Missed opportunity?

Thanks..I took your advice and asked her in the context of hearing from some other neighbors as well as my mentioning him by name. She said 'no' she hasn't talked to anyone but she looked at me with an odd expression when I mentioned his name. I was surprised at her original reaction to him or even that she told me and the other couple. I would have expected her to just walk away from him or be upset...but she she wasn't. She was plainly flattered and said so.
Anyway she came back from shopping yesterday and brought some new slacks and light turtle neck blouses she showed me. She also bought a new sweater with a very open knit, the kind where a woman would wear a camisole or something underneath it otherwise her nipples might show.
I caught a glimpse of a new bras of different shades in the bag as well; the soft sheer satiny kind she likes that make her tits look soft and natural, almost like she has no bra at all.
I looked at the new clothes and said I thought Ron would like her new outfits. She looked at me and said she just needed new sweaters. I laughed and said she should wear the open knit sweater with just a flesh colored bra she had just bought or maybe with just a sheer blouse with no bra..
She said she didn't think the neighbors would approve. I said I know one neighbor who would.
She picked up her purchases and walked into the bedroom with no comment.
I've been waiting to see if she'd buy something 'special' for our next get together. I can't wait to see what she wears.

Thanks for the response and keep in touch?
 
I think you should ask your wife if she has had any more thoughts about it. Maybe indicate that you are happy if she discusses it with him again. Ask if she found him attractive and if so, maybe suggest that you invite him around.
I've been dropping hints about him and keeping his name discreetly in conversations. I'm meeting him and another friend for breakfast in a week or so. I'm waiting to see if she comes up in conversation. If he/they don't Ill try to hint around about what a good time we (she) had at the brunch and see how he reacts. I'm trying to figure out how to let him know that I know and I'm ok or even encouraging it.