I don't know how porn got so slanted towards pulling out and coming anywhere besides inside her, but it sucks and ruins a lot of otherwise great videos. It defeats the purpose and is so anticlimactic that it will shut down an impending orgasm. I'll turn it off and start another search. But, that's just me. If the whole purpose is a blow job, then by all means, squirt in her mouth, but otherwise, no.
We practice (rather she forces) intercourse denial. Sometimes she'll decide she wants to feel my little denied dick inside her or maybe just give my little denied dick a taste of what it's missing. She'll let me fuck a little but then she'll make me pull out before I ejaculate. That's just as bad or worse than total denial. So to answer your question, fucking isn't fucking isn't sex isn't consummating, is still denial if you can't have a complete orgasm with your cock buried balls deep inside her. If I was a porn actor, they'd have to pay me triple over scale to pull out.