Missed opportunity?

We were at a New Year's day brunch at a friends house when my wife came up to me and another couple and smiled in an embarrassed manner. "Ron just asked me to meet him for lunch one day and when I declined, he asked if I would be interested in an affair!"

Ron is a widowed friend of ours and the rest of the neighbor hood. he's about ten years older than us but quite fit and I guess handsome

The wife of the other couple tsk tsk'ed and said he did that once before to another woman, but not her. My wife looked at me as she said she told him she wasn't interested and that I was one of his friends and she couldn't do that.

She told us he pressed the request, not too aggressively, saying I didn't have to know; his house was secluded and there was no way anyone would see them and he could arrange things to be safe.

She looked at the other couple and then me. She added with a shy smile that she hadn't been hit on in years. I am sure she enjoyed the attention even as she tried to deny it.

The other wife thought Ron was way out of line and he should be ashamed, but the other husband just kind if grinned at the story unfolded.

I just smiled at my wife and told he she shouldn't be surprised since she is quite attractive. I think she was more than a little surprised I didn't get angry or respond to this as in insult. I told her it was alright and not to be upset and she quietly sipped her drink. The conversation lagged momentarily until anther guy joined us and stared a different conversation.

I am not really surprised that Ron hit on her. She's a five foot five ash blonde hair cut short to frame her face with blue eyes, a cute nose and sweet looking plump lips. She about 125-130 pounds with a nice trim body; high tight ass and great legs showing from under her mid-thigh skirt. This particular day she had a light tan turtleneck cashmere sweater that absolutely clung to her perky 32-C tits. She does have great tits! How could I blame him!

My wife hasn't raised the discussion since then and neither have I. I am not surprised that she didn't but I can't help wondering if the conversation isn't bouncing around in her head.

It would have been extremely difficult to encourage her or pursue her feelings with the other couple there, but should I kind of hint about it and maybe re-open the discussion? Maybe with a question about her finding Ron attractive or how does she really feel about having someone proposition her which is what happened)?

Should I hint around how I think she might enjoy another guy or about my feelings about watching her fuck by another guy?
Is this a missed opportunity that I might rectify or is this just my imagination running wild?

A key point is that she didn't actually say 'no' to him or get insulted. It sounded like she just kind of made excuses and didn't necessarily deny him any future opportunities to re-open the discussion?

Damn I've got a hardon just writing about it and thinking about the possibilities!
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I think you should ask your wife if she has had any more thoughts about it. Maybe indicate that you are happy if she discusses it with him again. Ask if she found him attractive and if so, maybe suggest that you invite him around.
 
Sounds like she’s at least open to consider it so it’s still a viable opportunity. I’d personally be a bit torn about Ron’s propositioning her without discussing or at least ‘feeling you out’ to gauge your position first. Idk
As long as you’re cool with him, sounds like an easy next step. Keep us updated. 👍🏽
 
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I think you should ask your wife if she has had any more thoughts about it. Maybe indicate that you are happy if she discusses it with him again. Ask if she found him attractive and if so, maybe suggest that you invite him around.
Thanks. I'm trying to figure out how to broach the subject again without freaking her out. If she raises the issue again, I have to be a little careful about how I tell her or show her I approve. Maybe just be quiet so she can figure out I don't disapprove? I think she MAY find him attractive since whenever we are together (always in a group) she and he seem to be friendly and talk more than most of the other couples. I said before that he's widowed so he's always the single at theses get togethers. We always invite him to gatherings and I think shed be more comfortable talking to him in a group scenario..

As I'm writing this i had a thought: I'd be interested to see how she dresses the next time we're going to see him, Like I mentioned, that particular sweater she had on really showcased her tits without being 'improper' and she's got several that do that.
Keep in touch?
 
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Sounds like she’s at least open to consider it so it’s still a viable opportunity. I’d personally be a bit torn about Ron’s propositioning her without discussing or at least ‘feeling you out’ to gauge your position first. Idk
As long as you’re cool with him, sounds like an easy next step. Keep us updated. 👍🏽
Thanks for the response. I am cool with him both as a friend and with him fucking my wife,,,as long as I get to watch at some point . I wouldn't expect him (or her) to be feeling me out or asking my permission; at least not at this point. its solely her decision to fuck him or not and to cheat on me or not. I think the next step may be the toughest actually. The decision on the next step(s) are hers like whether to move ahead with this.

If she decides to go ahead, then the next steps should become easier? There's a lot to go through before they actually get hooked up. How do I encourage her without spoiling this? It would be too easy to scare her off if I don't handle this right given what she thinks she has to lose for an 'off the books' fuck'. Keep in touch?
 
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Begin to incorporate this scenario into your dirty pillow talk
Thanks, but that may be too risky at this point unless she raises the question. If she does then it's REAL progress and I can give her permission or even encouragement. IF she does do you think I should just give her a pass? encourage her? tell her I want to watch?
If I tell her I want to watch, is that possibly going to scare her off or label me pervert and scare her off?
 
