when my wife was in med school and learning to do prostate exams she wanted to practice on me. I demurred. never had it done at that age and didn't, from the sound of it, want to try. currently (30 years later) I see a urologist who has two young female physician assistants, and they both have done it to me more than once in recent years. one is blonde, the other brunette, so when I come home these days from an appointment my wife always teases me -- was it the blonde or the brunette. I now tell her that she can practice on me, but she says, nope, you had your chance. the blonde and brunette -- though they are always proper it seems -- have gained a sort of enthusiastic notoriety in certain circles. the husband of a hotwife girlfriend sees the same doctor and she has heard about them and teases me about them too.
That's very interesting. I knew that it was used before as a treatment for some things like urinary retention but the things I'd read made me think it was considered obsolete by the medical profession.
Next time you go in tell the doc you're concerned about his competence as your reading suggests that maybe he's a bit outdated, if he was really current with state of the art practice he'd have a redhead on staff as well.
Way before the internet someone wrote a letter to , I think either Gallery or Penthouse magazine saying something about his wife fucking other men and that keeping him from ever getting an erection by "milking", describing it as we understand the mechanics. In his account there was no mention of it being related to anything medical but rather, related that his wife would do it before the arrival of one of her male guests so that when he was watching them fuck he couldn't get hard.
I'm curious if that's actually possible... at the age I was when I read that I'm certain it wouldn't have worked on me as deplete all you want, 10 minutes later I'd have another 15 gallons in the chamber ready to go. I don't produce anywhere near that much now. Maybe I overworked the means of production in those years and damaged the mechanism, LOL.
Hmmm, I wonder if all that "control of the means of production stuff in the Communist Manifesto got in there because someone's wife was running things at home? They might have stood more of a chance or winning the Cold War if they had sent an army of hot Russian women out armed with latex gloves and lube instead of trying to outdo us on militarization. Probably been much cheaper, too. (yes, I'm warped. It's contagious... you'll never be able to discuss Communism without being distracted from now on, LOL I hope a History professor doesn't see that or I could get sued!)
Years later I had to be catheterized because I couldn't ******** when I woke up from a nap. When the dust settled on that the urologist gave me Uroxatral and told me that eventually I'd probably need surgery.
Naturally I started trying to learn as much as I could about prostate enlargement and then learned about that being a common medical procedure in years past when there weren't many options.
BTW, that doc was full of it, eventually I got different insurance and they didn't have Uroxatral on my formulary so another doc put me on daily Cialis. At some point I began to get careless and skipped one here and there with no ill effects so I took a chance and quit taking them altogether. I do have just a bit of trouble getting a flow started at times, usually after waking. But that's maybe once every moth or more and I haven't taken anything at all for that in maybe 5-6 years.
If it's not an intrusive question, what reason do they give for doing it at the doc's office? I know we tried a couple of different meds before settling on one, as some of that stuff made me so sick I could barely stand. Flowmax was the worst. The symptoms seemed very cardio related to me and I suspect it put me on the verge of a heart attack. Imitrex, a totally useless pain med makes me feel exactly the same.
I had had extensive cardio testing for unrelated reasons about that time, treadmills , nucclear dyes , and ultrasonic, the whole works that showed my heart was very healthy. Maybe all that working out I did in the 80s paid off after all. I was all in with the weights as well as the running, hard core gym rat.
sometimes I wonder if my heart hadn't been as healthy if that stuff would have killed me. Haven't worked out in years but my resting pulse is still about 60 BPM.