How many wives masturbate here? Are there wives here that never masturbate? Is it more likely that a wife will be more interested in becoming a hot wife if she does masturbate?
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My 50+ HotWife woke up horny AF
First thing she thought of was her “date” that night with me and a guy she just met
She had to pull out her favorite toy and make a video for me to watch later while she’s getting dressed for new cock
Notice she won’t let herself cum, she’s putting herself in a state of arousal to last all day!
Comments are greatly appreciated, she’ll read them too!
Enjoy!
First thing she thought of was her “date” that night with me and a guy she just met
She had to pull out her favorite toy and make a video for me to watch later while she’s getting dressed for new cock
Notice she won’t let herself cum, she’s putting herself in a state of arousal to last all day!
Comments are greatly appreciated, she’ll read them too!
Enjoy!
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ur FWB amy masturbing in hotel widow in martin tenn
speaking for myself
I masturbate pretty regularly. Especially after work/to wind down. but unlike guys... I am not doing it every time to "get off" or have an orgasm -- doing that is pretty rare. Usually it is just lowkey to feel good and relax and get to that kind of euphoric state where the chemicals release but not go all the way...
as for it being more likely i mean... you could argue it either way. If she masturbates a lot she might be satisfied enough to not bee interested or she might be really horny and really into the idea. If she doesn't masturbate she could have a lot of pent up horniness and be really into it... or she could have a low sex drive and not be into it. I don't think masturbation can really tell you if she will be more or less interested in becoming a hot wife.
Thanks for your reply!
My wife does not masturbate. She does play with her clit when we are having sex.
She told me that she just doesn't need sex as I apparently do. Hearing her say that was a disappointment to me on so many levels. I felt inadequate to inspire her. I felt like she could easily do without sex with me or anyone. She saw my reaction and realized the affect it had on me. She has tried to "walk back" that statement but we both know it's the truth. I give her credit for trying to do little things like grabbing my dick at random moments and making little comments. It's taken her a really long time to understand that her indifference has transferred to me and she doesn't like the result.
I can tell she feels caught between knowing I crave her sexually and feeling indifferent. I can't help but feel that she doesn't see herself as desirable. We've been together a long time and she's put on weight. She's hyper sensitized to the point that she NEVER wears dresses. She says she's embarrassed of having thick ankles.
In my observation she wants to avoid her sexuality altogether but knows my sexuality is intrinsically linked to hers. If she stays in HER comfort zone she KNOWS she crushes mine. The fact that she doesn't masturbate just shows her honest feeling about not needing sex other than to keep me happy. What she doesn't understand is her indifference shuts me down and I don't look to her for my satisfaction.
I feel bad for you, CK! You're in a tough, sometimes lonely situation. How deeply have the two of you explored or discussed how far apart you are from one another sexually?
One of my best friends in college (and she was my roommate for 3 years) was a lot like your wife it sounds like. She would say she thought she was asexual even. and her and her bf eventually broke up because she never wanted to do much sexually but then she would also like grab him in front of us and tease him... she liked the sexual attention she said but didn't want to follow through. But he was always horny and unfulfilled so it was durrramaaaaa. Maybe there was stuff she just wasn't telling us roommates but honestly... I just think some people have a low sex drive... idk. It couldn't be me 🤣 I've got the drive of 5 women my age lmao.
As for the masturbation... I think porn has confused a lot of men that women masturbate with massive dildos screaming and peeing all over 😅 I am a two fingers on the clit and maybe just past the first knuckle inside myself... it is RARE that I go beyond that. I've gotta be super horny and real sex has to not be an option usually 😂 SO I am saying that because maybe she just gets off on light touch/rubbing etc
BUT... I know for a fact that lack of self-confidence can ...... a woman's sex drive. SO that could be the thing...
Thanks, sincerely! We have discussed our differences and to her credit she has made an effort to be more engaged. She saw I was shutting down and I didn't have that joy of life, spring in my step any more.
One night we were going to have obligatory routine sex (which is how she made me feel) and I couldn't get hard for her. That night I was crushed. I LOVE SEX and she knew it. I cried that night. I think that hit her hard. As much as she says she's ambivalent about sex, she knew her attitude was hurting me. She wanted the old me back. The one that didn't give up and still lusted for her attention.
I don't think her self image has changed even though I've done everything I can think of to assure her that she's beautiful to me. She has been more aggressive sexually and we've had sex much more frequently. She also has been more open minded about teasing me with hot wife role playing talk in bed. She gets off like crazy when I use my tongue on/in her ass and she presses her Hitachi Magic Wand on it. I made her admit (it was undeniable) that she gets off more that way than PIV.
Things are definitely better and trending upwards. I just wish it hadn't taken so long and hadn't required a breakdown on my part to get there. I returned to being that guy that has hope for her to turn in to a lust crazed female. For now, I'm just glad things are better.
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Looking back, I realize there were some forces at work that I didn't anticipate the issues. I ran into a "perfect storm", a three headed monster, a very conservative Christian upbringing, post-partum depression, and menopause. They came in waves, one after the other. I wish I had been more aware but I got caught up in self pity and resentment. I know now, really well, that did not help either of us. I was frustrated and upset and unable to see my way out of the situation. By no means am I putting OUR problems all on her.
Things have changed and we're much better sexually than we've ever been. I wish we had tackled this problem earlier. I wish it hadn't been so tough on us both emotionally, but things are trending up and I remain hopeful that she will enjoy herself freely. This just comes to mind, when she doesn't feel like getting her Hitachi Magic Wand out and I'm doing her doggy style, I can hear her slapping her clit. That's almost masturbating! It's the little victories, right?
"I made her admit (it was undeniable) that she gets off more that way than PIV."
I hope by "made" you mean "I got her to", and not something argumentative.
It seems you're on the right track, and with hope in the air, keep on coaxing and supporting her progress. 👍
It most assuredly IS the little victories!!! Keep on tracking them if for no other reason than to catalog your incremental progress. If you've ever driven in snow, and gotten stuck, you know you have to rock the car back-n-forth to obtain momentum to get unstuck. That rocking starts really small, and then builds. Keep rockin' away, CK!!! That'll get you outta that perfect storm ditch!!!
