Let me start out by saying I love my wife. I wouldn't leave her. But I find myself losing interest in my wants/fantasies. My loss of interest I believe is because I feel like it's not a similar want for her. If I roleplay with her, it's me asking the questions/encouraging the fantasy. When I let her talk to other guys via tinder she enjoys it for a day, but eventually stops talking to them. She went on a date with one guy from tinder. She came home and appeared to have had fun. But recently she confessed the guy turned her off a bit because he was weird about her recording it. I appreciate her effort and I love that she attempts. However, her lack of want just seems to ruin my want for the lifestyle. I guess I'm posting this to see if anyone else can relate.