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[UK Cuckold Couple]

Hi, my name is Sarah - the profile picture is me. I've joined this site with my husband - Steve. We're new to this and I'm wondering why people join the site and look for sexual adventures when they are in a happy, loving relationship? For us, we are in our early 30's and been together for 11 years. We have a lot of sexy fun and naughtiness together, and we often watch porn together. I was the first one to mention perhaps involving other people in our sex life, but Steve always had a preference for cuckold porn, wife sharing, group sex and gang bangs - so maybe he planted the seed? Anyway, we have spoken about it for about a year - what we wanted, didn't want, fantasies, scenarios, etc. It turns out that I'm the one who wants to be 'involved', whereas Steve wants to watch - he gets very turned on by the thought of this - I often talk to him when we are having sex and playing. I love the idea of putting on a show and being really slutty. We have decided to take the next step. We like the idea of chatting and exploring fantasies with other people, swapping pictures etc., but really want to start experiencing all the things we have fantasied about - me being submissive with strangers, being used in front of Steve (and other people), and involving more men. I was wondering if other people have done these things and what it was like? Sarah x

 

[bunnyandtim]

Sounds like Steve is very lucky in how eager you are to get into the lifestyle. Some of us, while having some success, have had to toil relentlessly to make the slow (and relatively minor) progress we have managed to make.
I imagine you two will find your feet quickly and pack in a great amount of fun and adventure in no time.
Wish I could tell you a bit about my practical experiences but we're only just starting out too. We're having our first guy over in a couple of weeks, hopefully I'll have some cock tales to share with everyone after that.

 

[Nathaniel]

Hey sarah, well, for us, it took a while, although it was not too difficult for my wife once she got started because before being married to me she was around so many other guys. We met in college, and she looked like the sweetest innocent girl, and me, being a shy and quiet guy, i found a friend. We started dating, and then we were engaged, and that's when i found out she was talking to other guys. I was heartbroken, but it always kind of gave me that thrill to see if she would send them nudes, or sexting, etc. Before our wedding, she would hang out with her ex, which i felt jealous of, but i didnt think much of it, even when her parents fouund it odd. Once married, and after we talked about everything i knew, i asked her if she would be ok with going out with other guys, possibly more, and she was reluctant, because she wanted to start clean with me. And for a couple of years i insisted, until she told me she would like to go to a swingers' party. After that, like they say, the rest is history!!

 

[Bdriver]

Hi Sarah x. Every couple starts a little different. The desires you and your husband share are not as uncommon as you may think.

My wife and I started in college. She and I were living together. I had a friend (Lou) that was a very attractive, well built guy. He and I played intramural sports together and showered together with the rest of the team. I knew what his naked body looked like and it was obvious, to me, that he was way more well endowed than me.

He would spend a lot of time at our apartment (flat) just hanging out with us. She and I were engaged, but I saw the attraction and sexual tension the two of them shared. It confused me, because I should have been jealous. Instead I found myself aroused by the thought of the two of them having sex.

One weekend night, while drinking, eating, watching sports, we started playing a game called truth or dare. I dared my wife (fiancée at the time) to give Lou a blow job. All three of us laughed about my dare, but in her tipsy state, she accepted. I knew she wanted him, I knew he wanted her and I was incredibly aroused by the thought of it.

She got on her knees in front of him and opened his jeans. The look on her face when she saw his huge cock was priceless. She immediately took his cock into her mouth. Although she was tipsy, I knew her excitement was real.

She sucked his dick with a passion I had never seen from her. I know, that should have made me jealous, but, like her, I was experiencing the most intense arousal of my life.

As she sucked Lou's dick, she was slowly peeling her clothes off. I knew what that meant. She wanted to give him all of her and I wanted her to, as well.

The next thing I knew, Lou was fucking my fiancée in our own bed. I was right with them, watching close up. She sucked my dick in a little threesome action, but her focus was on Lou. I knew he was stretching her pussy and touching parts of it I couldn't reach.

It's hard to explain. I should have been jealous. Instead, I was aroused more than I had ever been and I wanted this for her.

When it was over, Lou left and she and I curled up in bed together and went to sleep. The next morning the guilt did set in. She couldn't believe what she had done and I was pretty amazed myself.

I assured her that I was fine. Nevertheless, the guilt lasted a few days for her.

It was a huge transition for us that I wasn't sure our relationship would survive. But, we did.

She and I talked a lot. Lou came back over and they had sex again and again and again. I knew she loved me at a level above Lou. But, Lou was giving her a sexual experience I could not.

Lou became a fixture in our life. It probably helped that he was a woman's man and had no desire to get married. For the next year and a half, my fiancée was devoted to me, even though she was having the majority of her sex with Lou. I couldn't blame her. Lou could make her body do things she didn't realize it could do.

We parted ways at graduation. It was tearful, but Lou's future took him away from us, as it should. Nevertheless, it set the course of our marriage.

 

[altaddy]

Hi, my name is Sarah - the profile picture is me. I've joined this site with my husband - Steve. We're new to this and I'm wondering why people join the site and look for sexual adventures when they are in a happy, loving relationship? For us, we are in our early 30's and been together for 11 years. We have a lot of sexy fun and naughtiness together, and we often watch porn together. I was the first one to mention perhaps involving other people in our sex life, but Steve always had a preference for cuckold porn, wife sharing, group sex and gang bangs - so maybe he planted the seed? Anyway, we have spoken about it for about a year - what we wanted, didn't want, fantasies, scenarios, etc. It turns out that I'm the one who wants to be 'involved', whereas Steve wants to watch - he gets very turned on by the thought of this - I often talk to him when we are having sex and playing. I love the idea of putting on a show and being really slutty. We have decided to take the next step. We like the idea of chatting and exploring fantasies with other people, swapping pictures etc., but really want to start experiencing all the things we have fantasied about - me being submissive with strangers, being used in front of Steve (and other people), and involving more men. I was wondering if other people have done these things and what it was like? Sarah x

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