Just found my wife on tinder

[slappin8silly57]

Every one that has gone through this states that rules and boundaries need to be in place before the journey begins.
Hindsight is 20 20.
Easy to say that now.
I hope you can work it out together.
I can feel your pain in your post.

 

[keylife022]

What makes you think you have lost her?

 

[goodboysoul]

What makes you think you have lost her?

She’s made all kinds of threats about leaving and how she’s backed into a corner and all these unfairnl things that happen

 

[keylife022]

She’s made all kinds of threats about leaving and how she’s backed into a corner and all these unfairnl things that happen

Wave goodbye as she leaves her key. She’s already left. Just needs to move out.
Has nothing to do with this site or Tinder.

 

[Dudetoo]

Any screen shots of wife's Tinder pages? Blurred for privacy of course ✌🏻

 

[keylife022]

Any screen shots of wife's Tinder pages? Blurred for privacy of course ✌🏻

Don’t blur them. No need

 

[goodboysoul]

Wave goodbye as she leaves her key. She’s already left. Just needs to move out.
Has nothing to do with this site or Tinder.

I think this LS has a hold of her and she has no idea how to respect boundaries or our relationship. I think she would like a completely private dating life now but she agreed to follow rules and boundaries and went back on everything

 

[radnorjen01]

I think this LS has a hold of her and she has no idea how to respect boundaries or our relationship. I think she would like a completely private dating life now but she agreed to follow rules and boundaries and went back on everything

So sorry mate. Jen and I went through this years ago and it almost broke us. But we talked it through.

 

[goodboysoul]

So sorry mate. Jen and I went through this years ago and it almost broke us. But we talked it through.

We’re on our way to therapy now
The emotional/connection side is too intense and she’s been calling me controlling. It’s very scary

 

[keylife022]

I think this LS has a hold of her and she has no idea how to respect boundaries or our relationship. I think she would like a completely private dating life now but she agreed to follow rules and boundaries and went back on everything

This is a risk everyone takes getting into this lifestyle. If the relationship is strong before you start, it generally has a better outcome.
But if there were issues beforehand and one or both of you thought this might help your relationship, then it was doomed from the beginning. Don’t blame the lifestyle. Whatever issues are going on happened before she got on Tinder.
But at least now it’s out in the open.
Good luck.
Send her Tinder profile. I’m just curious

 

[goodboysoul]

This is a risk everyone takes getting into this lifestyle. If the relationship is strong before you start, it generally has a better outcome.
But if there were issues beforehand and one or both of you thought this might help your relationship, then it was doomed from the beginning. Don’t blame the lifestyle. Whatever issues are going on happened before she got on Tinder.
But at least now it’s out in the open.
Good luck.
Send her Tinder profile. I’m just curious

She deleted her profile because she is all in on the guy she is currently into. That’s how she operates though it’s always 1 guy at a time cuz she is so fixated on the current connection and she can’t handle the emotions of coming off that relationship, there are poly elements to it

We have a very solid foundation or at least we felt we did. We’ve been together almost 2 decades though it’s probably was a lot of trauma bonding so once we got through that we found out communication isn’t as good as we thought. We are on opposite ends of the spectrum of things like emotional connection and everything is hitting a really intense point and there is a lot on the line

 

[keylife022]

She deleted her profile because she is all in on the guy she is currently into. That’s how she operates though it’s always 1 guy at a time cuz she is so fixated on the current connection and she can’t handle the emotions of coming off that relationship, there are poly elements to it

We have a very solid foundation or at least we felt we did. We’ve been together almost 2 decades though it’s probably was a lot of trauma bonding so once we got through that we found out communication isn’t as good as we thought. We are on opposite ends of the spectrum of things like emotional connection and everything is hitting a really intense point and there is a lot on the line

Sounds like what you really need is better communication between the two of you. It’s not uncommon for couples to drift apart in certain areas over time.
What takes effort is realizing the positives in your relationship what keeps you together.
This will work itself out over time.

 

[goodboysoul]

Ok so here is the situation:
The last guy she hooked up w things were going fine. We had made our rules very clear and I was to be looped in on all communication no secrets we were clear on our boundaries. This guy said he was about the couple and didn’t want no issue

Shortly afterwards he was dm her and telling her to delete her DMs. Doing a bunch of cheating kink stuff. She had nothing to show me. I talked to her about it and she confessed. I also reached out to him and told him I was uncomfortable and he ignored me. He then continued to get agressive w her the next day and told her not to fuck it up. Over the next few days it got worse and I told him it didn’t feel good moving forward and wanted to talk about what he was doing He dropped her immediately and she had a meltdown

Over the next few weeks she begged for him back and ended up making secret accounts to talk to him on. One day when I was at work she snuck off and met him at a hotel, messing up our kids schedules and she confessed to it the next day. She said she knew she would hurt me but she had to be “her”.

I think she’s cheated since but I can’t prove it

 

[goodboysoul]

So we have talked a lot. This LS has become a huge part of her identity and she is addicted in a major way. Maybe I corrupted her but she would of probably blown up everything

I told her she can still hook up w him but we need strict boundaries in place to make it happen. I worry she will still break those as I don’t really trust her at this point

 

[TexasDaddy]

I found this wife on xhamster.com

 

[TexasDaddy]

I found this wife on xhamster.com

She was 22. I fucked her in front of her husband for a year.

 

[keylife022]

So we have talked a lot. This LS has become a huge part of her identity and she is addicted in a major way. Maybe I corrupted her but she would of probably blown up everything

I told her she can still hook up w him but we need strict boundaries in place to make it happen. I worry she will still break those as I don’t really trust her at this point

Stop worrying about her cheating. She is and will continue. Now all you can do is sit back and masturbate at the thought of how she’s spreading her let legs and giving up that pussy to a man who deserves it.
Hope this helps

 

[goodboysoul]

Stop worrying about her cheating. She is and will continue. Now all you can do is sit back and masturbate at the thought of how she’s spreading her let legs and giving up that pussy to a man who deserves it.
Hope this helps

She’s been withholding more sex from me which is so strange cuz she said she never wanted to ever humiliate or degrade me. This guy has awakened something in her. She is gonna see him in the next few days

 

[keylife022]

She’s been withholding more sex from me which is so strange cuz she said she never wanted to ever humiliate or degrade me. This guy has awakened something in her. She is gonna see him in the next few days

And you are warming up to the idea more and more.

 

[goodboysoul]

And you are warming up to the idea more and more.

Me and this guy aren’t getting along