My wife and I have been fantasizing about different sharing scenarios for years. Then out of nowhere, an old friend of mine that I see on rare occasions when he flies in town for work. He asked if I would ever consider letting my wife spend a night alone with him. It started off as a joke, but quickly escalated to my wife and him exchanging sex messages and once she saw a pic of his dick, I could tell she was wanting to actually meet him. She told me she she just wants to try it and is curious what it feels like. Less than a week she asked if I was OK with him flying down and meeting him at a hotel. I told her yes, it might be the best opportunity to fulfill the fantasy. Hours later, he had plane tickets and hotel booked for the following weekend. I didn’t realize that he had booked the hotel for three nights and was planning on my wife staying there with him the whole time. I told her that is a lot for the first time she agreed and said she would come home at any point if she wanted or I wanted her to. The day he was flying in she was getting ready to pick him up at the airport. I could tell she was super anxious and nervous. I told her after a few drinks I’m sure she will be fine because I know she’s excited about this. She didn’t seem to think so it might be so awkward. Nothing will happen. She went to get him when they got back to the hotel. She got her own room and took a few shots before she went up to his room to meet him and go out for drinks. It was less than three hours later, 10 PM, when I got a text from her saying they just got back to the hotel, loves me and will text me later. I said wow that was fast and to have fun 2–3 hours later, I sent her a message saying I assume she is probably fucking him right now or already did she responded pretty quickly and said yes they did, They went two rounds already. I asked her if it was good and she just replied. Yes then I asked if she came. And she replied with oh my God, yes so fucking hard both times. It was hours later when I finally heard from her she gave me some more details which I could tell she was reluctant to do. She told me what had happened that his dick was way bigger in person then it looked in the pics and videos. She said I’ll be totally honest, he has the most amazing dick that she has ever had/felt ever by far. She said that my friend and her agreed that it was his dick was made for her pussy. After that, obviously she wanted to spend every second she could at the hotel with them the entire time he was here. They even did Molly one night and she recorded the audio of it for me and it was insane to hear the pleasure she was getting different. She sounded. She never imagined that a dick or sex could feel that amazing and so much better than it does with me. Because I was her best before this despite my significant smaller size difference. It was super intense and definitely wasn’t what she or I was expecting at all, do you spend three days with my friend that has her unicorn dick as she put it. I fucked her as soon as she got home. The following days throughout the week, she and him continued to message and we’re still very sexed up and we’re already talking about trying to clear and schedule another meet up with me soon. It was like his dick put her under a spell and but it also made her very horny again, similar to how she was when we first met. After seeing her continue to text him about how bad she wants his amazing big cock. I was super turned on by it and hearing how much much she enjoyed it. I noticed I started having some performance issues that got worse over the ensuing few weeks. She is supposed to meet him again for the second time tomorrow night. We were talking about how excited she was to meet him and i was turned, started getting hard. But when we tried to have sex I wasn’t able to get fully hard. I was very turned on and excited but there was nothing she could say or do to make it fully hard. It was like it gave me performance anxiety subconsciously. I didn’t make sense that I give you so turn on and have things not work properly. nothing she drilled to me about her experience and me feel consciously insecure or upset. I knew his dick was much bigger than mine and would probably at least feel better and exciting in a different way especially due to the scenario. I didn’t anticipate it being even bigger than expected and also the best dick she’s ever had. But I honestly was happy and glad and was much rather she experienced that than not enjoying it very much or at all. I’m just curious if this is normal at all and if anyone else has experienced something similar. She’s only spending one night with him tomorrow and she planned on him fucking and coming inside her as many times as possible before coming home the next morning. And I can already feel that I’m getting anxious. That my dick won’t be fully hard to reclaim her when she gets home. Like the first time.
Is this normal after wife having first experience
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Get out of your head, you are doing this to yourself. She got new dick, so of course it was great and amazing and the best she has had. Back when I was still fucking my wife, I had no problem staying hard. She had even told me that my little cock wasn’t doing much for her after his bigger one, but I still fucked her and enjoyed it and cum in her. Even being caged for years now, when she lets me out and I get to masturbate, it still gets hard as I stroke it.
If his is the best dick she has had and she is still fucking you, she loves you.
I think you are mentally messing yourself up. Get out of your head and enjoy the great things that are outside of it.
If his is the best dick she has had and she is still fucking you, she loves you.
I think you are mentally messing yourself up. Get out of your head and enjoy the great things that are outside of it.
