More reserved with hubby

2wheel

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I was cleaning her car for her and in the trunk, in a plastic bag buried in the bottom of a box of stuff she has, was a tube of lube. I had given her permission to fuck/suck anyone she wanted with the caveat that if I ask she tell me what I want to know. So I asked her, denial. This was about 6 years ago. I asked many times and told her she wasn't being honest.

Then about 2 years ago she she said she did. I kinda of remember the time frame. She was going to her chiropractor 2-3 times a week. Then she says he wants to see her everyday as her back is in bad shape. At the time I didn't think anything of it. So during the 'confession' she asks me if I remember that time period, I say yes. Then she said she started to play with another patient. How often? She said not often enough but several times a week. A few times, several times in one day. I had no idea! How clueless I was. I asked her why she stopped, she said cause I found out. She said if I didn't say anything she would have continued. She added that they were getting ready to include his friends to their playtime. Holy shit! I asked why she wouldn't consider the 'friends' thing with us, she said I live with you. I never understood that answer.
 
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I was cleaning her car for her and in the trunk, in a plastic bag buried in the bottom of a box of stuff she has, was a tube of lube. I had given her permission to fuck/suck anyone she wanted with the caveat that if I ask she tell me what I want to know. So I asked her, denial. This was about 6 years ago. I asked many times and told her she wasn't being honest.

Then about 2 years ago she she said she did. I kinda of remember the time frame. She was going to her chiropractor 2-3 times a week. Then she says he wants to see her everyday as her back is in bad shape. At the time I didn't think anything of it. So during the 'confession' she asks me if I remember that time period, I say yes. Then she said she started to play with another patient. How often? She said not often enough but several times a week. A few times, several times in one day. I had no idea! How clueless I was. I asked her why she stopped, she said cause I found out. She said if I didn't say anything she would have continued. She added that they were getting ready to include his friends to their playtime. Holy shit! I asked why she wouldn't consider the 'friends' thing with us, she said I live with you. I never understood that answer.
It is hard to explain but I actually understand her thinking. Hubby doesn't know a lot about what I do without him and he certainly doesn't get the same level of sex. Many of my other partners like to include their friends, it is actually kind of the norm with a few of them. I don't really have the desire to be in a group with my husband there, it is just different.
 

2wheel

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Got what you say, BUT what makes it different?

Sounds like the strangers gets the Filet Mignon and the hubby gets the Chuck Steak.
 
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jessAmess

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Got what you say, BUT what makes it different?

Sounds like the strangers gets the Filet Mignon and the hubbie gete the Chuck Steak.
It is more exciting to let loose in a situation where you feel like you shouldn't. So when I am with a different guy and he wants to bend me over and fuck me in the ass before cumming on my face I get extremely turned on and let him go for it. The naughtiness ads a higher level of excitement.

I definitely keep my husband satisfied! I please him in so many ways. He loves thinking about me being a whore and I use that to get him off. He just doesn't use me like whore
 

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I find that I am much more reserved with my husband when we have sex than I am with other men. Hubby is respectful to me and wants to have more loving sex. My other partners want to use me for their sexual pleasure and want to push the limits and have porn sex. I love it both ways

My wife and I are the same way. As Caren describes it, she and I make love. Other men fuck her.
 

2wheel

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"As Caren describes it, she and I make love. Other men fuck her."

The act is the same but how it's viewed is different. Got it.

However, the subject I was referring to is that the acts are different whether it's a stranger or hubby.
 

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I guess I'm just as sexual with everyone ,,I don't think I could be reserved if I tried nor hubby,its all wonderful and a great adventure,must be working for us ,we have been married over 32 years .Lynn
 

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I guess I'm just as sexual with everyone ,,I don't think I could be reserved if I tried nor hubby,its all wonderful and a great adventure,must be working for us ,we have been married over 32 years .Lynn
We still have a great sex life and never leave him wanting. I like playing the good normal wife as well as the slut. 32 years is definite an accomplishment! To still be going strong is so great :)
 

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I haven't been able to get her to be shared, at least not yet, and at east not with me as far as I know. Lest the thing I wrote about which she now denies ever happened.

Funny thing is she's no stranger to sex. She told me in a moment of weakness that before we met she'd had sex with more than 300 guys probably closer to 500.
 
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I haven't been able to get her to be shared, at least not yet, and at east not with me as far as I know. Lest the thing I wrote about which she now denies ever happened.

Funny thing is she's no stranger to sex. She told me in a moment of weakness that before we met she'd had sex with more than 300 guys probably closer to 500.
She definitely loved sex, no doubt about it. It would be hard to be that open to sex with other men and just turn it off. I kind of think that she has had many times where she enjoyed other men. There is also a very good chance a lot of group sex occurred.
 

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Yeah, did she ever. When we first go together it was 2-3 times a day as well as her masturbation. She is multi and never failed to be satisfied, over and over. For her 39 birthday in one session she & I gave her 39 orgasms.

We did go to a Masturbation Club (which has morphed into a Sex Club) a few times, at 1st she enjoyed it then said she didn't. On our 1st attendance, she was being fingered with minutes of the start of the party. A little while later as I was licking her pussy she jerk off a guy on her tits, from my vantage point it looked like this wasn't the 1st time she had more than 1 guy. But she doesn't consider anything but intercourse sex.
 
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Yeah, did she ever. When we first go together it was 2-3 times a day as well as her masturbation. She is multi and never failed to be satisfied, over and over. For her 39 birthday in one session she & I gave her 39 orgasms.

We did go to a Masturbation Club (which has morphed into a Sex Club) a few times, at 1st she enjoyed it then said she didn't. On our 1st attendance, she was being fingered with minutes of the start of the party. A little while later as I was licking her pussy she jerk off a guy on her tits, from my vantage point it looked like this wasn't the 1st time she had more than 1 guy. But she doesn't consider anything but intercourse sex.
I always find the more I have sex with other men the more I want to have sex at home. The times I am fucking my husband daily or more are generally the times I am fucking other men on the side. For me it kind of puts me in overdrive and I just need to keep fucking when I get home. Sounds like she is forcing herself to be a different person around you now but may have done these things in the beginning