Making a Hotwife!
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Life has gotten very busy and fun times have pretty much stopped completely. My wife hasn’t played with anyone other than me since early November and has only met her regular fuck buddy twice since the end of September. I think he and I are both equally frustrated with the lack of action. Though, my wife and I generally find time to fuck about once a week.
I have tried to find the “on” button for my wife as I certainly miss her kinky side. She has been very busy with work and normal life. I suppose one good change is that she has lost over 25 lbs over the past few months and is definitely looking fantastic. Whenever the time comes where she wants more attention, there will be a long line of men interested in enjoying her company. She is in the best shape of the past five years.
I hope everyone is having a great new year.
I have tried to find the “on” button for my wife as I certainly miss her kinky side. She has been very busy with work and normal life. I suppose one good change is that she has lost over 25 lbs over the past few months and is definitely looking fantastic. Whenever the time comes where she wants more attention, there will be a long line of men interested in enjoying her company. She is in the best shape of the past five years.
I hope everyone is having a great new year.
You have two things going on my friend, I believe it would be a good time to check on age-appropriate hormone replacement therapy or HRT, is that is the number one indicator of an issue, that's very real in today's world. It can be easily rectified with slight hormone assistance... it's very real situation we've been through it.
Additionally, please do not let her appearance improvement, i.e. weight loss go unnoticed, she needs appropriate positive affirmation for that from you, regardless of any extra curricular activities. I wish you the best and please look upon this as constructive criticism and suggestion our best wishes. wishing you both great sex always.👍💕
Patience is probably the best choice. That is by no means the easy choice though because it doesn't really address any frustration you have. I'd guess that a "pause" or "stepping away" is preferable to continuing to play but behind your back or being excluded intentionally.
I would agree with you regarding the cumulative effect of her getting in better shape and how that affects her overall confidence and self image. You'd think one day she'd look at herself in the mirror and say, "Lookin' good girl!" That should remind her of her playing days and possible desires to go again. Then again, it may not be anything other than just a healthy focus.
It makes me think. If she's confident about herself being attractive, then maybe her choice to slow things to a crawl is more about the lifestyle and whether she really wants it. There's a chance that she may see it as a predictable dead end. She may even not like the way she sees herself and upset with herself that she became comfortable with it. Or, I could be way the fuck off, just thinking of the possibilities.
One thing is absolutely certain, she knows what you like and she knows she's not doing that so much. She knows your kink and what gets you going. She has to know that she's not doing that. It has to be something that she thinks about. Has she initiated any conversation on the topic? If it was me I'd wait until she did and not bring it up. She may be anticipating that.
I guess a big question is if she calls it good and wants to put in the past, would you be cool with that? In a lot of ways you've had more fun and experience than most already. If by chance there are still things that you yourself want to experience, is there any way you could tell her without it coming across as a complaint or dissatisfaction?
I can see how "landing the plane" (ie ending the lifestyle) can be tricky. In an ideal world you are both ready to quit at the same time. Otherwise, there has to be some tension from one wanting to quit and the other not.
I would agree with you regarding the cumulative effect of her getting in better shape and how that affects her overall confidence and self image. You'd think one day she'd look at herself in the mirror and say, "Lookin' good girl!" That should remind her of her playing days and possible desires to go again. Then again, it may not be anything other than just a healthy focus.
It makes me think. If she's confident about herself being attractive, then maybe her choice to slow things to a crawl is more about the lifestyle and whether she really wants it. There's a chance that she may see it as a predictable dead end. She may even not like the way she sees herself and upset with herself that she became comfortable with it. Or, I could be way the fuck off, just thinking of the possibilities.
One thing is absolutely certain, she knows what you like and she knows she's not doing that so much. She knows your kink and what gets you going. She has to know that she's not doing that. It has to be something that she thinks about. Has she initiated any conversation on the topic? If it was me I'd wait until she did and not bring it up. She may be anticipating that.
I guess a big question is if she calls it good and wants to put in the past, would you be cool with that? In a lot of ways you've had more fun and experience than most already. If by chance there are still things that you yourself want to experience, is there any way you could tell her without it coming across as a complaint or dissatisfaction?
I can see how "landing the plane" (ie ending the lifestyle) can be tricky. In an ideal world you are both ready to quit at the same time. Otherwise, there has to be some tension from one wanting to quit and the other not.