My first ‘date’ is this weekend!!

[athletic_intel]

I think how much you show that you care and feel that natural guilt is a sign that you could make this work.

It’s great that you’ve still got all that joint support . Keep up the communication and enjoying it. You deserve that amazing sex and your husband is happy for you x

 

[isthisforme]

I think how much you show that you care and feel that natural guilt is a sign that you could make this work.

It’s great that you’ve still got all that joint support . Keep up the communication and enjoying it. You deserve that amazing sex and your husband is happy for you x

Thank you. Hearing this from strangers is very encouraging and supportive. I really need this!

 

[athletic_intel]

Thank you. Hearing this from strangers is very encouraging and supportive. I really need this!

I’ve had sex with wives and the sex is often better than with their husbands.

I don’t usually like one offs and it’s usually a more exclusive bf type arrangement. I find the sex better like that and it’s kinda hot that I’m giving a naughty wife her best sex. But it’s great that their husbands support them and love them for it.

I’m just there for that extra bit of fun and excitement. Both physical and mental.

It can give you an escape that as a sexy wife you deserve. Must be a lot to take in though. Happy to chat if you ever want x

 

[isthisforme]

I’ve had sex with wives and the sex is often better than with their husbands.

I don’t usually like one offs and it’s usually a more exclusive bf type arrangement. I find the sex better like that and it’s kinda hot that I’m giving a naughty wife her best sex. But it’s great that their husbands support them and love them for it.

I’m just there for that extra bit of fun and excitement. Both physical and mental.

It can give you an escape that as a sexy wife you deserve. Must be a lot to take in though. Happy to chat if you ever want x

Totally agree. The connection is a must for me so this situation for me is absolutely perfect given how he and I are so empathetic of each others situations and share so many of the same things

 

[Vincenzo]

Several years ago my husband suffered a serious spinal cord injury that left him paralyzed from the neck down. Our whole world was flipped upside down in an instant. My love for him never wavered and I will never abandon him.

3 years after his injury and about a year ago from now he brought up the idea of me being with other men given that he is no longer capable. At first, and for the longest time, I was angry and upset that he would ever suggest that. But over time and many many conversations later I saw that he was genuine and that this was coming from a place of love.

As part of his injury we had begun attending group therapy with other families dealing with spinal cord injuries and we met an amazing older couple. They were in a very similar situation as us only it was the wife who sustained the injury. We befriended them, they are older and the husband specifically is 18 years older than me.

The more we got to know them we came to find out they were having similar conversations about him potentially being with another woman. He is an incredibly good looking man and incredibly kind and intelligent.

Fast forward to now, after weeks of the four us talking and then he and I chatting more privately we planned a ‘date’ for this weekend. To say I am excited would be an understatement, but to say I am nervous and anxious would be an understatement as well.

Our situation is similar yet different. Would be happy to chat with you. Explaining our situation and how we went about dealing with everything

 

[keylife022]

UPDATE:
So…the date yesterday was amazing, on every level imaginable. Our connection is genuine, the chemistry was something I wasn’t expecting but it felt so natural, the sex was, by far, the most amazing experience of my life. I’ve never felt more seen and heard, in every way imaginable than I did with him.

But there are mixed emotions. Even though my husband wanted this and was excited to hear about it I still feel guilt. And maybe it’s because I feel an emotional connection to this older man, and I know it’s partially because I’ve never gotten off so easily or so often in my life.

My head is all over the place right now though. He and I chatted all night after the date and time we spent together and he is feeling some very similar emotions, which I think in a way gives me a bit of peace.

Is this normal to be having these emotions? My husband, and his wife both seem genuinely excited and happy for us and that is easily the most important part of all of this

I really, really like this older man. I can’t stop thinking about him or the time we spent together for a good portion of the day and evening yesterday.

Your head will settle down the longer this goes on and the more you realize you need and desire this as part of your life.
The guilt will subside when you feel more comfortable about how good your husband is with this. Remember, you are not cheating on your husband. He is aware and supportive. So accept his encouragement and keep going.