I cannot help it I love watching her take a bull
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Please boys this is fantasy land don’t expect good righting or true stories! Either that or he is a limp dick and probably was before she fucked his friend. That is why wife’s fuck around better sex. Don’t believe me ask your wife
Watching is so fucking hot and erotic. I love when the guy is vocal and dominate
In my experience, this is completely normal. I was anxious and a little jealous at first too. The cuckold experience was actually both of our idea, but when my wife agreed I immediately felt anxious. We had agreed ahead of time that we would always talk things through, and that nothing would ever happen behind my back, but still, I was a little worried. I suggested we ease into things, and she agreed.
We started with meeting a guy we both felt comfortable with. He knew where this was going to lead, but he was very patient as my wife and I worked through it. We started out just with dinner at our place getting to know each other. The next encounter was dinner and jacuzzi. The third encounter was dinner and wine and nude jacuzzi. There was no sex, but my wife said that she was really turned on sexually by this guy. She couldn’t take her eyes off his body and his erection in the jacuzzi. Oh boy, that got my anxiety going. We discussed it, and I really appreciated that my wife said that we could stop right then if that’s what I wanted. It’s true, to me it seemed that he was everything I wasn’t. He was better looking, he had a better body, he was more energetic, he had a big dick. I was definitely having second thoughts.
The big night arrived, and my wife said I could stay and watch if I wanted. She did ask me to stay out for the first hour so that they could get to know each other a little before I came in. During that hour I was really anxious. I stayed kind of close by, and I heard her have an orgasm. My heart pounded and I wanted to call everything off. While I was anxiously wondering what to do, she called me in.
I actually thought of running away, but I went into the room. My wife was laying on her back against the headboard with her legs apart, while her guy was eating her. She motioned me in, then immediately came again. This was the very first time I had ever seen my wife with another man. While I continued to be anxious, I was also very aroused. At this point I no longer wanted it to stop.
I made it through the evening ok, better than I thought I would. There were some difficult moments though. I felt anxious seeing her suck his huge penis. Seeing him fuck her much longer than I was able to, and seeing her cum so many times made me feel inadequate. I also felt insecure when he came inside of her. We locked eyes and she smiled at me as he came. Then later that night she let him cum in her mouth which bothered me a little. We had agreed ahead of time that all of this was all permissible, but still actually seeing your wife doing these things was a little bothersome.
The next day we talked about what had happened, and I told her about some of the things that bothered me a little. Again, she said we could stop whenever I wanted, or she could stop doing certain things. She did point out that doing these "certain things" was kind of the point of it all. I asked her how she had felt, and she told me that she had loved every minute of it. Obviously.
Things have gotten much better. Now I’m completely comfortable with what goes on. I find it very exciting and arousing. I don’t get to watch as often as I’d like as she prefers to be alone with her lovers, but when I do get to watch I love it. I also love the idea that my wife can find sexual fulfillment in ways that I’m not able to provide her.
The key for me was just talking to my wife about whatever concerned me, and how understanding she was with my anxiety. Now I have a Hot Wife, and I love every minute of it.
We started with meeting a guy we both felt comfortable with. He knew where this was going to lead, but he was very patient as my wife and I worked through it. We started out just with dinner at our place getting to know each other. The next encounter was dinner and jacuzzi. The third encounter was dinner and wine and nude jacuzzi. There was no sex, but my wife said that she was really turned on sexually by this guy. She couldn’t take her eyes off his body and his erection in the jacuzzi. Oh boy, that got my anxiety going. We discussed it, and I really appreciated that my wife said that we could stop right then if that’s what I wanted. It’s true, to me it seemed that he was everything I wasn’t. He was better looking, he had a better body, he was more energetic, he had a big dick. I was definitely having second thoughts.
The big night arrived, and my wife said I could stay and watch if I wanted. She did ask me to stay out for the first hour so that they could get to know each other a little before I came in. During that hour I was really anxious. I stayed kind of close by, and I heard her have an orgasm. My heart pounded and I wanted to call everything off. While I was anxiously wondering what to do, she called me in.
I actually thought of running away, but I went into the room. My wife was laying on her back against the headboard with her legs apart, while her guy was eating her. She motioned me in, then immediately came again. This was the very first time I had ever seen my wife with another man. While I continued to be anxious, I was also very aroused. At this point I no longer wanted it to stop.
