Is this how you want to see your wives?

Not into humiliation whatsoever, but if she wants to play, then why would kissing be off the menu? If it enhances her pleasure, go for it.
I agree with you, humiliation isn't really my thing, but as a bull I admit i've done It before for the couple's pleasure. Kissing makes It more intimate so I get why some husbands aren't a fan of It, but I personally enjoy doing It haha