Late 50s couple

Loridan

Couple
Gold
San Francisco area
We are late 50s. We have a little experience with this.
Must be clean. Wife is past the age of pregnancy concerns but still need to be careful.
It might take 2 or 3 meetings to see if we click.
Ideally we would do this at our home on a regular basis. Husband will always be present and possibly joining but definitely taking a turn.
A nice guy that carry on an intelligent conversation will probably work for us.
We are in shape, we don't smoke anything, no tats. We are very normal and conservative.
Looking for a reliable guy, this is very important as we like to line up a visit a day or two prior.
40yo and up but we'd consider younger. Black (would be a first for us) or white. Bigger than average tool size. Respectful, polite and just right aggressive. Clean shaven, masculine type men are what she's into. Not into massive tattoos or bodybuilding types.
We're looking to add to our bedroom fun. Chatting, talking about current events, kissing, lounging around naked and sex are what we're hoping for. Wife gets REALLY turned on with the right atmosphere and the right guy. Not much is off limits when it's going well.
An ideal night for us might be a 2 to 4 hour visit, possibly longer. You must be OK watching us have some fun during the night.
We keep this VERY private, you MUST be discreet also.