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Thanks. I'm trying to figure out how to broach the subject again without freaking her out. If she raises the issue again, I have to be a little careful about how I tell her or show her I approve. Maybe just be quiet so she can figure out I don't disapprove? I think she MAY find him attractive since whenever we are together (always in a group) she and he seem to be friendly and talk more than most of the other couples. I said before that he's widowed so he's always the single at theses get togethers. We always invite him to gatherings and I think shed be more comfortable talking to him in a group scenario..

As I'm writing this i had a thought: I'd be interested to see how she dresses the next time we're going to see him, Like I mentioned, that particular sweater she had on really showcased her tits without being 'improper' and she's got several that do that.
Keep in touch?
Ask your wife to start wearing short skirts without panties... If you ever habe a chance to meet him again... Just ask her nonchalantly to wear a skirt without panties... Tell her ypu lile the idea of the taboo... Youbdon't necessarily need to tell her to fuck him yet... Just get her ise to the idea of being naughty "cause you like it" that way it seems like a innocent game.

Then you can tell her things like "I get turned on by the idea of someone acceidentally seeing your pussy" and go from there.
 
Ask your wife to start wearing short skirts without panties... If you ever habe a chance to meet him again... Just ask her nonchalantly to wear a skirt without panties... Tell her ypu lile the idea of the taboo... Youbdon't necessarily need to tell her to fuck him yet... Just get her ise to the idea of being naughty "cause you like it" that way it seems like a innocent game.

Then you can tell her things like "I get turned on by the idea of someone accidentally seeing your pussy" and go from there.
Thanks! She does have really nice legs. I think getting her to sort of show them off more might appeal to her when the weather get nicer. She's pretty much a slacks girl in the winter. Asking her to go without panties might be a stretch right now, but a definite probability when the hot weather gets here. I am pretty sure I can get her to wear some of her tighter clingy sweaters and blouses right now (she has quite a few of them ). She seems to like that style. I think her tight sweater is what finally got him the balls to proposition her. They can be sexy without being slutty. Its pretty easy to get her to wear the right things when I compliment her.
I think your idea of dressing for him is a good one and I'll start having people over more often for cards night and stuff. I can have the fireplace going so it'll be warm enough where she won't wear her usual winter sweatshirts. The key will be what she wears WITHOUT my prompting first to see if she wants to attract or discourage him now that she knows he is 'interested' in her.

This may be a longer process than I might like, but I am forsing myself to be patient and let her take the lead with gentle prompting from me. Keep in touch?
 
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To all that have responded. I am stupid for not getting a picture of her when this occurred but I just never suspected him to do this or her to react the way she did. I will try to get a picture the next time she shows off those great tits in a tight revealing sweater or blouse...sorry I missed it last time
 
Ask your wife to start wearing short skirts without panties... If you ever habe a chance to meet him again... Just ask her nonchalantly to wear a skirt without panties... Tell her ypu lile the idea of the taboo... Youbdon't necessarily need to tell her to fuck him yet... Just get her ise to the idea of being naughty "cause you like it" that way it seems like a innocent game.

Then you can tell her things like "I get turned on by the idea of someone acceidentally seeing your pussy" and go from there.
I TOTALLY missed your comment/suggestion about getting her 'used to the idea if being naughty!"!! I've got to find a way to work that angle too! Maybe complimenting on how her clothes do and should compliment her body! Make her feel attractive/sexy?
THANKS!!
 
I TOTALLY missed your comment/suggestion about getting her 'used to the idea if being naughty!"!! I've got to find a way to work that angle too! Maybe complimenting on how her clothes do and should compliment her body! Make her feel attractive/sexy?
THANKS!!
That's what I am doing with mine... And after years I finally told her I lile the idea of her being with other men...

At the moment we play with the idea in bed nothing concrete has happened yet though
 
Ask your wife to start wearing short skirts without panties... If you ever habe a chance to meet him again... Just ask her nonchalantly to wear a skirt without panties... Tell her ypu lile the idea of the taboo... Youbdon't necessarily need to tell her to fuck him yet... Just get her ise to the idea of being naughty "cause you like it" that way it seems like a innocent game.

Then you can tell her things like "I get turned on by the idea of someone acceidentally seeing your pussy" and go from there.
Exactly what wife and I do.
 
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I TOTALLY missed your comment/suggestion about getting her 'used to the idea if being naughty!"!! I've got to find a way to work that angle too! Maybe complimenting on how her clothes do and should compliment her body! Make her feel attractive/sexy?
THANKS!!
Also... Ask her to wear those sexy loose sweaters (without a bra if possible), but ask her randomly not just for him... Cause she'll notice... Ask her whenever possible... Tell her things like "I love how loose the sweater is" tell her you like how risky it can be... I have found it turns my wife on a lot and she does it without hesitation...

We've actually had a few lucky guys actually seen her pussy and ass when we go out... I had a bunch of guys see her blowing me in the car after a night out with her pussy widely visible...

