My husband first cuckold

[Ht805cpl]

We are long time swingers playing in many different forms over the years, with a more or less open lifestyle, along with both having had some private affairs,
A few years he caught me leaving the casino hotel area with a lover, confronted us and I told him we’d met a couple times, he demanded to be a part so we returned to my friends room and had a great threesome. All the way home he questioned me but I was reluctant to tell all. He was touching me all the way home I knew he was excited to know the details, once home he grabbed me ripping off my clothing and taking me very roughly knowing I loved that kind of play and we had some really hot sex, all the while he kept asking me questions about my affair, little by little I was giving him pieces of our affair, by the time we were finished making love, laying in each others arms he asked for all the details, and I told him everything, how I met him a few years ago, it started out just friendly joking nd touching, then one afternoon he invited me to his room for a drink, I went and we had sex, and it started, every time I’d be at casino he’d see me and we’d go to his room to spend the afternoon making love to each other, soon once a week to casino turned into two to three times a week, always to play together, a few times he shared me with some friends, but I got the feeling he enjoyed me one on one. So now he knew,. Well a month ago while at the same casino I ran into him, of course he wanted to talk about old times, I told him I’m with my husband, he said well last time we were together he wanted to join us, so I text my husband told him to meet me by hotel lobby, and we all went to have a threesome. It was wild, later he bought us dinner n drinks, and my husband seems to relax somewhat, and before leaving invited my former lover to come to our home sometime so we can all get better acquainted, a couple weeks later he called me asked if ok to come by Friday, I said sure mid day, but didn’t tell my husband, thought it would be a surprise. So my friend Ray showed up, my man away and before l8ng we were making love, what a surprise my husband came home and found us in bed making love, he didn’t get mad just got naked and joined us. Ray spent the night and the three of us had a wonderful night and next day. They seemed to adapt well to each other! So much so my man told him he was welcome to stop by any time just understand we are a couple and play as a couple. After his second or third visit, which was wonderful, I mentioned to my husband, about how he’d feel just watching, and not participating, he laughed and said what you want to make me a cuckold? I smiled and said I hadn’t thought of it like that, I just mentioned, you always enjoy sharing me and watching me at clubs with several men always going last, well I was thinking how about when Ray is here you just sit and watch us make love he said I don’t think so, but we kept talking about it, he seemed more and more interested or asking questions, but was reluctant, but I could tell he was thinking about it and every time I mentioned it he got really hard and we made wild love together, well it happened, this past weekend Ray stopped by on Friday again, early, and Joe wasn’t home, I told Ray how I been talking to my man about being a cuck and watching only, Ray looked at me like are you crazy, he ain’t going to go for that, and I don’t want to ruin our open relationship together, I kissed him and said we been talking and I think he is game, before long he was undressing me, and I led him to our bedroom, and locked the door. My man came home start knock on door but I called out wait we’ll be out soon. He knew Ray was here as his car in driveway. He kept knocking door say open the door, but we just kept love, once finished Ray went to take a shower, and I went to see my husband, he tried to hold me wanting me naked and just fucked, but I told him no, remember what we been talking about, he looked at me, and said yes but not now, I said yes now, Ray is spending the weekend, and if you behave you will be allowed to watch, but no sex with me or us, when asked I may allow you to do some clean up but you will not have sex with me until he leaves. Do you understand, I could tell he was excited his dick was rock hard, and nodded, so I told him ok go fix some drinks for us and some light snacks, while I shower, I joined my lover in the shower, and kissed him and told him what was going to happen, he smiled and held me, we made love in the shower then finished and dried off, both naked we walked out arm in arm, when I seen my husband I turned to Ray and kissed him and said oh baby I’m so happy you are here, then turned to my husband and asked have your got our drinks and prepared some snacks, our afternoon sex has made me thirsty, he smiled and said yes of course, I sat next to Ray on the couch while my man served us, we kissed holding each other, I looked at my husband and said are you happy to see our good friend here, he didn’t say much just hello, I was teasing him and we kissed eep,y while I stroked his big dick my legs slightly open and his hand on my thigh, my husband served us some light snacks, and asked anything else I can do for you two, I smiled and said no honey, blew him a kiss and told him sit down over there and join us. He sat as we all had some light conversation as I laid down the rules for him, although he looked a bit u easy he just nodded his head in a positive way, finally I told him baby if you do as told I promise you before the nights over you will have a taste of both of us and leaned over and kisse my liver. He took me in his arms and we kissed deeply, I moaned and said oh Ray I love the way you kiss me, before long we were mak8ng oh touching each other licking each other, while he watched, I glanced at him, he was hard, I smiled and told him go ahead it’s ok to touch yourself, and he started jacking off, before long we were making love, I sucked Ray while he watched, Ray ate my pussy then turned me in a way I was open view to my husband and put his dick in me, I moaned and before long I was begging him for more saying oh how I love your big dick, looking at my husband I said enjoy the show honey, it’s going to be a long night. My husbands first evening as a cuckold turned into a weekend, with twice being allowed to clean us both up, but nothing more, he was a good boy, making and serving us breakfast in bed, his reward while we ate was to eat my cum filled pussy. What a weekend, Sunday before Ray left he did fuck my man in the mouth and finished in his ass, before kissing me good bye at the front door. Once gone, my man was a wild man we had some of the wildest sex we’ve had since we were first married, I think he enjoyed his first cuckold session! I wonder how far I should take this little game of mine? Any comments? Interested in all comments or guidance!

