My Wife Cheated on Me Over a Decade Ago with a Guy I Couldn’t Stand

Many years ago, my wife and I used to fight often. It was sort of just assumed we would argue and bicker, and when we fought bad enough, I would go stay at my parents house to cool off. Then, we would work it out and make up, and things would be fine between us. But one time, she betrayed me and it infuriated me for years. But, over time, it changed and now it gets me sexually aroused thinking about it.

My wife and I got into a particularly big argument and I left and went to my parent’s house to calm down. Where we lived at the time, the next door neighbors had become friendly with us. Well, there was this very cocky Americanized Middle Eastern guy who was best friends with the neighbors and always around. He had especially taken a liking to my wife and made it very obvious that he liked her and wanted to fuck her bad. I could not stand the guy because I could tell how bad he wanted my wife. Plus, he was just a cocky SOB, whose family had money and he liked to flaunt it.

Flash forward to the fight, and I left to my parents house for a couple days because the fight we had was bad. So, the guy made a move on my wife and he got her in his car late at night to talk. My wife said she has a maxi sundress on and they made out for a while. He eventually had her pull out her tits, where he licked and sucked them and played with them for a while. Finally, she pulled up the dress and pulled her panties to the side and he fucked her hard until they both came.

I actually found out about the affair because I found their Facebook messenger chat. I was so angry and livid. They were flirting, and saying how they wanted to meet up again, and complimenting each other. It upset me to the core when I was scrolling through their chat (and for several years later).

Fast forward to over a decade later, and my development of a full blown Hotpast and cuckold fetish, and I now ask my wife for details of the affair, which gets me instantly hard and I cum in her thinking and talking about her affair. A year ago, I even asked her if she would like to hit the guy up to rekindle the affair or have a part two. My wife absolutely declined with no wiggle room.

Finally, it is interesting how perspectives and feelings have completely changed over the years, and an event that caused me so much anger and frustration, for years, is now an event that gets me aroused on thought or command, and now, I only wish their affair had been longer and more sexually devious in nature.
 
Many years ago, my wife and I used to fight often. It was sort of just assumed we would argue and bicker, and when we fought bad enough, I would go stay at my parents house to cool off. Then, we would work it out and make up, and things would be fine between us. But one time, she betrayed me and it infuriated me for years. But, over time, it changed and now it gets me sexually aroused thinking about it.

My wife and I got into a particularly big argument and I left and went to my parent’s house to calm down. Where we lived at the time, the next door neighbors had become friendly with us. Well, there was this very cocky Americanized Middle Eastern guy who was best friends with the neighbors and always around. He had especially taken a liking to my wife and made it very obvious that he liked her and wanted to fuck her bad. I could not stand the guy because I could tell how bad he wanted my wife. Plus, he was just a cocky SOB, whose family had money and he liked to flaunt it.

Flash forward to the fight, and I left to my parents house for a couple days because the fight we had was bad. So, the guy made a move on my wife and he got her in his car late at night to talk. My wife said she has a maxi sundress on and they made out for a while. He eventually had her pull out her tits, where he licked and sucked them and played with them for a while. Finally, she pulled up the dress and pulled her panties to the side and he fucked her hard until they both came.

I actually found out about the affair because I found their Facebook messenger chat. I was so angry and livid. They were flirting, and saying how they wanted to meet up again, and complimenting each other. It upset me to the core when I was scrolling through their chat (and for several years later).

Fast forward to over a decade later, and my development of a full blown Hotpast and cuckold fetish, and I now ask my wife for details of the affair, which gets me instantly hard and I cum in her thinking and talking about her affair. A year ago, I even asked her if she would like to hit the guy up to rekindle the affair or have a part two. My wife absolutely declined with no wiggle room.

Finally, it is interesting how perspectives and feelings have completely changed over the years, and an event that caused me so much anger and frustration, for years, is now an event that gets me aroused on thought or command, and now, I only wish their affair had been longer and more sexually devious in nature.
maybe you need to ... her off and go run to mommy and daddy house again.
 
My wife did also, she had sex with their ex. The first week we started dating he made sure he fucked her as revenge since she got with me
Carl he wouldn't have fucked her again if she hadn't of wanted him to, so don't blame him, after all he was only doing what she wanted him to and that was for him to give her the fucking of her life.
 