Do it this way, that way when the widow comes over it isn't forced but natural.

I hope it works out for you man... I dream of the day I see my wife get used by someone else other than me.
 
Also... Ask her to wear those sexy loose sweaters (without a bra if possible), but ask her randomly not just for him... Cause she'll notice... Ask her whenever possible... Tell her things like "I love how loose the sweater is" tell her you like how risky it can be... I have found it turns my wife on a lot and she does it without hesitation...

We've actually had a few lucky guys actually seen her pussy and ass when we go out... I had a bunch of guys see her blowing me in the car after a night out with her pussy widely visible...

Do it this way, that way when the widow comes over it isn't forced but natural.

I hope it works out for you man... I dream of the day I see my wife get used by someone else other than me.
"Also... Ask her to wear those sexy loose sweaters (without a bra if possible),but ask her randomly not just for him... Cause she'll notice... GOOD POINT!
As I mentioned earlier, I'm anxious to see how she dresses for the next time we expect to see him.

Actually the sweaters are tight and clingy, outlining her tits nicely. I am almost positive that the sweater showing them off is what finally pushed him into hitting on her. I'll start checking out which bras she wears under what blouse or sweater and hinting around about what looks best on her. Some are basically little more than satin cups that show them as rounded and more natural while more supportive bras kind of...you know...push them up and out. She actually doesn't need or use the support bras very much. She says the softer bras are more comfortable. The natural bras (soft) are what she likes under sweaters while the 'push up' (even though they're not exactly push up; she really doesn't need them) are what she prefers under blouses that are more open at the neck (CLEAVAGE!! LOL).

She frequently asks how she looks when she gets dressed. That would be my opportunity to get her to wear the sexiest combinations. Thanks for your insights.
 
"Also... Ask her to wear those sexy loose sweaters (without a bra if possible),but ask her randomly not just for him... Cause she'll notice... GOOD POINT!
As I mentioned earlier, I'm anxious to see how she dresses for the next time we expect to see him.

Actually the sweaters are tight and clingy, outlining her tits nicely. I am almost positive that the sweater showing them off is what finally pushed him into hitting on her. I'll start checking out which bras she wears under what blouse or sweater and hinting around about what looks best on her. Some are basically little more than satin cups that show them as rounded and more natural while more supportive bras kind of...you know...push them up and out. She actually doesn't need or use the support bras very much. She says the softer bras are more comfortable. The natural bras (soft) are what she likes under sweaters while the 'push up' (even though they're not exactly push up; she really doesn't need them) are what she prefers under blouses that are more open at the neck (CLEAVAGE!! LOL).

She frequently asks how she looks when she gets dressed. That would be my opportunity to get her to wear the sexiest combinations. Thanks for your insights.
Excellent! Please keep us updated...😊
 
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I've been thinking about him and her (A LOT!) since this happened and especially since I posted this here. Now I'm wondering how long he's been thinking about her. Has he been going home and jerking off to his imagining about her? The thoughts of that have started fueling my own fantasies. Also, thinking back, we (the entire neighborhood) have heard rumors about his making inappropriate comments to and about other wives. They've been mostly dismissed as just his drinking (He gets a little ...... at almost every gathering.)

The thing I find interesting is that my wife almost never commented at these rumors, especially to me in private. This is uncharacteristic of her.

I think it's unlikely but it occurred to me now that maybe she was trolling for his attention? Was she feeling 'left out' because he was interested in other wives and not her? (even though she is, objectively the sexiest woman in our 'group' by consensus). This may be just wishful thinking on my part.

In conversations I've heard and overheard, I'm pretty sure he's struck out with the other wives due to their indignant reactions. My wife was definitely NOT indignant,,,she was more surprised and I think flattered. He may be raising his standards in 'I've tried the rest now try for the best' attitude.

I still haven't heard any reference to his proposition from my wife even though I'm trying to discreetly keep his name in random conversations. I am not sure what that might mean at this point, but I keep 'pitching."

Thanks for your attention and responses and especially your encouragement and understanding
 
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Thanks. I'm trying to figure out how to broach the subject again without freaking her out. If she raises the issue again, I have to be a little careful about how I tell her or show her I approve. Maybe just be quiet so she can figure out I don't disapprove? I think she MAY find him attractive since whenever we are together (always in a group) she and he seem to be friendly and talk more than most of the other couples. I said before that he's widowed so he's always the single at theses get togethers. We always invite him to gatherings and I think shed be more comfortable talking to him in a group scenario..

As I'm writing this i had a thought: I'd be interested to see how she dresses the next time we're going to see him, Like I mentioned, that particular sweater she had on really showcased her tits without being 'improper' and she's got several that do that.
Keep in touch?
just casually asking her if she has heard from him. it sounds like she didn;t, definitively, turn him down. by saying she was married could mean, if i wasn't married, i'd be interested. it's more of a reason than a rejection.
 
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