I don't know if this is the right forum for this, but I have been seeing my brother's wife for about a year. She is about 12 years older than me, but very sexy and attractive. I have wanted her since she climbed in bed with me when I was home sick from school. I was 13 and she was 25. Nothing happened. but I felt a chemistry. Fast forward to now, I am 63, she is 75. We still have not had sex, but several episodes of heavy petting and kissing. We are supposed to get a hotel room this Friday. How bad are we?