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Many years ago, my wife and I used to fight often. It was sort of just assumed we would argue and bicker, and when we fought bad enough, I would go stay at my parents house to cool off. Then, we would work it out and make up, and things would be fine between us. But one time, she betrayed me and it infuriated me for years. But, over time, it changed and now it gets me sexually aroused thinking about it.

My wife and I got into a particularly big argument and I left and went to my parent’s house to calm down. Where we lived at the time, the next door neighbors had become friendly with us. Well, there was this very cocky Americanized Middle Eastern guy who was best friends with the neighbors and always around. He had especially taken a liking to my wife and made it very obvious that he liked her and wanted to fuck her bad. I could not stand the guy because I could tell how bad he wanted my wife. Plus, he was just a cocky SOB, whose family had money and he liked to flaunt it.

Flash forward to the fight, and I left to my parents house for a couple days because the fight we had was bad. So, the guy made a move on my wife and he got her in his car late at night to talk. My wife said she has a maxi sundress on and they made out for a while. He eventually had her pull out her tits, where he licked and sucked them and played with them for a while. Finally, she pulled up the dress and pulled her panties to the side and he fucked her hard until they both came.

I actually found out about the affair because I found their Facebook messenger chat. I was so angry and livid. They were flirting, and saying how they wanted to meet up again, and complimenting each other. It upset me to the core when I was scrolling through their chat (and for several years later).

Fast forward to over a decade later, and my development of a full blown Hotpast and cuckold fetish, and I now ask my wife for details of the affair, which gets me instantly hard and I cum in her thinking and talking about her affair. A year ago, I even asked her if she would like to hit the guy up to rekindle the affair or have a part two. My wife absolutely declined with no wiggle room.

Finally, it is interesting how perspectives and feelings have completely changed over the years, and an event that caused me so much anger and frustration, for years, is now an event that gets me aroused on thought or command, and now, I only wish their affair had been longer and more sexually devious in nature.
Imagine hiding in the back seat of the car while someone like me face fucks your wife in the front seat
 
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When I read your title it brought back memories of a guy that used to hit on me at the club so often and every time my husband turned his back. He found out and almost got into a fight with him multiple times. But even I cussed the guy out saying I wasn't interested. He kept saying things like , your husband is a bitch and told me when I was there on a girls night out that he told my husband face to face he was gonna have me eventually and said my husband just walked away. I didn't believe him but him talking bad about my husband started to have the opposite effect you would think. I'm not even attracted to the guy he's ugly seriously but he started getting into my head lol.
 
I had a girlfriend that was oddly attracted to a guy I didn't like at all. He had some kind of hold on my girlfriend for reasons I still can't explain and after a party one night she went home with the guy without asking me or let me know about it. I didn't know where the guy lived so I went home and was so close to break up with her when she showed up the next morning, reeking of the guys heat, sex and cum.. She was not able to tell me why she had let the guy fuck her that night, and believe me, he had fucked her all night long, cos of the strange hold he had on her, but it was not the last time he fucked my girlfriend in the three following years we were together... It was like non of us was able to stop him from doing it... Very strange..
 
When I read your title it brought back memories of a guy that used to hit on me at the club so often and every time my husband turned his back. He found out and almost got into a fight with him multiple times. But even I cussed the guy out saying I wasn't interested. He kept saying things like , your husband is a bitch and told me when I was there on a girls night out that he told my husband face to face he was gonna have me eventually and said my husband just walked away. I didn't believe him but him talking bad about my husband started to have the opposite effect you would think. I'm not even attracted to the guy he's ugly seriously but he started getting into my head lol.
he didn't want to be in your head, maybe your mouth, but defiantly your panties
 
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I don’t think there’s anything at all strange or unusual about your converting feelings and thoughts from times that were difficult and tumultuous, especially to do with a partner’s infidelity, into something that you ultimately discover may have unlimited and unquenchable erotic energy and appeal..maybe for the rest of your sexual life! I think a lot of us have experienced something like that. These things happen for a reason, and you can learn and grow from them together, and locate a new balance. You can find grace and gratitude personally too.
 
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My wife developed an attraction to a man who we see at parties.

Last one she was playing with him and while he was fucking her with her leg in the air she told me to rub her of clit, saying 'that was not a request'.
We all develop attractions to other people from time to time, if She told him to play with her clit while he was fucking her and that's something she does not do with you, just maybe she needed extra stimulation to orgasm with him, after all she only wanted to cum, lol
 
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