 

[slavesimon]

Continue for a while and then drive up the temperature. Make him put Ray's duck inside you and other things. See, where it takes you three...

 

[coastalkid]

I'm thinking about your question, "I wonder how far I should take this little game of mine?"

I've followed your posts for a long time. My initial interest in you and your husband was because of the "805" and me being in the same zone.

I learned that you two have had a LOT of experience(s). You and your husband have had many opportunities to explore your kinks and desires. You and your husband embrace his bisexuality and your shared interest in BBC. I think that has broadened your thinking. Things that would be a major hurdle for other couples are not as inconceivable to you and your husband. Obviously you two have found a way to keep your marriage together and thrive and build a foundation of security and trust in each other. This is evidenced by the fact that you've both had affairs and managed to overcome them and learn from them.

I can see how this "new" direction of cuckolding would be fun and exciting for you both. I can also understand why your husband would be receptive. For you and your husband this is a refreshing change. It brings out new unexplored emotions and behaviors. This is just my opinion, but I believe that ANYTHING you do repeatedly over a length of time loses its edge. Once something becomes predictable and anticipated it has become a routine. Routines don't provide a lot of opportunity for excitement.

Given that you and your husband have had a lot of experience I would think that the question of how far you can take your game is only limited by what you think would be his breaking point. In your specific case your husband has already shown he's way past most men's boundaries. You have a partner that isn't reluctant. If your specific goal is to see your husband show signs of angst or reluctance it will take some kind of escalation to bump him out of his comfort zone.

You must have some vision or notion as to where YOU see this going and what motivates you to explore this. You also must have some sort of idea as to how this will excite your husband and give him a thrill or experience that he will appreciate. I believe that from all the posts I've read from you and your husband that you are as excited about your husband's sexuality and experiences as you are of your own. If it was one-sided, and you got and had anything you want but your husband didn't, it wouldn't be as fun for you.

Personally, I'm jealous of the two of you. You've obviously done something right to still be together. You and your husband have gotten to experiment and explore far further than most and kept your marriage alive. You've both gotten to do and experience things VERY few get to because you preserved the primary relationship. You can't achieve that with selfishness no matter how deeply your kinks run. Yes, I'm jealous. You two are uniquely paired and apparently a perfect match.

How far do you think you can take it? How will you know when it has gone too far? Is there something you haven't experienced that is driving your interest?

 

[firestarter]

if you you use space when writing it'll be much easy to read.

 

[Ht805cpl]

I'm thinking about your question, "I wonder how far I should take this little game of mine?"

I've followed your posts for a long time. My initial interest in you and your husband was because of the "805" and me being in the same zone.

I learned that you two have had a LOT of experience(s). You and your husband have had many opportunities to explore your kinks and desires. You and your husband embrace his bisexuality and your shared interest in BBC. I think that has broadened your thinking. Things that would be a major hurdle for other couples are not as inconceivable to you and your husband. Obviously you two have found a way to keep your marriage together and thrive and build a foundation of security and trust in each other. This is evidenced by the fact that you've both had affairs and managed to overcome them and learn from them.

