kt. Playing the long game in this situation is a good idea. I told my wife my fantasy almost 9 years ago. Before our first date (10 years ago), she asked if she could hook up with her friend. I said no, and she didn’t. A year later I told her I wish she did. But right before a relationship probably wouldn’t have worked out. She was hyper sexual before we met. On top of other things we both are working on in our lives, this is a fantasy she isn’t fond of. Not that she doesn’t like me thinking it, but she doesn’t want to live the lifestyle.

Do I want to actually see her with other men? I go back and forth on it so much so I don’t dare even press it. Years ago she said maybe later in life. Now she has said she doesn’t want to. Plus, I worry about her getting attached. In your situation, it sounds like wife is starting to come around, but if it was me, I would keep it at role playing. Remember, once that line is crossed, everything changes, and for some people it ends up destroying their marriages. Either because they become obsessed by it, or they don’t want it and the wife does. Go with the flow and communicate everything about this with your wife..
 

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Great advice.
However, if it was you....me thinks you'd
let her enjoy herself.
And titillate you in the bargin.

Sure you want to know or see her with other
men, thats why we're all here. You need to come
to terms with your concerns and that begins
with you having complete trust & faith in her.
Relax & enjoy her enjoyment.
 
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Great advice.
However, if it was you....me thinks you'd
let her enjoy herself.
And titillate you in the bargin.

Sure you want to know or see her with other
men, thats why we're all here. You need to come
to terms with your concerns and that begins
with you having complete trust & faith in her.
Relax & enjoy her enjoyment.
Great point about trust & faith. You wouldn’t consider it if you didn’t trust her.
 
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Recently, I've been trying to get my wife to open up with me a bit more about her sexual fantasies. She's very conservative, very loving, and very loyal. She's smoking hot, mid 30s, Russian (speaks perfect English with almost no accent), blonde hair, blue eyes, soft white skin, petite, and has an amazing figure. Beautiful perfect ass.

In an attempt to get her to open up, we did an online sexual fantasy quiz where we both take the quiz and when we're done, it only displays the answers that you agreed with or we're at least interested if your partner is. Most of her answers came out pretty tame. For the questions related to "Group", she marked all of them as "No", so stating that she's not interested in having sex with other people, orgies, couple sharing, cuckolding, etc. I had told her shortly a different night that the idea of an MFM threesome actually turns me on and the next time we had sex she sucked on my fingers and pretended it was another cock because I told her that it turned me on. She seems to like to entertain the idea.

However, she recently opened up and told me she has this office sex fantasy, where she is this powerless whore of a secretary that gets banged relentlessly by her dominant boss (not a real person) in his office and her sole job is to be his fuck toy. We roleplay this scenario a lot to get her off and she gets off super hard when I paint the fantasy out for her (I can make up a pretty good story). When I told her about my MFM fantasy, I told her how I imagined her in her sexy schoolgirl outfit and she walks into the boys locker room and then we grab her and takes turns fucking her and making her suck on cocks and she got off really hard to that too. The most recent time, we had some oil and I pretended that I was masseuse who was giving her a "special" experience and she said "I'll make sure I won't tell my husband" and she said after that "sorry, that turns me on" and I told her that it turns me on too.


My question here is, does it sound like she has some secret interest in MFM or hotwifing or cheating from what I've described? I secretly want to see her fuck somebody else in front of me, but she's pretty conservative and I think maybe she is turned on by the idea but prefers to keep it a fantasy and is embarrassed to maybe share more of her secret fantasies with me.
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