I made it through the evening ok, better than I thought I would. There were some difficult moments though. I felt anxious seeing her suck his huge penis. Seeing him fuck her much longer than I was able to, and seeing her cum so many times made me feel inadequate. I also felt insecure when he came inside of her. We locked eyes and she smiled at me as he came. Then later that night she let him cum in her mouth which bothered me a little. We had agreed ahead of time that all of this was all permissible, but still actually seeing your wife doing these things was a little bothersome.
The next day we talked about what had happened, and I told her about some of the things that bothered me a little. Again, she said we could stop whenever I wanted, or she could stop doing certain things. She did point out that doing these "certain things" was kind of the point of it all. I asked her how she had felt, and she told me that she had loved every minute of it. Obviously.
Things have gotten much better. Now I’m completely comfortable with what goes on. I find it very exciting and arousing. I don’t get to watch as often as I’d like as she prefers to be alone with her lovers, but when I do get to watch I love it. I also love the idea that my wife can find sexual fulfillment in ways that I’m not able to provide her.
The key for me was just talking to my wife about whatever concerned me, and how understanding she was with my anxiety. Now I have a Hot Wife, and I love every minute of it.
HubbyJohn
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I totally understand how you feel and I don’t know if I have seen many of us discuss this feeling of inadequacy openly. Confronting it I mean.
After hearing that she had cheated on my with a bigger cock something inside me changed and I would notice if she looked bored during sex after a while. I would get into my head that she was faking everything.
Then once I watched her cum on a large dildo it really changed me. Seeing her react like that… how long it took to get inside her, the noises she made, then when she opened up and commanded me to put it deeper and fuck her hard. Watching the way it suddenly would just go all the way in and her pussy stretched open and the orgasm she had was nothing like I had ever seen in the first 12 years we were married.
Usually I could slide right in and at that moment where she opened up and became super wet it just became awkward for us. Like we were fucking for the other’s pleasure only at that point and then after years we sort of had to admit we felt nothing and couldn’t orgasm like that. So she would cum on top and then roll over and squeeze her legs between mine for friction and I could cum.
But then I could tell she wasn’t all that in lot it, so I asked if it felt good for her and she said “I don’t feel anything. You’re fucking my thighs. You don’t even reach my pussy.”
And that is when I bought the dildo and slowly replaced sex with my dick with the dildo. So she would cum.
She still wants sex with me sometimes to feel close, but I get into my head after a couple minutes. She moans a bit and it is intimate, but not really sexual. More like cuddling than fucking. Real blow to my manhood.
It turns me on and I enjoy the dirty talk after as I finish by hand, but the feeling of just being so pathetically inadequate as my dick is inside her is something I try to avoid. Even tho at the same time I crave that same feeling.
I imagine men who are true cucks and routinely get cucks are able to get over it easier. But for a casual cuck where it’s only once a year or so it is harder to adjust.
After hearing that she had cheated on my with a bigger cock something inside me changed and I would notice if she looked bored during sex after a while. I would get into my head that she was faking everything.
Then once I watched her cum on a large dildo it really changed me. Seeing her react like that… how long it took to get inside her, the noises she made, then when she opened up and commanded me to put it deeper and fuck her hard. Watching the way it suddenly would just go all the way in and her pussy stretched open and the orgasm she had was nothing like I had ever seen in the first 12 years we were married.
Usually I could slide right in and at that moment where she opened up and became super wet it just became awkward for us. Like we were fucking for the other’s pleasure only at that point and then after years we sort of had to admit we felt nothing and couldn’t orgasm like that. So she would cum on top and then roll over and squeeze her legs between mine for friction and I could cum.
But then I could tell she wasn’t all that in lot it, so I asked if it felt good for her and she said “I don’t feel anything. You’re fucking my thighs. You don’t even reach my pussy.”
And that is when I bought the dildo and slowly replaced sex with my dick with the dildo. So she would cum.
She still wants sex with me sometimes to feel close, but I get into my head after a couple minutes. She moans a bit and it is intimate, but not really sexual. More like cuddling than fucking. Real blow to my manhood.
It turns me on and I enjoy the dirty talk after as I finish by hand, but the feeling of just being so pathetically inadequate as my dick is inside her is something I try to avoid. Even tho at the same time I crave that same feeling.
I imagine men who are true cucks and routinely get cucks are able to get over it easier. But for a casual cuck where it’s only once a year or so it is harder to adjust.