I can see how this "new" direction of cuckolding would be fun and exciting for you both. I can also understand why your husband would be receptive. For you and your husband this is a refreshing change. It brings out new unexplored emotions and behaviors. This is just my opinion, but I believe that ANYTHING you do repeatedly over a length of time loses its edge. Once something becomes predictable and anticipated it has become a routine. Routines don't provide a lot of opportunity for excitement.

Given that you and your husband have had a lot of experience I would think that the question of how far you can take your game is only limited by what you think would be his breaking point. In your specific case your husband has already shown he's way past most men's boundaries. You have a partner that isn't reluctant. If your specific goal is to see your husband show signs of angst or reluctance it will take some kind of escalation to bump him out of his comfort zone.

You must have some vision or notion as to where YOU see this going and what motivates you to explore this. You also must have some sort of idea as to how this will excite your husband and give him a thrill or experience that he will appreciate. I believe that from all the posts I've read from you and your husband that you are as excited about your husband's sexuality and experiences as you are of your own. If it was one-sided, and you got and had anything you want but your husband didn't, it wouldn't be as fun for you.

Personally, I'm jealous of the two of you. You've obviously done something right to still be together. You and your husband have gotten to experiment and explore far further than most and kept your marriage alive. You've both gotten to do and experience things VERY few get to because you preserved the primary relationship. You can't achieve that with selfishness no matter how deeply your kinks run. Yes, I'm jealous. You two are uniquely paired and apparently a perfect match.

How far do you think you can take it? How will you know when it has gone too far? Is there something you haven't experienced that is driving your interest?

Thank you, you are always so well spoken on these concepts. At times I almost want to have you join in our life style, but for now I thank you for your kind thoughtful words. Yes or I we have since continued to push this limit, and I think we are both enjoying it. Our sex after my lover leaves is amazing, often he is not included but on occasion we allow him to watch or do some licking up after. My lover is so considerate as well and will at times make him or allow him to suck him prior knowing my husband loves to suck cock and at some point he will make him submit to some anal desires which drives him crazy with delight. I have to say our sex after my lover leaves is so intense, like we have ventured into a new journey. How far or how long this will go is yet to be seen but it is a new experience for us both and we are enjoying it!

 

[Ht805cpl]

if you you use space when writing it'll be much easy to read.

Thank you, I will make note, I am not a great writer or have a lot of knowledge of computer skills. But I will try to add some space and perhaps speak less in future. After all action speaks louder than words. ❤️

 

[coastalkid]

Thank you, you are always so well spoken on these concepts. At times I almost want to have you join in our life style, but for now I thank you for your kind thoughtful words. Yes or I we have since continued to push this limit, and I think we are both enjoying it. Our sex after my lover leaves is amazing, often he is not included but on occasion we allow him to watch or do some licking up after. My lover is so considerate as well and will at times make him or allow him to suck him prior knowing my husband loves to suck cock and at some point he will make him submit to some anal desires which drives him crazy with delight. I have to say our sex after my lover leaves is so intense, like we have ventured into a new journey. How far or how long this will go is yet to be seen but it is a new experience for us both and we are enjoying it!

First off, don't worry about how you write. To me it's far more important to have the perspective of a wife with experience in a long term marriage than to worry about formatting or mistakes in typing.

I'm genuinely honored that you would even consider including me in your fun despite distance and circumstance. It gives me great mental images for masturbation just to think about it ever occurring! Thanks!

What I love the most is that you and your husband have a relationship that sounds like it is more about fun than it is about "head games". I get the feeling that you may say and do things together when you have your fun, that don't go beyond the bedroom, whether that is just you two or with others.

It sounds and feels like you two have created a safe place to be honest about the things that interest you without drama or disrespect. In an environment like that the fun sounds limitless. I would believe that an important expectation of any sexual experience would be that both people are excited about doing it again. Like, ready to go, why are we waiting. You also sound like you get a thrill from seeing your husband getting his. You don't make it sound like it's a pity thing or a sort of an obligation. I would guess you not only enjoy seeing him having fun, you understand how important that is to make things happen in a way everybody wants more.

Your posting skills (ie formatting and mistakes) may throw off other members here. I think I see someone that is that smart wife I always say it takes to make this lifestyle sustainable. A dumb wife would fuck this up sooner or later. That doesn't sound like you to me.