All it takes is the "right guy" and WOW this can be an amazing journey!! My wifes Boss/Lover learned this the hard way too, LOL. He had shared her once on a business trip with a group of potential business associated, and it had gone quite well....ALL of the guys became partners!! They had a little tiff afterwards, because he thought she had "enjoyed it too much" but that soon worked itself out.
A good friend of his was in town over New Years and they had both been celebrating early, and the friend mentioned he was withour a date for New Years. Her Boss/Lover divulged to the friend (due to the "celebrating") that they were having a serious affair and if he wanted, she could be his date. Friend admitted to having had interests for a while for her, but assumed since she was married that it was not feasible.......
She still gets WET talking about this happening when they called her in his office (Boss/Lover) and the friend asking her if she had plans for New Years and could she cancel them when she said that we had plans. He said "Tom told me about your relationship". LONG story, but after she recovered from the shock of her Boss/Lover disclosing their affair, she agreed to cancelling our plans and called me to let me know..........POINT is, in her Boss/Lovers mind, she was going out with him for New Years Eve which was Sunday night/Monday. What actually happened was the friend took her to dinner after work on Friday, and they hit it off so well that she called me to let me know she would not be home at all the entire weekend!! So she spent Friday, Saturday, Sunday AND Monday night in his hotel with him (he did not fly out until Tuesday) AND because this was entirely unplanned she did not have her diaphragm (all the birth control she uses) with her and she declined my offer to run it down to her......she insisted they would by some condoms, and it would be a waste of my time, he could use condoms if he was concerned about her getting pregnant............
Turned out he was TOTALLY unconcerned with a possible pregnancy, especially after she assured him she was fine if it happened with him (they REALLY hit it off and he was well endowed too, which she had ascertained during dinner!!) and spent the whole holiday weekend together haing a GREAT time discussing this possible pregnancy and their desire for it to occur!! When the friend called her Boss/Lover on Tuesday to express his heartfelt THANKS and gave him a synopsis of their WEEKEND (not a single date night) he was FURIOUS!!! LOLLOL
Guys, ou GOT to be aware that this is SEX and few women can do sex without derire......its NOT just for you!! Thinking she is agreeing to this JUST for you leads to disasters like this. And its even worse when she wants to keep seeing the "right guy" while you have limp willy fro jerking off and are now thinking with the rational side of your brain. Got to be careful what you want when you get in to this lifestyle...........
CW
A good friend of his was in town over New Years and they had both been celebrating early, and the friend mentioned he was withour a date for New Years. Her Boss/Lover divulged to the friend (due to the "celebrating") that they were having a serious affair and if he wanted, she could be his date. Friend admitted to having had interests for a while for her, but assumed since she was married that it was not feasible.......
She still gets WET talking about this happening when they called her in his office (Boss/Lover) and the friend asking her if she had plans for New Years and could she cancel them when she said that we had plans. He said "Tom told me about your relationship". LONG story, but after she recovered from the shock of her Boss/Lover disclosing their affair, she agreed to cancelling our plans and called me to let me know..........POINT is, in her Boss/Lovers mind, she was going out with him for New Years Eve which was Sunday night/Monday. What actually happened was the friend took her to dinner after work on Friday, and they hit it off so well that she called me to let me know she would not be home at all the entire weekend!! So she spent Friday, Saturday, Sunday AND Monday night in his hotel with him (he did not fly out until Tuesday) AND because this was entirely unplanned she did not have her diaphragm (all the birth control she uses) with her and she declined my offer to run it down to her......she insisted they would by some condoms, and it would be a waste of my time, he could use condoms if he was concerned about her getting pregnant............
Turned out he was TOTALLY unconcerned with a possible pregnancy, especially after she assured him she was fine if it happened with him (they REALLY hit it off and he was well endowed too, which she had ascertained during dinner!!) and spent the whole holiday weekend together haing a GREAT time discussing this possible pregnancy and their desire for it to occur!! When the friend called her Boss/Lover on Tuesday to express his heartfelt THANKS and gave him a synopsis of their WEEKEND (not a single date night) he was FURIOUS!!! LOLLOL
Guys, ou GOT to be aware that this is SEX and few women can do sex without derire......its NOT just for you!! Thinking she is agreeing to this JUST for you leads to disasters like this. And its even worse when she wants to keep seeing the "right guy" while you have limp willy fro jerking off and are now thinking with the rational side of your brain. Got to be careful what you want when you get in to this lifestyle...........
CW
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